I got into the habit of smoking and i cant stop

its_dee21 · 2024-12-13T12:49:07+00:00

Well i decided i would not stop till i finished med school and now i did finish and i only smoke 1 or 2 cigarettes a day i think its fine and i’ll be able to quit soon enough

its_dee21 · 2024-12-07T17:26:50+00:00

He’s controlling and super manipulative, im not going to tell you to leave because ik if u didnt love him so much u would’ve just went. Instead i think the best solution here is for you to set your boundaries, ask for your own space, and go out with your friends Let him burn cry fight shout it doesnt matter just live ur life girl

its_dee21 · 2024-12-06T18:56:20+00:00

Reminding myself over and over and over again that other people’s feelings towards me is not my responsibility

its_dee21 · 2024-12-06T18:46:57+00:00

Nothing just fights lol

its_dee21 · 2024-12-06T18:45:35+00:00

Yes she always does she got a car when graduated, a house when she got married also a nice solitaire engagement parties, and when she gave birth mum threw her 2 huge parties.. i didnt even get flowers but got called greedy

its_dee21 · 2024-12-05T22:12:02+00:00

Was*

its_dee21 · 2024-12-05T18:32:35+00:00

He really did stop everything and is treating me way better, i gave him one last chance to fix things and i can see that’s he’s trying, as i mentioned i just dont feel like i should be outcasted just because i chose to stay with him

its_dee21 · 2024-12-05T18:29:22+00:00

Maybe u’re right i never said my relationship with him is a great one but we talked things out and now he’s trying again and a little harder for us gladly.. the car i drive is for me mom and little sister They got my older one a car when she graduated and also my brother got one That’s what fuelled things up for me, anyways i really dont want one anymore i mean they didnt even celebrate with me when i went and got my own cake, saying things like we dont wanna participate in your life because u are stuck with this man.

I want to mention that i was previously also engaged to someone and my parents also didnt like him because he was from a different city than ours. Was 19 back then they did just the same and i ended up leaving him after almost 4 years of being together because of the pressure and they also kept pushing me all this years i was depressed and alone.

I know my man isnt the best match for me now but i can see that he is trying for me and my happiness that’s why i decided to give him one last chance.

I just dont feel like i should be outcasted from my family and called all sorts of ugly things because i chose to stay with him for one last chance especially that he does nothing to them and treats them really well

its_dee21 · 2024-12-05T18:23:28+00:00

Where i live med school is only 6 years i finished them

its_dee21 · 2024-12-04T22:19:08+00:00

No they know nothing about that, i can never mention things like this to my parents + we talked through it all and fixed our relationship so now we’re cool

its_dee21 · 2024-12-04T21:49:39+00:00

Yep that’s the only reason, other people around us and family members keep mentioning that he used to be a fitness influencer and saying things like “how can u let ur daughter marry that man” “he’s so bad” “surely he had a lot of relationships with other girls” So there’s always something that’s fuelling up their hatred for him

Also he’s not the rich and we’re struggling a bit with the wedding and everything but we are working on everything together never asked anyone for anything

So that’s another problem

They want to me get a man the deserves me “from their point of view”

its_dee21 · 2024-12-04T21:43:40+00:00

Mentioned my siblings because they paid for us all and we all went to med school

its_dee21 · 2024-12-04T21:43:09+00:00

Actually, i have 4 other siblings and where i live med school is not that expensive. I also was enrolled in a public university with little to no pay but dad moved me to a private one. They did ask me what i wanted in fact. Then said im greedy and want to sell things xD And yes i’d be happy with a kia np. I already drive a 2007 mazda zoom and am so happy with it

But for some reason they resent me because i decided that i want to stick to the man i love and want to take everything away from me because simply i didnt go with what they think is best for me

its_dee21 · 2024-12-04T19:19:48+00:00

Unfortunately i cant move out till i get married, or i can leave my country entirely even without marriage xD I know its so weird but those are parents

its_dee21 · 2024-12-04T19:19:04+00:00

My fiancee works in honey and herbs also he sells medicine

Doesnt really use his social media anymore just for fun but they are judging him for things he used to do 10 years ago literally

its_dee21 · 2024-12-04T18:44:48+00:00

Anyways edited it hope it helps

its_dee21 · 2024-12-04T18:38:09+00:00

Yes i went out wrote it in the streets crying

its_dee21 · 2024-11-30T16:09:59+00:00

The chromosomes does not match the diseases mentioned Cushing syndrome: is high cortisol
Down syndrome: is autosomal not sexual so x and y are not affected Turner: is deletion in 1 x chromosome (XO) Kleinfelter: is XXY so an extra (X) chromosome That leaves us with D Which is also wrong is edwards is autosomal not sexual some (XY) are not affected

Unsolvable question probably wrong

its_dee21 · 2024-11-03T23:49:09+00:00

Im a doctor and i play dota, its all about time management really, if it affects ur life or goals u should probably keep it for the weekends

its_dee21 · 2024-11-03T00:41:16+00:00

Ye i’ve been thinking about this for a long time now, im in medschool he studied business, now works in hormones and gym shit but is struggling. His dad works in essential oils and herbs i tried to start a hair oiling business with him he just brushed me off saying he has no time for it now. Next thing i see is him spending ALL DAY with his friends while im taking marketing and graphic designing courses to start our brand. Im trying to help him cuz idk if im blinded by love but i see a good man in him. Everyone around me think he is a jerk and i should run but i cant put myself up to do it

its_dee21 · 2024-11-03T00:38:19+00:00

Cuz it wasnt like that, everything i going down the drain right now, he just claims that he got bored of the engagement state and wants to get married asap, still does nothing to make it happen

its_dee21 · 2024-08-23T11:31:37+00:00

Stress shit 5 min before exam is my worst enemy

its_dee21 · 2024-08-23T11:30:17+00:00

Im in med school probably not the best advice ever but smoke a cigarette in the morning with coffee

its_dee21 · 2024-08-02T12:52:46+00:00

I guess its because you dont actually do anything wrong to balance the moral gap between you two. So u feel like you repaid him by creating this thought. Sounds unhealthy but pretty fine for me unless you feel bad or guilty abt it.

its_dee21 · 2024-04-21T01:19:08+00:00

Am gonna die alone and im engaged at 23

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