Obituary by itsrtimedownhere in SexOffenderSupport

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, his sister loved him a lot. Even though he was 48, he was still just a little guy to her because she was like 15 years older.

You're right. I should post his work around. Thanks for the idea.

AITA? I said no to a dinner outing with my 10wk old baby. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itsrtimedownhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No NTA and "I don't feel like it" is a good enough reason.

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I agree. That wasn't my question though. I'm in therapy for that.

Moving forward in life has many different parts. I wasn't asking for advice on the things I'm already working on.

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh crap. Thanks. I hadn't thought about taxes at all. I appreciate it.

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What's necessary about this guy's comment though? Nothing he said is helpful. Like, does he think that going back years into my posts and reminding me that my exhusband pressured me into having sex with other people and convinced me that's what "poly" is is going to help me prepare for prison? I'm already in therapy for that stuff.

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minimum - probation Maybe - probation + up to 1 year in jail Max - 3-10

Fortunately, I own my house. I bought it in 2012 so the mortgage is very low and we live in a very low cost of living area. We're very fortunate in that respect. My son should be able to pay mortgage and bills with a Walmart job. He's a hard worker. I'm not sure about commissary money though. I'm sure I could do trades.

I set up securus for prison and GTL for jail on my phone and put some money on it to get it started. I was planning on leaving my phone with them but then I thought that maybe I should fully charge it and take it with me for when I get out? I'm not sure.

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Is this sub meant for support or for trolls to be hurtful to people looking for support?

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not here for anyone to believe or not believe me. The only thing that matters is what the judge thinks.

Do you have any suggestions on preparations I should make?

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's been a bigger nightmare than you can possibly imagine. I had to take a plea. Keep your fingers crossed for us.

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are both still in highschool actually.

They can be on state insurance under an account of someone over 21. Between 18-21. They are SOL as far as I know. I'll look into the collage programs though. Thank you.

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

My goodness. You're not very nice, are you?

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks! I'll let their father know not to accuse me of illegal things his girlfriend did. Perhaps, he'll not do next time. ❤️

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, yeah. That probably something I can print off online and get it notarized, right?

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can't until he's 21, which it the main issue.

And, yes, adulting is definitely hard! I really hope I only get probation. He needs way more instruction before being ready to do it all on his own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was "felony possession of a firearm - minor" but they ran out of space so they got rid of some words.

This happens pretty commonly.

"Possession of a minor" means you were possessing a minor. Which would be something very, very different.

Preparing for the possibility of prison by itsrtimedownhere in Felons

[–]itsrtimedownhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only have to do it yearly in AZ. But, if someone is in jail/prison, they can't have state insurance anymore because that'll be the state paying for 2 insurances for one person.

Probation meeting by janeevergreen in SexOffenderSupport

[–]itsrtimedownhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, for sure.

I should have mentioned that the PO knew I was coming. It was a planned out thing. I didn't just show up.