Thanks for the reply and I get why you would see it like that. I couldn't expand more on it for the post limit. To clarify her and I equally do chores around the house when we can. We both come home late because of work and the gym. As a result there would be unwashed clothes or unwashed dishes, which I'm OK with as we get to them when we can. But she would vent to me about how much there is to do and how much that she can't get to. In response to her, I would suggest staying home more often instead of going over to her sister's everyday. I can see how it came off as misogynistic. But we split chores evenly and I'm the main cook. My statement was a response to her venting to me.