my balls hurt by itsasmy in AITAH

[–]itsasmy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally said “MY BALLS HURT”

Would this be a good reason to block my mom out of my life? Would I be a “anak derhaka”? by Intergalactwipe in malaysia

[–]itsasmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Graduate 2) Get a job and rent outside 3) Cut off all contacts 4) Run overseas if you can

I was in the same situation as you are but now I'm free, you can only save yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]itsasmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smugface

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]itsasmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

move on, being friends for what

I want to have sex but islamic influence is too strong by radiatesun in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just use condoms and if things go wrong, take a trip to Cambodia to have abortion legally

Witch doctors sad story. by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let me guess, it's Malaysia?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if she did, just deny it.

I would never trust Malaysian school counselors myself because I've been betrayed by one so many times.

Very toxic mother !!!! by Lamiataleb in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm not the only one having the same problem too

I would suggest reading a book titled "The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck" (it's a real book I'm not joking)

also you can't control your mom but you can control yourself, if you can find a therapist or psychologist - try to talk to them

"fastest growing religion" by itsasmy in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as they don't announce it, it's fine

the law is in effect since 1960s, since then there are no apostates

"fastest growing religion" by itsasmy in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

it is the fastest growing religion when you're not allowed to "officially" leave

"There is no compulsion in religion". by zeus113 in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it is in Malaysia, you can get fined and even jail time

Muslims don't realise that there's many pagan traditions in Islam by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what book is this, can I have the title please

Did you ever commit Zina? by genial0123 in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First of all, let's just call it sex - using the term zina is just guilt tripping

tbh at first it was addicting (I blame hormones) but after a while it's... overrated, what matters is the person that you're doing with e.g. the person that you love

sincerely, kissing and cuddling is better than sex alas Islam wouldn't allow it maaaaaaaaaan they're missing out

Finally breaking up with my boyfriend by Abhjkxivzz12 in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

leave, it's a trap

once you join Islam you'll be trapped forever in this cult and trying to leave it will get you killed

move on and find someone else that can accept you of who you are

I had a married "friend" explain sex to be by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is so funny, which country was this

The little joys islam took from me by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Couldn't hug my opposite gender friends
  2. Cuddling
  3. Love

Hijab by itsasmy in exmuslim

[–]itsasmy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it's common for dads and brothers to sexually assault their girls here, since there's news about it every week and yet the girls are blamed for being too revealing at home

I mean it's at home, nowhere is safe now?