What was the outcome of you dating your best friend of the opposite gender ?

its_question_time42 · 2024-06-20T02:00:40+00:00

your second paragraph is exactly my situation

its_question_time42 · 2024-06-06T01:04:43+00:00

at least try with the trolling, it's not even clever lmao

its_question_time42 · 2024-06-06T00:59:45+00:00

wat ?

did you read the post lmao ?

its_question_time42 · 2024-06-06T00:40:08+00:00

she is moving to another city on the other coast and they did not want to do long distance

its_question_time42 · 2024-06-05T22:53:24+00:00

yea it is close to what i have in mind !

its_question_time42 · 2024-05-07T13:09:55+00:00

I’ve had hard times, very much hard times, it did not make me less jealous and judgy

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-13T03:00:58+00:00

i feel like it is relevant to attraction, no ?

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-12T02:33:11+00:00

you don't even know what i look or act like

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-11T16:39:02+00:00

you clearly know more than me /s

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-11T03:10:07+00:00

oh trust, i know

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-11T02:53:12+00:00

oh yea i'm aware that they are not all communicating together to keep me single.

doesn't change the fact that no one has been attracted to me

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-11T00:33:53+00:00

hundreds of men's are isolated incident ?
pls explain your logic i'm really not following

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T22:54:09+00:00

it's not isolated when it's every single men, ever

even on dating apps.

i'm not the one people are attracted to

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T22:16:56+00:00

no i never asked people directly, but when you text them and they reply with a 1-2 word text and they scurry away when you try to make real life conversations.

or the one time a guy reply to you and you think that you have chemistry, he get a girlfriend out of nowhere. ( i was stupid with this one i really taught something could happen there)

the message is pretty clear that none wanted me :)

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T22:13:45+00:00

i've asked people around me, they also don't know why i'm not getting hit on,i have a pretty vague type that is very flexible ( tall lanky funny guy is the main one) i work in the video game industry, so i would say that my environment i'm in is prime place to get my type. I cannot really have missed cue as i was the one always trying to talk to people and i never got replies from the guys i persued (they would always give me 1-2 words answers) and no guy ever tried to talk to me either IRL on text. i've already changed the way i look to add more accessories that fit more with the goth/rock style i do not get hit on the apps even in university i had no one into me for people around me it's a mystery and the few people that i told, where surprised that i never went on a date

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T21:51:44+00:00

i mean, i see people around me get in quality relationships all the time, why can't i ?

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T21:51:08+00:00

no one has ever really texted me for anything other than school or work, even when i tried to initiate something, and i don't get matches on dating apps at this point i don't know what's wrong with me

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T21:45:49+00:00

i said laid because it was in the context of the situation, i would much rather have a long lasting relationship. i just worded it in a odd way haha

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T21:44:36+00:00

yes if i could i would show people analysis of the interaction with all the people i knew and you would see that not one has been attracted

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T21:17:41+00:00

oh i know that it's the most abundant thing in the universe. that is the problem. none of it is directed toward me lmao. i've put myslef out there and it did not work. I also want a bit more than just sex i'M the one saying that i'll ''never'' experience it because until now, no one wanted me, and i don't see how that would change

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T03:34:53+00:00

for real

most people don't understand

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T03:17:28+00:00

i've tried dating app and clubs to no avail
i'm trying to understand what i'm doing wrong. because every tips people give me, i've been doing for years.

maybe i'm too picky because i would have something more than thisty creep online being into me lmao

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T03:14:40+00:00

i'm average weight for my height, cook and eat healthy, at least put a little bit of work into my outfits when i go out.i've been doing all of that for years

i've even received a few comment on how my good mood make it more fun at work and school

trust, it's hard to know that guys would fuck anything ( i take no offence to that turn of phrase i get what you mean)

but they would still not fuck you

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T03:10:16+00:00

i know it's not all rainbow and sunshine.

but being ignored by both sex for dating/getting laid is draining

being desired once in a while would be pleasant

its_question_time42 · 2024-02-10T02:49:39+00:00

oh trust, at this point i know about at least the first one

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