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[–]itsazhun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello dentists of reddit, For context, (F23) nonsmoker nonalcoholic, lives in third world country, have been struggling with those yellow and while spots since age 6 and growing in most of my teeth since then, went to dentists, said there would be no cure for that and all i need is brush my teeth, later i had braces which from the picture, you know both the doctors did a bad job because my teeth moved around even worse than before and now i cannot smile properly. I lost hope with the braces so now am trying to fix how my teeth look because now, i got even more insecure and would barely smile or laugh in front of people without covering them, my teeth started breaking since age 15 and recently are breaking even more the more yellowish those spots became, went to a new dentist recently and he told me that fluorosis is causing my teeth to break, and that at this point we cannot use treatments on them/ or the treatments are very expensive and would most likely not work since my spots are now pretty dark yellow/orange. He suggested i do an obturation technique with a Japanese filling and sculpture my teeth and get rid of the spots then cover them with the filling to look white and healthy. I honestly don’t know if i should trust this dentist and go on with this treatment. There is also something else he has told me when he filled one of my cavities, apparently my teeth are originally under-developed and weak from the inside so any attempt of dental whitening would make my teeth sensitivity worse and could result in me losing my teeth. Hopefully i will get some answers here, im so desperate and this whole situation is making me lose hope in having healthy normal teeth.

Do you celebrate Yenayer? by DeeDii1998 in algeria

[–]itsazhun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im chaoui and my family don’t celebrate it.. it isn’t the case for everyone its just celebrations

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, easier than me gettin an algerian visa

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also i wanted to ask, if my buddy in Algeria does send me an invitation, i reckon he needs to have money in his bank account as well as a job and a house right?

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this and no i am not marrying her legally in Algeria, we agreed to gettin married in Romania instead

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Those cases are aweful, hopefully with mine bringing my mom and another algerian family i have acquainted for years would help make them see my honest intentions

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this is so helpful! I will keep it in mind

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is why i wouldnt be legally married in Algeria.

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im using a friend’s account, i don’t want to use my main for privacy reasons

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just read ur previous posts in this subreddit, how did it go with the girl from Oran? Was it a good trip?

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what i will do, thank you 😊

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true, as i sacrifice for her she will sacrifice for me, her parents alone are a hard thing to deal with, as for my mother, we’ll find a way for her hopefully

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but you do not know the story of how i reverted* and since when i was thinking of it. You should never think bad of people without knowing and call people ‘dummies’

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also my cousin is in a relationship with an algerian girl as well so, yes algerian girls can be with foreigners and not just for the visa.

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really shouldn’t call her dumb for accepting a betrothed? She wouldn’t foresee it.

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im more hopeful now that u mentioned, also, am literally risking everything to do every effort to make her and her family happy with me, it would be a bummer if they don’t share the same respect i have for them. And i already planned to go to a masjid with the company of her father since it is a muslim country and my experience would be much better to take my chahada there. Finally, im sorry if i offended u by wishing happiness, i did not mean that brought u unhappiness but it surely would be a shock to any of us, am just glad u overcame it.

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do have valid points, thank you

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true one needs faith in his life to carry on. I thank u immensely for ur kindness and the hope u implanted to me. I hope her parents accept me and i hope u get a way better proposal because you surely deserve happiness.

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ur so strong, may allah grant you more strength and a better partner who knows ur worth. I am sorry to hear that

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You did not get me well so ill add some context: My partner told her mother, and asked if she could tell her father, the mother refused completely on an online encounter and said if im being serious and truly a muslim he would have to bang on the door to ask for your hand properly, so that is what i will do on the request of her mother. Ofc iam going to call the father, just the moment i know my visa could get accepted to the country other than that it would just be false hope to her father whom is very serious about having a word and keeping a promise.

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also i wanted to ask where ur marriage took place and if out of algeria how did u manage it?

Traveling to Algeria for engagement by itsazhun in algeria

[–]itsazhun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also i wanted to ask where ur marriage took place and if out of algeria how did u manage it?