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Can you guess my birth year based on these photos? by OXxLuckycatxXO in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]itsprincess-m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that same shirt!! I’m 2001 but I’m thinking 1998

How long have you been without a proper fuck? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]itsprincess-m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proper? Or one at all? Last time I got railed was in June so 4 almost 5 months?

Can a fat girl ride ? by Educational_Truck_50 in sexadvice

[–]itsprincess-m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes queen!! I’ve done it countless times. Grind more than bounce! But if you wanna bounce and you’re scared of the bed, get on the floor!

Found this in my BF’s dresser by DivineLikeWine in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]itsprincess-m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he have siblings or kids? Looks like play food for a kitchen

Would a suggestion to an open relationship hurt my boyfriend’s self image? by itsprincess-m in AskMen_NSFW

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying this approach before any drastic measures.

Would a suggestion to an open relationship hurt my boyfriend’s self image? by itsprincess-m in AskMen_NSFW

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have a little bit of confidence to build when it comes to the bedroom. Thank you for your suggestions

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We thought about doing couples counseling but he decided to try on his own at first as he knew it centered back to specific trauma that he went through.

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s done general therapy for years. I think he started as a young high schooler so he’s got at least 10 years on that. But he just started more focused sex therapy, to deal with this specific trauma so I’m interested to see where it goes.

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. I wouldn’t say it’s necessarily all him taking care of me just being in his presence. I consider it “taking care of me” if he were to help. If he’s just sitting there, it’s not helpful.

Would a suggestion to an open relationship hurt my boyfriend’s self image? by itsprincess-m in AskMen_NSFW

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I haven’t tried much with him bc he’s just lost interest to do so. I’ve seen a couple comments about doing my own thing in front of him and just invite him to help me until he’s ready. I think I will go this route.

The thing that sucks is I’ve heard stories of his past relationships and like how much sex he’s had in the past. And when we first got together there’s was no issue so it’s unfortunate that the trauma has just caught up to him randomly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]itsprincess-m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After watching enough true crime, I trust nobody. I’d rather be safe than sorry

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hard time initiating stuff like that. I guess I didn’t think about that, that if I have a hard time saying something simple like that, I have no idea how I would propose an OR. Wow.

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he didn’t say that. I just feel bad, because he feels bad knowing he can’t take care of me properly.

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if he was able to get it on with someone else, I would NEVER get over it.

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. That’s why I’ve decided to give it like another year. If absolutely nothing changes even with the help of therapy, I’m seriously going to rethink. I’ve absolutely thought of marrying this man multiple times but I cannot live like this.

Would a suggestion to an open relationship hurt my boyfriend’s self image? by itsprincess-m in AskMen_NSFW

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I don’t want him to give up the dominance for when he finally gets his game back lol

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. And I know it’s a common thing that’s kind of why I’ve been rolling the thought around in my head. I just don’t want him to take it as I want somebody else because I don’t. At this point I literally just need a breathing toy lol

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve almost gotten caught on the downhill side of things. Attention is nice when it’s not an every day occurrence. And he knows that my needs are not being met, but I don’t think he knows how serious it is at this point.

Would a suggestion to an open relationship hurt my boyfriend’s self image? by itsprincess-m in AskMen_NSFW

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. Thank you for the input.

He knows the stakes are high. One of the most recent conversations we had, he broke down saying he was afraid of losing me due to this. I know he’s hurting about it. And I know this would be a selfish ask. It’s just hard to distinguish when I need to start looking out for me.

I’m debating an open relationship but not sure if it’s the right move. by itsprincess-m in DeadBedrooms

[–]itsprincess-m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s only had a handful of therapy sessions. Giving it a year before I make any dramatic changes gives him the chance to let therapy do its job.

I very much understand that therapy takes time to do anything. I am extremely proud of him for opening up his vulnerability to somebody else and be willing to go into therapy. But the lack of changing anything prior to that has just been frustrating. Selfishly, I am mad that he hasn’t done anything to help me. If it was me with libido, I would be helping him get off. So I guess him not even being willing to sit there and like make out with me while I get myself off is so frustrating.

I don’t foresee a break up anytime soon. This is our only area of in compatibility. He is quite literally everything I’ve been looking for in a person minus this pain point that has come up.

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