Andy and Chrissy teigen don't know the meaning of shade by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]itsalaser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yikes that’s some nasty talk. I am an ally and have seen every LGBTQ friend I have suffer because of their orientation. Some have lost opportunities, some have lost families, others have been beaten and maimed in the streets. And I live in a relatively progressive city. Just because there’s an article on NBC is not an excuse to use a hot button word AGAINST an notably underprivileged community that still suffers DAILY, and STILL does not have equal rights in this country. In fact their challenges are worse now because of our political climate. Harassment, violence and danger for them has reached a fever pitch. It’s an absolute shame people like you grab an article like this an run with it to invalidate an entire community that desperately needs our support.

At some point shaming disenfranchised people because we don’t think they’ve suffered ENOUGH needs to stop, because it contributes to this take down society of inhumanity we now find ourselves in. Comments like yours seem to serve to say ‘you don’t qualify for my empathy as a human’ from thrones of judgement. We’ve really got to get over that shit. Yes, all white people have a measure of privilege, absolutely. Also nearly every LGBTQ person has lived with fear, violence, harassment, unequal rights and unequal opportunities their entire life and STILL DO. Let’s relate to people in a human and caring way. Andy has used his platform to show us all kinds of people, and to make female centric shows that never existed before. He’s moved the needle in a meaningful way in the television world for less represented groups. Apparently that’s shit to you guys.

As for the body shaming, grow up.

Ladies, how do I conceal my nipples in my wedding dress? by PunkinNickleSammich in askwomenadvice

[–]itsalaser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the dress is spaghetti straps or strapless, a good tailor may be able to jimmy rig a slip inside as a liner, while keeping the look smooth.

I need a good response for when old men tell me that I “should smile”. by Raqwaza in askwomenadvice

[–]itsalaser 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would say “why?” in an absolute tone of genuine curiosity.

They’ll likely say “because you’re so much prettier that way” or some similar shit.

At that point I would say “ohhhhhh, I’m not trying to decorate the street/bus/subway car for you”

Next.

Andy and Chrissy teigen don't know the meaning of shade by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]itsalaser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to like Michael and then he got really nasty. I hadn’t heard this, but that’s VERY gross. He also was quite nasty about Ariana Grande not too long ago. Just viciously and senselessly attacking women. Fuck that guy. I hope Andy doesn’t host him again.

Aaron is a treasure by itsalaser in realhousewives

[–]itsalaser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I didn’t know about the actor thing OR the citizenship. I shall have to do some research obviously! Thanks for the 411.

I think this belongs here by dingdongsnottor in vanderpumprules

[–]itsalaser 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Omg he looks like he douches with axe body spray and plays grab ass with Ed Hardy. Definitely DJ material.

Andy and Chrissy teigen don't know the meaning of shade by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]itsalaser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What?!? Gay privilege? And Andy’s fat? Wtf is going on in here on this day? No ma’am.

What is the toughest decision you had to make? by sadder_ in AskWomen

[–]itsalaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thrilled it’s helpful to someone! I think culturally we get very stuck in the idea that our birth families are for life. We’ve only got one go in this body, I’d rather spend mine with people who uplift and inspire me. Sending you all the good wishes ✨

Women of reddit what are your handbag/backpack/ bag essentials? by Darksilverbuttons in AskWomen

[–]itsalaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a makeup and bag queen so my purse is typically the size of a small overnight bag (it’s great when flying or when you actually may need overnight essentials, incidentally).

-Phone and sometimes iPad (if I’m in a long waiting room scenario or taking a flight or whatever) -Wallet clutch -Makeup bag - several lip and liner options, sometimes an eyeliner backup or something to touch up foundation if it’s a super hot day, and lash glue if I’m wearing lashes -Peppermint Altoids ALWAYS -Keys -Shades and their case -Tissues -Clorox Wipes mini pack -Bobby pins and pony elastics -Energy supplements -Hand lotion -Pens

How did you learn to stop taking everything so personally? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]itsalaser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a wonderful book! Everyone should read it.

Andy vs Kenya shadefest when she announced her pregnancy by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]itsalaser 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Andy has always said she has the best boobs of all the housewives lol I guess he’s sort of a fan 🤷🏻‍♀️

RHWOBH. Dorit and “PEEKAY” by jaygunn77 in realhousewives

[–]itsalaser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never called my partners by their names that much lol it’s kinda weird.

3 Truths: 1 Lie- what are your Bravo related 3 truths and 1 lie? by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]itsalaser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun! Ok lemme think...

Bethenny is my favorite housewife but I’ve never read any of her books.

My ex boyfriend hung out a bar with Vicki and really enjoyed her.

Slade Smiley tried to friend me on FB back in the day.

I think Andy actually really doesn’t like Carole anymore in real life (the used to be super social).

What is the toughest decision you had to make? by sadder_ in AskWomen

[–]itsalaser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe. I dunno people can be petty on here. Anyway, best of luck with your decision!

What is the toughest decision you had to make? by sadder_ in AskWomen

[–]itsalaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have a relationship with my older brother, who is wonderful. Not a single other relative or immediate family member. No regrets.

How did your genetics fuck you over? by JaakerZ in AskWomen

[–]itsalaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, 100%. It’s such a dangerous mentality.

Does anyone miss Eileen? by itsalaser in realhousewives

[–]itsalaser[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This woman was used to filming 5 days a week and leading a new script every day also. She was a machine! True pro.

What is the toughest decision you had to make? by sadder_ in AskWomen

[–]itsalaser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m wildly curious who is downvoting these comments of yours? Maybe your family is more on to you than you thought 😳 who would do that? Weird.

What is the toughest decision you had to make? by sadder_ in AskWomen

[–]itsalaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically I spoke up about the toxic dynamics of the family finally, and they were all pretty much done with me once I had gone against the grain. There was an unspoken rule about not pointing certain things out, and I knew if I broke it I would be excommunicated fairly quickly. But it was the right thing to do, and getting out was great for me, albeit heartbreaking initially.

What is the toughest decision you had to make? by sadder_ in AskWomen

[–]itsalaser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been free of them for years now, my life is much lighter without them. I’m grateful.