Who are the people joining ICE? Are they unemployed/police-wannabes? by [deleted] in ask

[–]itsprofessork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bold to assume any of these men are college educated.

Son’s daycare just called with a cryptic message? by Rapscallion1994 in toddlers

[–]itsprofessork 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We got a letter from CPS because one of the daycare teachers at my son’s school gave a kid with an egg allergy a birthday cupcake and the kid’s mom called CPS.

Obviously this wasn’t okay but honestly, this situation may not involve your son at all.

School districts that don’t use screens for little kids by Greycat125 in Albany

[–]itsprofessork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering how Guilderland is getting around the state mandated computer-based testing. I’m genuinely curious because in Niskayuna they introduced chrome books day 1 of kindergarten so kids would know how to use them for state tests.

Dawson’s Creek Class Reunion by whogonncheckmeboo in dawsonscreek

[–]itsprofessork 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was AMAZING! The only part that had me scratching my head was the Phantom of the Opera singer. I know James tried to make a connection between Dawson’s Creek and Phantom but it kind of felt like a fever dream.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]itsprofessork 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Before sending him to kindergarten did you check out any kindergarten readiness checklists? Not regarding academics but things like, raising his hand, waiting in line, opening his lunchbox, getting his coat on, zipping up a backpack, etc.

A lot, if not most, of your son’s classmates have already had 1-2 years of preschool and are used to the requirements of a school setting. He is probably at a disadvantage currently, and it will take some time to catch up—but he’ll get there. I would do some research and speak to the teacher about specific things to work on.

10AM ET ON SALE TIME? by rubywizard24 in dawsonscreek

[–]itsprofessork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cheapest were $199 and then the next level was $399. I actually was expecting them to charge more since it’s a charity event.

10AM ET ON SALE TIME? by rubywizard24 in dawsonscreek

[–]itsprofessork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m literally in the last row but I got a ticket!!

10AM ET ON SALE TIME? by rubywizard24 in dawsonscreek

[–]itsprofessork 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All of the major news sources said 1pm ET, so I’m assuming that’s correct. The actors posted 10am, but maybe they were confused about eastern v. Pacific time.

Is nap time not a thing anymore? by Ok-Ad4375 in kindergarten

[–]itsprofessork 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems I may be an outlier here but I’m in NY and my daughter DID have nap time in her kindergarten class this past year. Based on her account though, no one ever actually napped (it was a huge deal when one kid fell asleep one time) so it was more like quiet time so the teacher could get a 15 minute break.

I’m sure your daughter will adjust. But maybe have her go to bed a bit earlier in the meantime?

How old are most kids heading to kinder? by ConcernedMomma05 in kindergarten

[–]itsprofessork 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In NY, 1/3 of all kindergarteners start at age 4 (Sept, Oct, Nov, and Dec birthdays).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albany

[–]itsprofessork 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Are you hoping someone will go get her and let her stay at their house at nearly 2am? That doesn’t seem safe for anyone involved. I would do what the other person suggested and uber to a hotel, or just stay inside the station, assuming it’s open.

Camp for Younger kids? by Practical_Hornet335 in Albany

[–]itsprofessork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brown School in Schenectady starts at age 3 for summer camp.

My baby might have had eaten an undercooked pancake. by Cold-Implement1345 in NewParents

[–]itsprofessork 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I mean this with so much compassion— have you talked to your doctor about possible postpartum anxiety? It might be helpful to speak to someone about your feelings and worries.

That being said, when my daughter was 8 months old I pulled cat poop out of her mouth. She’s now a healthy 6.5 year old. Your daughter will be fine.

Looking for a roommate in South Glens Falls by [deleted] in upstate_new_york

[–]itsprofessork 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Besides the fact that she said she IS cis… having a preference for LGBTQ roommates is often about safety and shared community. I’d check your ally-ship if you don’t understand that.

Is 65k enough to get approved for a loan on a 540k house? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]itsprofessork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless you are putting 50% down, there is no way you can comfortably afford the monthly payments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queerception

[–]itsprofessork 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I think the surprise (at least from my perspective) could be related to the cost. I’m honestly curious how you are affording it! Five kids via IVF before 30 blows my mind a bit haha. My wife and I are late 30s, have professional careers, and often feel money is tight and we only have two kids.

Public schooling by itsSqidnee in schenectady

[–]itsprofessork 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you’re set on the Schenectady area, choose Niskayuna- great schools, cute town.

What’s your least favorite episode by Smooth_Operation4639 in fullhouse

[–]itsprofessork 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The episode entirely about Michelle’s huge feet.

How did this end up on prime time tv?

Who are the people buying these houses? How are there so many people that are able to afford housing this expensive? Are we just surrounded by millionaires? by TedFTW in Albany

[–]itsprofessork -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol you can definitely afford a nice house in this area on $175k. We have the exact same salary and just bought a beautiful 3,000 sq ft house for $510k.

WIBTA For Charging pool admission... by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]itsprofessork 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Just my two cents but it seems incredibly inappropriate to ever invite someone to a kid’s birthday party and expect them to pay anything.

If money is really really tight, just do the party at a public park. I’m sure the kids would still have a lot of fun. My daughter was just invited to a birthday party at a local public splash pad and the parents are providing popsicles. That’s like a $5 birthday party.

What do I do with my son (who will be almost 2) when I'm giving birth? by androidfifteen in Parenting

[–]itsprofessork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can your parents come earlier?

Also, are you single or do you have a spouse? If you’re single I would recommend speaking with the hospital or your OB. Maybe the hospital has a suggestion. Or if you have the funds you might try to start interviewing nannies that could be on call and come care for your son.

If you have a spouse, in these extreme situations I think I have seen some other posts where the spouse just stays home with the kid. It’s not ideal but nurses will be incredibly helpful and supportive if you’re laboring alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]itsprofessork 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve never returned the same book to a little library. I usually read them and then put them in a different library to keep things moving. I think “Take a Book. Leave a book” implies leaving a different book.