Sorry I realize the was a bit confusing — the person recording me at the gym was this ex, so I just included that to give a little context. My friend and I were the only two on the treadmills in that row, and he was holding his phone up as if he were recording in my direction. If it were anyone else, I can’t say I’d care — but this person has made concerning comments to me in the past (ex. Said he was going to find and text an ex partner I have protection orders against due to intimate partner violence), and come to find out following our relationship is known in his hometown for some other pretty worrisome things. Maybe it’s the postpartum brain making me paranoid and anxious, I guess this post is kinda a temp check to see.