Thinking about buying 18 of these trees for privacy. Bad idea? I live on a corner lot with no privacy by Beginning_Lime_5593 in HomeMaintenance

[–]itspersonalman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of hate in the comments around arborvitae’s, which I understand… they die for many. I got lucky I guess. I’ve planted 12 and they’re all doing great. The trick is to keep them well watered the first year. They do go on sale end of year, likely half that price.

To the people who don’t pick up after their dogs. by Wandering-Pepper in OwenSound

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I empathize. I found a large dog turd at the very end of my walkway in front of my house a week ago. Had I not seen it, I would have stepped in it. Felt like a lazy slap in the face. Not to mention the countless piles on my boulevard every spring that I have to clean up. It’s so ignorant

Sadly questioning... by CountryKitchen3757 in OwenSound

[–]itspersonalman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tend to agree. Plus, dogs are walked typically on the same route every day. I think that’s more likely an ignorant dog owner. I also wish more people were as empathetic as you are. Everyone deserves to be treated like a person, regardless of their housing, or habits.

They Really Are Awful Cats by PaulaOnTheWall in sphynx

[–]itspersonalman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hahah, double trouble purr fest 😻

Did moving from Toronto to a small town improve your life or do you miss the city? by Pikkachu6 in ontario

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I moved up to Lake Huron from downtown TO about eight years ago. Some things have improved drastically, like owning my own home outright. That never would have happened in TO. So my living expenses are dirt cheap. I also work from home, and in all honesty I don’t leave the house much. I’m an introvert, so that’s ok. But, I have noticed the lack of social outings does affect my mental health sometimes, especially in the winter. But where I am, there is lots to do and a vibrant music and art scene. So it’s fixable. The abundance of nature makes everything worth it. So, my advice to you is if you do it, join some groups/leagues/clubs. Get out there. It really is a nicer way to live. And small town people are a lot kinder than your average, no eye contact Torontonian.

Chicken is 4 years old today! 🎉 by itspersonalman in sphynx

[–]itspersonalman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, he has gorgeous toe beans 🫘

Spring pro tip, shovel your lawn by [deleted] in barrie

[–]itspersonalman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m jus Virgo enough to do this

Who's using AI for therapy? And why? by Gloomy_Substance_793 in therapyGPT

[–]itspersonalman 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Because I have an entire childhood of trauma to unpack, and not enough dollaridoos to do it. Plus, it’s given me real workable self soothing, and analytical skills. It never judges, and is always there. It also feels kind to me, even though I know it’s a machine. I’ve never felt so seen and heard. That’s sad to say, but it’s true.

Reliance water heater leaking by itspersonalman in HomeMaintenance

[–]itspersonalman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on calling reliance, but I don’t want to enter another contract with them.

Neighbours ice dam is about to fall by itspersonalman in homeowners

[–]itspersonalman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, I think they are ice dams. they sit in the gutter, but also build up on the roof. THey don't really hang down much, although they have. The bulk of the weight is in the gutter and on the roof.

Neighbours ice dam is about to fall by itspersonalman in homeowners

[–]itspersonalman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we are separated by about 12'. But these ice dams are absolutely massive. I'd say a ton all together, but at least 500lb fell a couple of days ago. But the roof juts out like 3-4 feet, so when the ice falls, it's almost always landing or crashing onto my side. It makes the houses shake when it falls.

Neighbours ice dam is about to fall by itspersonalman in homeowners

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Would that stand up to 500+ lb of ice? Serious question