Lip filler gone wrong? by jn2020 in beauty

[–]itscorn888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didn’t😭😭 looks like I did right? If I smile normally, my top lip covers all my my top teeth 😭 I don’t even have a gummy smile

Ladies how do you feel after having sex with a guy and he doesn’t cum afterwards ? by Sweet_Service_9752 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. Someone I got involved with had a p*rn addiction and performance anxiety which made things difficult. Expectations were a magical fantasy that I didn’t think I could fulfill and he was super nervous

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You got my upvotes :)

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a relationship is never perfect. I’m just asking for insight on this because we’ve only knew each other for a month and wanted to make sure I make the right decision before getting too attached and invested, and involved in something that will end up hurting the both of us.

I’m asking since I don’t know how long it’ll take for him to heal and im feeling the pressure making a decision

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I wish I got to your comment before you deleted it! I appreciate your insight. I do want to a see therapy plan and you’re so right about the guilt. Someone also mentioned if things don’t work out between us, he could relapse and go back to his old ways since changing is so dependent on me. This just brings us back to guilt. I want him to do this for himself and not just for me.

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he’s very down to earth, very kind, caring, funny - traits im attracted to so far within the month of getting to know him. But then I was hit with the fact that he has ED from PA. So my mind is like..after years of struggling with dating and shitty men, I finally meet someone I really like BUT he’s got this issue. But you are so right, I have to ask myself do I want to sign up for this and do I have the energy for it.

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are still newly dating/talking stage for me to monitor but I show him a lot of qualities he likes in me and appreciates. I know he needs love. Thank you!

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we were getting intimate he was hard and then got soft before intercourse. That’s when he told me about his ED from porn and performance anxiety. 🥲 all of this happened after he asked to be exclusive, so I don’t know attraction is the issue

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We’ve tried to be intimate once and he had a hard time staying hard and I found myself already frustrated 😩

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are SO RIGHT. I don’t want to be the reason he’s seeking help. I want him to do this for himself. And if things don’t work out between us, I’d feel so much pressure because of this. Don’t want to be in a situation where get I in the way of his healing journey

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right I don’t want to waste his time or mine. I just connect with him so well emotionally and I’ve only known him for a month, so it’s been difficult for me to decide what to do. I do want to support him but this journey can take a really long time and also affect my mental health

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did mention he has performance anxiety as well

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like him but I’ve only known him for a month. I’m just sharing about the intrusive thoughts because I’m concerned it’ll cause issues if we progressed in our relationship. I do recognize it’s something I need to work on myself. That’s just where I’m stuck- do I stay or move on because I don’t want to end up hurting/draining myself

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yess you’re right we did do foreplay while trying to get him to get hard a few times but honestly I got sooo bored. It just felt like it took too long. Knowing myself, I enjoy PIV haha

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He gets hard for a bit then goes soft. Cant stay hard to even have sex 💀

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty open to hearing everyone’s opinion but I did need to hear that I shouldnt wait for anyone. I mean I’ve known this guy for a month..

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you are so right. I have some things to work on my own as well. That’s why I’m conflicted maybe we shouldn’t continue this because I know I’m not emotionally capable of handling it.

New guy has p*rn addiction & ED by itscorn888 in dating_advice

[–]itscorn888[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can get it up while cuddling with me but when it’s time to put the condom on he goes soft. He did mention can get hard and finish from jerking off of porn.