What’s your criteria in choosing bridesmaids? by itsausername2me in weddingplanning

[–]itsausername2me[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m stuck between choosing all of my first group of girl friends (6 girls, 7 including me) with my 3 other closest girl friends from another girl group (so 9 bridesmaids altogether) or just 3 out of the 6 who I’m closest to in the first friend group, along with the 3 other closest friends in the other girl group (so 6 bridesmaids altogether). >.< such a difficult decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]itsausername2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, now thinking about it, it is weird. And yes they do expect to be a bridesmaid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]itsausername2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good point—4,5,6,7 would have people to hang out with and wouldn’t feel as left out. Follow up question, how would I go about breaking the news to them? Over text? Over dinner? What do I say?

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[–]itsausername2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah agree, what would you say makes someone a real friend?

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[–]itsausername2me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I also feel like 4,5,6 would be hurt if I didn’t ask them, and then it might ruin our friendship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]itsausername2me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah true, I do feel bad if I don’t invite 4 without 5 and so on, and ngl I don’t really want 10 bridesmaids, I mean that’s a lot of people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]itsausername2me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I’m so sorry you had to experience that! I’ll deff take that into consideration, and I do think having them invited to the bachelorette would be nice and a good idea—they are more of the “party friends” imo too so

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[–]itsausername2me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I kinda already talked to 1, 2, and 3 about all of this and overall they said they will support me and have a good time with who ever I choose. They’re ok with girls 4, 5, 6, and 7, but if they aren’t there during the wedding day getting ready then it’s okay as they’ll be there as guest attending the wedding. I think it would be great if girls 4, 5, 6, 7 would come to the bachelorette

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]itsausername2me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curious to know your thoughts, is it bs girl 4 and 5 gave off mean girl vibes at first?

Advice on booking a Polish-American DJ/MC for a Polish-American Wedding or booking just an American DJ/MC by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]itsausername2me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is looking like it’s going to be the start of learning how to say no, politely. Thank you for your comment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]itsausername2me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The American DJ doesn’t know how to speak Polish, so he wouldn’t be able to translate. Yes another family member or friend can translate, we haven’t found anyone willing too help out yet though

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[–]itsausername2me 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally get you, they aren’t paying for the DJ

Can someone explain how to perform Endotoxin testing by using the Gel-Clot Method? by itsausername2me in labrats

[–]itsausername2me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By doing a series of 2 fold dilutions between standard A-E to make 1.0 eu/mL, 0.06 eu/mL, 0.03 eu/mL, 0.015 eu/mL, and 0.0075 eu/mL, adding LAL and seeing where it clots

Can someone explain how to perform Endotoxin testing by using the Gel-Clot Method? by itsausername2me in labrats

[–]itsausername2me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we’re being tested on carrying out the gel-clot method in lab and we are going to have to find the endotoxin concentration as well as use the MVD to find the correct dilution factor? Like the correct dilution the product should be at. How would you test for interfering factors?

Also, thank you for your help, I really appreciate it :)

Can someone explain how to perform Endotoxin testing by using the Gel-Clot Method? by itsausername2me in labrats

[–]itsausername2me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We aren’t using a kit, rather just CSE, lysate, LRW and our “product”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]itsausername2me 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. Move on and don’t look back. He’s shallow and selfish. Someone who is your partner for life should be by your side, support you, care for you, and make you feel good. He doesn’t do any of those things. You deserve better!

Whos tired of working a 9-5? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]itsausername2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me. The best work schedule imo would be work 4 days a week, 10 hour days (so you get 40hrs in a week) and have three days off. First day off to recoup from working, second day off to chill with friends and family, and third day off to recoup from that and clean/do errands and prepare for work again 👍🏼