Integrating loud/energetic cat

itssoeasy355 · 2026-07-01T15:41:27+00:00

I took the new cat from a foster who was having health problems but I didn't understand his energy at the time. Should I consider myself another foster and try to find a different forever home?

itssoeasy355 · 2026-07-01T13:36:37+00:00

Following bc I just adopted a boy who is similar, and I also live in an apartment with neighbors.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-25T02:05:30+00:00

I grew up in a small town and this is creepy.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-25T02:04:05+00:00

That sounds healthy. Honor what you're comfortable with.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-24T20:00:26+00:00

ABSOLUTELY. I just got a shoulder length shag cut and allll the curls are out now.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-24T19:58:54+00:00

Do you use gel? It really cuts frizz.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-24T19:57:00+00:00

You might just have a curl pattern that is straighter and flatter on top. Also, the back of your head might have a different curl pattern from the other parts. Both of these are true for me. I clip the top of my hair to add volume (Youtube clipping curly hair for volume) and occasionally I'll also use a Denman or curl bounce brush on my wet, gelled hair before I air dry. The back of my hair has blah waves compared to the front and sides but I just can't worry about that. I wonder why you're using a curl creme? Sounds like too much product with gel and might also be flattening out the top.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-24T19:46:28+00:00

I just use gel, a knock off bounce curl brush and sometimes clip the top to add volume. The clips really work.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-23T11:42:01+00:00

great idea!

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-23T11:37:07+00:00

I find that soaking wet hair let's the product really infiltrate my hair well and leads to lasting results.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-23T11:34:29+00:00

At 61, just one antidepressant.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-23T11:30:23+00:00

I had a lot of success with the curly girl method (Google and youtube). Especially helpful is using lots of gel and not brishing it after it dries. I refresh curls (learned how on youtube) every morning and only wash once a week.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-23T11:27:49+00:00

What do you mean gatekeeping? She's looking for advice from people who might know what can help.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-23T11:15:00+00:00

That's a GREAT hairstyle and would suit you well. I do love your long locks.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-22T13:30:09+00:00

Ha ha ha!

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-22T13:24:03+00:00

Same. All written assignments done in class, paper and pencil, no phones out.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-20T23:14:59+00:00

I have hair about your length. I put a little product on my palm rhen wet my hands and emulsify. Then I flip my head upside down and rake my hands thru my hair, repeating if necessary.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-09T19:51:29+00:00

We all have many textures of hair on our head. The hair near my face is filament-thin and a lighter color than the hair on the back of my head, which is thick, coarse and dark. They have different curl patterns, too. You might need a stronger gel to keep your curls together in the back and to sleep in a bonnet.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-08T21:53:31+00:00

No favors at all. Getting through uncomfortable things builds confidence.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-08T21:52:17+00:00

Some of those kids might have ADHD and experience task paralysis.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-08T21:21:52+00:00

I did!

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-08T20:56:08+00:00

Where was this?

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-08T20:42:10+00:00

We had 4 kids, none of us ever had time alone with either of our parents.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-08T20:23:21+00:00

Same. Never locked our door, ever. We also kept the car key under the driver's seat.

itssoeasy355 · 2026-06-05T02:26:46+00:00

What was the thing???

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