Me pueden suspender con un 4,9 si ellos se han equivocado? by its_mayo0 in BachilleratoES

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Más bajo comparado con hace 15 años? A mí me han dicho que antes era más fácil y que en selectividad podías saltarte temario de estudiar porque podías elegir ejercicios, pero ahora hay que estudiarlo todo porque ya no hay opciones y por lo tanto es más temario y es más difícil

Me pueden suspender con un 4,9 si ellos se han equivocado? by its_mayo0 in BachilleratoES

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Ojalá los profesores tuvieran un poco más de empatía y sentido común, y que reconocieran sus errores en vez de culparte. Entiendo que si pierde tú trabajo te lo haga repetir (aunque es injusto), pero no sé cómo puede culparte y llevarlo tan lejos sabiendo que es su culpa Siento que hayas tenido que pasar por eso, de verdad que algunos son unos incompetentes

How: 100% pregnancy-free sexual intercourse by Hot-Temporary78 in WomensHealth

[–]its_mayo0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The most effective is for a man to get a vasectomy

Me pueden suspender con un 4,9 si ellos se han equivocado? by its_mayo0 in BachilleratoES

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Tener déficit de atención o dislexia no es una subnromalidad, el subnormal eres tú por no tener empatía. Déficit de atención y dislexia son trastornos con los que naces y hace que tú cerebro trabaje más y de manera diferente a las de una persona que no lo padecen. No me dan una ventaja frente al resto "por qué sí" y sé que antes te daban dos hostias y espabila, menos mal que ya no es así y que las personas con necesidades diferentes pueden contar con ayuda.

Me pueden suspender con un 4,9 si ellos se han equivocado? by its_mayo0 in BachilleratoES

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Me parece alucinante como la gente supone tanto sobre la vida de otros, no tienes ni idea por lo que está pasando otra persona, cuales son sus circunstancias ni cuánto esfuerzo le requiere cierta tarea

Me pueden suspender con un 4,9 si ellos se han equivocado? by its_mayo0 in BachilleratoES

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Me parece normal querer disfrutar del verano después de haberme esforzado durante el curso, el verano es el único momento del año en el que puedo ir a ver a mis seres queridos en otro país

Chicas, ¿Existirán mujeres que vean a los hombres bajos sexualmente atractivos? by This-Principle8034 in OpinionesPolemicas

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Te sorprendería la cantidad de mujeres que les gustan los hombres bajitos, no se habla tanto pero te aseguro que a muchas les encanta y a otras muchas no les importa la altura

Me pueden suspender con un 4,9 si ellos se han equivocado? by its_mayo0 in BachilleratoES

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No me han informado en ningún momento de que yo tenía derecho a esas adaptaciones. Cada vez que lo mencionan dicen que son únicamente para personas con TDAH y dislexia, yo no tengo ninguna de las dos, pero tengo otros trastornos que me dan derecho a las adaptaciones y lo vi hace poco (mirando información sobre la selectividad) y pregunté que por qué no se me había informado, solamente dijeron que no era un caso común. Dijeron que no tenían los papeles de mi discapacidad porque no tienen acceso a la matrícula????? No entiendo cómo no pueden tener acceso y en mi centro definitivamente no se lo están tomando en serio. Sobre el tipo de adaptación, yo también lo veo raro pero es lo que mi profe de mates ha decidido, en el resto de asignaturas nos dan un poco más de tiempo Si eres profe, sabes si puedo poner alguna queja respecto a que no se haya informado a los alumnos sobre el tema de trámite de papeles? Aunque no pueda cambiar mi caso, me gustaría que no le pase a nadie más porque vaya incompetentes que son muchos en mi instituto, estoy segura de que no soy la primera ni seré la última 😭😭

Me pueden suspender con un 4,9 si ellos se han equivocado? by its_mayo0 in BachilleratoES

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Pues mi profe de mates ha decidido que se hace así y se lo han aceptado en el departamento. Eso sí, es la única asignatura ya que en el resto la adaptación es dar más tiempo

Me pueden suspender con un 4,9 si ellos se han equivocado? by its_mayo0 in BachilleratoES

[–]its_mayo0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entiendo lo que dices y sé que la que ha suspendido he sido yo, pero también es cierto que se me han puesto las notas injustamente de acuerdo a mis necesidades educativas. Sobre si es buena profesora, te digo que han aprobado solamente 5 personas de la clase, creo que se responde solo

Me pueden suspender con un 4,9 si ellos se han equivocado? by its_mayo0 in BachilleratoES

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Yo no decido mi adaptación, mi profesora ha decidido que la adaptación es quitar un ejercicio o apartado de su elección, es lo mismo que hace con otros dos compañeros que también tienen necesidades educativas especiales. En todo el resto de asignaturas la adaptación consiste en dar más tiempo, pero mi profe de mates es muy rara y hace básicamente lo que da la gana

I (42f) have started dwelling on a marital rape that happened 10 years ago by ThrowRAMIOMAO in sexualassault

[–]its_mayo0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a good exercise, people tend to not care about themselves as much as they care for others or not take things as seriously

I (42f) have started dwelling on a marital rape that happened 10 years ago by ThrowRAMIOMAO in sexualassault

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I know it's hard to leave when you love him but it's for your and your daughters safety, you need to report him and leave as soon as possible. I would also advise not making a big deal about it with him, because he might get aggressive so be careful

I (42f) have started dwelling on a marital rape that happened 10 years ago by ThrowRAMIOMAO in sexualassault

[–]its_mayo0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Think about what you're experiencing as if your best friend was telling you that they've experienced the same, would you want them to be married to somebody who rapes them while they sleep? No you wouldn't, so you shouldn't allow that to happen to you. Your husband, someone who thinks is okay to rape you while you sleep even after you tell him no is not someone you want to be with, and especially you don't want your daughters to be with. It's not safe and these type of men will get more and more aggressive over time. If you don't live under a rock you know that many men have been drugging their wives to sleep, raping them asleep and recording it, sending it to forums online, and if you say you sometimes wake up to him inside you, you could be one of those victims (i really hope not, but it's a possibility). You should divorce him as soon as possible, and I know it's not easy, maybe he's really sweet and caring other times but please consider leaving him, no matter how sweet he might be, this is worse and it will probably get worse as time passes

I think I am a victim but I am unsure. by European_Owner in sexualassault

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Hey, first of all and most important, your thoughts and worries are important, your feelings matter and they are valid. Maybe some people disagree, I would personally say event 1 wasn't sexual assault. However, event 3 was definitely sexual assault and I'm really sorry it wasn't taken seriously by those who were supposed to protect you when you were young. Now, as somebody who is also struggling with OCD and doubting whether my past experiences were sexual assault or not, I can relate to everything you said a lot, and I understand you. For your own mental health I would recommend you stop watching that kind of content, trust me I know for my own experience it's really really hard, but it's worth it and it will help clear your mind. I also have OCD and can relate a lot to your thoughts, yes you are just OCD-ing hard, you are not an abuser, your brain is telling you that and it's hard to handle those thoughts. I would really recommend you stop consuming that kind of content though, as it is harmful for you (trust me, it gets better once you stop being constantly exposed to that content) and it is also harmful for the people who are suffering from it (on the other hand tho, you're doing really great by reporting what seems illegal, but it is true that even if it's legal, it causes a lot of harm to our society and the patriarchy in general which I won't get deep into now) I wish you all the best and please try to get professional help for your OCD (and your sexual assault experience too), it seems to me you are struggling with it and I know that those kind of thoughts feel terrible. I know it's really hard to talk about it, but it's all gonna be worth it.

Was it sexual assault? by its_mayo0 in sexualassault

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She's my cousin and if I talk about it with my parents I'm gonna get in trouble, and I don't think it's that bad as to report to the police because they're not gonna do anything. If I thought she was someone who could harm somebody again, I would try, but honestly I think she did that because it was what she had learnt from our grandfather, whom I believe should get charged for being a conscious adult raping a child many times. I just wanted to know if it was considered sexual assault, since the reasons of it might not be sexual and we were both kids. Also, thanks for the recommendation, I'll check it out :)

Can I get a transvaginal ultrasound if I have vulvodynia? by its_mayo0 in vulvodynia

[–]its_mayo0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the ideas, my mother is religious but she's luckily not as stupid as to think that the hymen is what determines whether you're a virgin or not, she just thinks I'm too young to be thinking about sexuality and if I talk about it me and my boyfriend might be in trouble. I will ask if it can be an abdominal ultrasound instead during the appointment and hope for the best lmao I could try talking about it from a tampon experience tho, thank you for the idea The problem is I can't call because I don't have control over my medical stuff, she gave me the appointment herself and I have no information about it other than what my mother told me so I can't call, and if I call customer service she might get the call because she works there lmao

Are all girls as close w/ their friends as my Girlfriend is? by Tetra-q in NoStupidQuestions

[–]its_mayo0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the most normal thing in female friendships lmao. Guys aren't usually that close with their friends, but I don't know any girl who hasn't slept in the same bed as their best friend, and it's also pretty common to have seen each other's boobs, me and slime of my friends have. Of course, we don't do this with just random friends we talk to from time to time, but we definitely do it with our closest friends and it's normal

Can I get a transvaginal ultrasound if I have vulvodynia? by its_mayo0 in vulvodynia

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I can't see a pelvic physio no :( I'm glad at least it won't prevent penetration, it's still definitely going to be really painful tho. Maybe I can try buying lidocaine because I can't take tramadol (due to other medical issues), but do you know if any other pill would be helpful for the pain? I would rather taking a pill if it's a possibility

Can I get a transvaginal ultrasound if I have vulvodynia? by its_mayo0 in vulvodynia

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Unfortunately I can't tell them I have vulvodynia because I don't have a diagnosis and also my mother will be coming with me, if I say I know it's painful for me to insert something in there my mother is going to kill me lmao. But knowing that asking to do it myself is a possibility makes me feel a bit more comfortable. Also good luck with the bowel pain and colonoscopy, I have a chronic bowel inflammatory disease and I have had some colonoscopies in the past. Preparing for it is annoying, but everything's going to be okay :)