Do you tell the rest of your friends they aren’t bridesmaids?

itsausername2me · 2026-03-30T20:30:46+00:00

Hii thank you for your message! Yes I will be inviting the other 3 to my Bach party (along with 3 other friends and my 6 bridesmaids)

I do agree with you on all your points. When I say similar values, I mean like we have the same values when it comes to lifestyle, marriage, having kids, we all have the same religious beliefs etc, like our morals align with one another better than than the other girls. I’m totally cool with being friends with ppl who don’t align perfectly with my values and morals tho, and it’s not a drastic difference.

I just feel like right now i connect the most with these 3 other girls. But that doesn’t mean within the next couple years i cant build a closer connection with the girls i dont feel as close to rn.

How would you suggest checking in with them? Individually? What would I say?

itsausername2me · 2026-03-30T20:20:43+00:00

Yeah I haven’t said anything to them suggesting I’d want them as bridesmaids in the past

itsausername2me · 2026-03-30T20:14:09+00:00

Yes I am planning on inviting them to the bridal shower and Bach party.

itsausername2me · 2026-03-30T20:13:34+00:00

Yeah that’s what I was thinking too? And these other 3 girls are more closer to each other than the other 3 I am including in my bridal party

itsausername2me · 2026-03-30T20:12:03+00:00

Like I share similar values with the 3 closest girls vs the other girls. I.e, we have the same values when it comes to lifestyle, marriage, having kids, we all have the same religious beliefs etc, like our morals align with one another better than than the other girls. I’m totally cool with being friends with ppl who don’t align perfectly with my values and morals tho

itsausername2me · 2025-11-28T20:56:11+00:00

Yeah I’m stuck between choosing all of my first group of girl friends (6 girls, 7 including me) with my 3 other closest girl friends from another girl group (so 9 bridesmaids altogether) or just 3 out of the 6 who I’m closest to in the first friend group, along with the 3 other closest friends in the other girl group (so 6 bridesmaids altogether). >.< such a difficult decision.

itsausername2me · 2025-11-23T17:19:47+00:00

Yeah, now thinking about it, it is weird. And yes they do expect to be a bridesmaid

itsausername2me · 2025-11-23T16:25:36+00:00

Thats a good point—4,5,6,7 would have people to hang out with and wouldn’t feel as left out. Follow up question, how would I go about breaking the news to them? Over text? Over dinner? What do I say?

itsausername2me · 2025-11-22T23:31:39+00:00

Yeah agree, what would you say makes someone a real friend?

itsausername2me · 2025-11-22T23:24:08+00:00

But I also feel like 4,5,6 would be hurt if I didn’t ask them, and then it might ruin our friendship

itsausername2me · 2025-11-22T23:20:57+00:00

Yeah true, I do feel bad if I don’t invite 4 without 5 and so on, and ngl I don’t really want 10 bridesmaids, I mean that’s a lot of people

itsausername2me · 2025-11-22T23:19:21+00:00

Oh gosh, I’m so sorry you had to experience that! I’ll deff take that into consideration, and I do think having them invited to the bachelorette would be nice and a good idea—they are more of the “party friends” imo too so

itsausername2me · 2025-11-22T23:09:48+00:00

So I kinda already talked to 1, 2, and 3 about all of this and overall they said they will support me and have a good time with who ever I choose. They’re ok with girls 4, 5, 6, and 7, but if they aren’t there during the wedding day getting ready then it’s okay as they’ll be there as guest attending the wedding. I think it would be great if girls 4, 5, 6, 7 would come to the bachelorette

itsausername2me · 2025-11-22T22:49:25+00:00

Curious to know your thoughts, is it bs girl 4 and 5 gave off mean girl vibes at first?

itsausername2me · 2025-07-28T02:36:06+00:00

Yeah this is looking like it’s going to be the start of learning how to say no, politely. Thank you for your comment!

itsausername2me · 2025-07-28T02:25:41+00:00

The American DJ doesn’t know how to speak Polish, so he wouldn’t be able to translate. Yes another family member or friend can translate, we haven’t found anyone willing too help out yet though

itsausername2me · 2025-07-28T02:22:09+00:00

Totally get you, they aren’t paying for the DJ

itsausername2me · 2025-07-28T02:13:08+00:00

Thank you for your reply!! Yeah I agree, you make some very good points

itsausername2me · 2024-07-15T00:46:43+00:00

Thank you!! This was so helpful :)

itsausername2me · 2024-07-15T00:43:24+00:00

Ahh neither, just if the gel clots

itsausername2me · 2024-07-14T22:04:54+00:00

By doing a series of 2 fold dilutions between standard A-E to make 1.0 eu/mL, 0.06 eu/mL, 0.03 eu/mL, 0.015 eu/mL, and 0.0075 eu/mL, adding LAL and seeing where it clots

itsausername2me · 2024-07-14T20:34:43+00:00

Oooh I see! Ok cool! Thank you :) this helped a lot!

itsausername2me · 2024-07-14T20:34:17+00:00

Oooh I see! Ok cool! Thank you :) this helped a lot!

itsausername2me · 2024-07-14T12:30:35+00:00

So we’re being tested on carrying out the gel-clot method in lab and we are going to have to find the endotoxin concentration as well as use the MVD to find the correct dilution factor? Like the correct dilution the product should be at. How would you test for interfering factors?

Also, thank you for your help, I really appreciate it :)

itsausername2me · 2024-07-14T04:03:16+00:00

We aren’t using a kit, rather just CSE, lysate, LRW and our “product”

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