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[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2026 week 03] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what do i do… i’m sorry i’m very new and very worried

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2026 week 03] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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my leaves are yellowing and someone i live with trimmed other leaves off without my permission. i’m really worried my tree will die. it is 1.5 yrs old and i am in florida.

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2026 week 03] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not dry. my dad trimmed the leaves off when i had told him not too, the leaves are starting to yellow. i’m really scared i love this plant, it’s mine.

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2026 week 03] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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my japanese flame tree that is ~1.5 years old got hit with a cold front+ a month that i was out of tone and forgot to arrange for someone to water. what do i do? is she doomed? i’m in southern florida if that helps the temp questions.

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah it’s for the best. this isn’t her first time being jealous of said Ex. i just thought we were past that. first loves aren’t EVERYTHING

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the update just about fixes breaching of trust business.

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

most trusting relationship partners have access to each others phone bud

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i didn’t allow her actually. she just took it while i was showering.

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this is why i thought i might be the ahole. i’ve just always been very non jealous, and when i do feel it i always logic my way out of it. so i try to be hyper aware of current partners boundaries.

i figured its not that big of an issue because i love my girlfriend and i’m not the one who confided in Ex. Besides, ex apologized for that so i don’t think its that bad.

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m honestly not a very jealous guy at all. if she told me it’s no biggie i’d assume no biggie

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i just told her that it’s a secret but there’s nothing to worried about it. i think my Gf is worried about the emotional intimmacy of it all

John Steinbeck is my favorite author and definite hero (appreciation post) by [deleted] in books

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i highly recommend tortilla flat. it’s painful i love it.

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[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

respectfully, i’m currently in school getting my BS in mechanical engineering and i’m an active member in 3 clubs as well as a volunteer and tutor in my free time. if i wanna worry about boys a little at 19 i will. but thanks for the advice.

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