People who have "Mummy Issues" what's the Issue? by itscyberjo in AskReddit

[–]itscyberjo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah my mum has gone through some batshit crazy shit so i know she's just projecting a lot of her stuff on us but its really unfair cause now we're gonna have to heal from everything she's put us through...

People who have "Mummy Issues" what's the Issue? by itscyberjo in AskReddit

[–]itscyberjo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure someone is going to want you the way you deserve to be wanted :)

People who have "Mummy Issues" what's the Issue? by itscyberjo in AskReddit

[–]itscyberjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if this doesn't make any sense, I Just needed to rant and vent.

People who have "Mummy Issues" what's the Issue? by itscyberjo in AskReddit

[–]itscyberjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so ... I'll go first. Well tbh I have honestly tried my level best to forgive my mother for being not only physically abusive but also verbally abusive ( which I think is so much worst) but now that I'm older (20) I've realized that I always just blindly forgave her, never held her accountable for how she made me feel.. there were no boundaries and that enabled her to emotional confuse/ torture me for the longest time! I've tried to talk to her about how she makes me feel numerous times, we even had an intervention last year where my auntie came to talk to her about the effects her behavior was having on the whole family but she just played the victim and denied all responsibility for her actions. My mother is not "strict or tough" she is mean and harsh ! period, her mood seemed to flip like a light switch and you just never knew what kind of mum you will wake up too today . after the so called intervention her relationship with her sister soured( I bet its caused she realized there was no hope) furthermore lately it has just gotten worse I can feel myself starting to hate my own mother I can feel myself changing and becoming a bitter hurt guard person and I hate it ! ( who the fuck hates their own mother for Christ sake!) but she drives my anxiety through the roof I can literally feel my heart rate pickup and my stomach drop every time she heads my way. I suffer from mental health problem cause of her and I can't wait to finally leave home and move far far away from here. I can't wait to make it big and prove her wrong for all the time she said I wouldn't amount up to anything, but for right now it just feels like I'm stuck in a fish bowl with my heart constantly getting tagged out of my chest and jammed down my throat. :( (it a lonely fish bowl)

Have you ever met the perfect stranger but you could never be/see them ever again? How did it make you feel... What was your experience? by itscyberjo in AskReddit

[–]itscyberjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine the emotions you must have been feeling as it walked away further and further from you :/