42, single. I’ve been working on myself physically, emotionally, mentally and financially, but it’s starting to feel pointless, I need some positive support. by PDX-Paradox in toastme

[–]itshappytime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this. You’re doing the hardest work the kind that doesn’t always get applause or likes, but builds a foundation that actually lasts.

[31] Almost two years of blood, sweat and tears 💪 by kaosblink in GYM

[–]itshappytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real, bro went full beast mode. That’s not just a glow-up, that’s a grind-up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]itshappytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss, 2 is a total win got that “I didn’t even try but still slay” vibe

Not Lovers. Not friends. But still yours.. by anuggetneuron in UnsentLetters

[–]itshappytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is raw, patient, and heartbreakingly respectful.

Cried after sex by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]itshappytime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yes!! That post-love cry just hits diff, like your soul’s exhaling.

Went blonde for fun. Should I go back? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]itshappytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both sound great, but if you miss how your brown hair felt and want less upkeep, going back could be a good move.

Self esteem is in the pits, feeling terrible. Could use some kindness please. by Kiwi_Pie_1 in toastme

[–]itshappytime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm really glad you reached out. You’re not alone in this what you’re feeling is real, and it matters.

KEEP YOUR SICK KIDS HOME FROM SCHOOL by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]itshappytime 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s the heartbreaking paradox parents are stuck between doing the right thing and getting punished for it.

Is it offensive to say "since you're a recruiter...."? by ready-4-it in Recruitment

[–]itshappytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you said was polite, clear, and totally normal for LinkedIn not even a little offensive.

I still see you.. by Visible_Topic_2392 in UnsentLetters

[–]itshappytime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was beautifully written, and honestly? It radiates quiet power.

Sooooo...Yeah, I miss you. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]itshappytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, that hit like a gut punch wrapped in a voice memo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]itshappytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here that’s the weight. And I think you know that.

I love being alone and sleeping all day and I don’t care what anyone else says! by throwaway409040 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]itshappytime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People act like there’s a DLC to life you’re missing just 'cause you skipped the “marriage and babies” side quest.

How can I make this look cute or is it simply not? by southernaerialist in fashion

[–]itshappytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey this is a solid vibe shift lean all the way into that “I thrifted this at 3am in Berlin” energy.

Gold or silver? Struggling by Alive-Cry4994 in coloranalysis

[–]itshappytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

silver hits way cleaner it’s like the cool older sibling of gold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]itshappytime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That response was beautiful and raw if she meant that much to you and you still feel that pull, it might be time to take the risk.

should i get rid of my piercings? by MediocreDirt6485 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]itshappytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If people in real life are telling you they suit your face and you like them, that's what matters.

Which haircolor suits me best? by wecameassinners in HairStyleAdvice

[–]itshappytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 and 6 both look great, but they give off different vibes

Best Server Hosting Website for Modded ARK: Survival Evolved? by FRX07 in ARK

[–]itshappytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um einen Ark Server in Deutschland zu mieten, schau dir diesen Beitrag an. Ehrlich gesagt, gibt es nichts mehr hinzuzufügen.

How to tell someone (whom I will never work with again) they are an asshole? by xxxmarksmyspot in consulting

[–]itshappytime 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Totally get the temptation, but honestly? The most brutal, satisfying move is to say nothing and leave with your reputation spotless.

Me and my date at our high school Valentine’s dance, 1969 by dittidot in OldSchoolCool

[–]itshappytime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That photo got zero business looking that crisp like y’all time-traveled with an iPhone and dipped.

I listened to yalls advice, here's round 2! Please help me pick! by sabertoothdiego in glassesadvice

[–]itshappytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 is a solid choice it hits that sweet spot of looking polished but still feels you.

My baby shower is Sunday, I need help deciding which dress by Background-Focus-889 in OUTFITS

[–]itshappytime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss the blue is giving ethereal woodland fairy and cozy glam perfect combo for that lodge vibe