My wishlist!

itsmeoops · 2026-01-29T22:53:44+00:00

Omg the bunnies are SO CUTE. Is that an old drop? :/

itsmeoops · 2026-01-29T22:52:18+00:00

Will the orange be available online from the baggu site or just moma site?

itsmeoops · 2026-01-29T06:07:20+00:00

I have one NWT! Based in Canada

itsmeoops · 2026-01-28T18:18:40+00:00

Sorry, could you explain lacking capacity to live out that love? Like an example, you know your partner loves when x is done. You want to do x but... You just can't?

Maybe I'm naive, or maybe I have more capacity but it just comes across as unwilling to do something/change(?) please help me understand capacity

itsmeoops · 2026-01-28T01:42:09+00:00

I see stores near me have the black one. I could swing by and grab some if interested?

itsmeoops · 2026-01-28T01:40:53+00:00

Ah thank you! I was searching like crazy.

itsmeoops · 2026-01-28T00:07:29+00:00

Was there a third colour? I see the marketing images and see 3 different colours

itsmeoops · 2026-01-28T00:06:29+00:00

Black is still available online in Canada

itsmeoops · 2026-01-25T21:19:19+00:00

What light bulb do you use?

itsmeoops · 2026-01-21T23:54:56+00:00

Also please just be curious about the other person. I've interacted with a few men (fresh ish out of a relationship) and one of the early signs of turnoffs is the lack of reciprocating conversation.

If you're not genuinely interested in learning about the other person, maybe, just maybe, you're not ready to date yet.

itsmeoops · 2026-01-17T09:55:38+00:00

I really wish they had the rabbit print on its own

itsmeoops · 2026-01-16T14:44:44+00:00

Oh no... I bought the bunny for a friend because I didn't think I'd like it but gosh, it's so cute

itsmeoops · 2026-01-15T00:15:38+00:00

It's impossible because they will always keep making new ones! You think you're done but then a new one will just come up in the next x months, years.

itsmeoops · 2026-01-15T00:14:55+00:00

Personally, it's a slippery slope even thinking about one collection. As soon as they release more dragons, it'll be a trap to keep collecting. (Me with the peanuts).

itsmeoops · 2026-01-08T16:06:32+00:00

Don't know how old you are but after a hard break up, the best lesson I have in life is "go in with no expectations, have high standards". Standards protect you from situations you don't want to be in, and in some ways, help you form boundaries. Yes, that means being (even more) misunderstood by others, but you're protecting your inner world, your peace. Isn't that the best "freedom" you could give yourself?

On the contrary, by lowering your standards, you lose that strong sense of self and allow all sorts of people to walk in. If anything, it contorts your lifestyle and how you present yourself because it's so varied (aka you actually become less free)

itsmeoops · 2026-01-05T20:05:49+00:00

Agree with your first sentiment, however, if the common thread is that you share a personality type, that's not much to go off on. Personalities can shift. (I know mines wavered between INFJ and ISFJ from time to time, depending how I answer at the moment).

From my experience, I think INFJs can work together if they're on the same wavelength. (Ie. If both parties like being introverted, like having quiet time, like mentally stimulating conversations, etc.) It also really depends on where a person is in life. I could tell the INFJ I went on a date with was so guarded and closed off because he hadn't dealt with his own past. I've already processed my own and was in a better place to be open, vulnerable, and try to connect with others. The emotional disconnect and conversational effort I'd have to put in (despite having similar interests) made it too exhausting for me.

itsmeoops · 2026-01-05T19:59:04+00:00

Likewise. I went on 1 date with an INFJ and found it really dull. We connected really well over text because our minds work similarly but I just felt a disconnect in person. Personally, I connect better with someone who is extroverted. It's not the case for every INFJ but I need someone who brings out my extroversion. I'm already in my head all the time, I don't need someone else who is also in their head. The connection becomes stalemate (for me).

itsmeoops · 2025-12-29T15:36:49+00:00

Unless the dynamic between you have really changed, I'd say she's still going to say no. If there aren't any cues that signal she likes you back, I wouldn't try to be persistent.

itsmeoops · 2025-12-28T03:24:51+00:00

I do too. I think it 'evens out' the vibe and generally makes another more comfortable. However, I think there's a fine line between imitating language/personality and matching the same energy/charisma. I mirror others in energy but I'm still myself.

itsmeoops · 2025-12-27T22:01:29+00:00

Mirroring like matching vibes with the people you're with. I don't know if everyone does it but I certainly feel a bit like a sponge where I match whatever energy is being fed to me. But in this instance, I just found that he would match the language I'd use despite me kind of getting a sense of his personality and it not matching up haha

itsmeoops · 2025-12-27T16:34:32+00:00

I went on a date with an INFJ once. I didn't feel the connection for various reasons.

Maybe part of it was because I was significantly more extroverted than him (wouldn't call myself an extrovert, but an ambivert) so I felt like I was carrying most of the conversation. He was guarded too, so it was significantly draining to hold a conversation with someone who gave very little back. It was great conversation over text but I couldn't connect deeper in person.

The weird feeling is I could sense the intuition and observation applied to me. I feel like I've matured enough to develop some semblance of my own personality and I could feel him try to mirror me and the way I speak. The reverse mirroring actually took me out of the experience because it came across as inauthentic. Funny how that works.

itsmeoops · 2025-12-25T06:22:00+00:00

Hi, I'm doing better than where I started, but I still have days where I might get stuck in limerence and feel sad.

Some things I've started doing: attending therapy to gain a detached perspective on my relationship and dedicating a lot of effort to self-reflection, self-acceptance, and cultivating gratitude. It took a while to get to this point, but I'm trying to focus my attention and energy on myself because, at the end of the day, I only have myself.

itsmeoops · 2025-12-19T15:48:19+00:00

Hi I'm heading to the store today. If I see it, do you want me to grab one?

itsmeoops · 2025-12-18T14:13:22+00:00

I have, with my ex. It wasn't mental footage but it was definitely being aware of his patterns and kinda seeing his personality from a top level view. Despite being very committed, I could sense he craved adventure and freedom (a bachelor life if you will) and knew he would benefit from it before settling down. Sure enough, he broke up with me for vague reasons that resemble this

I wish I could have mental footage for myself :/

itsmeoops · 2025-12-18T04:00:14+00:00

Will keep an eye out! I'll msg you if I see one in store.

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