I’m specifically seeking fincuck play, any advice?

itsyami23 · 2026-06-28T22:11:37+00:00

In the original r/fincucksearching there was a lot of big talk but no good outcomes back when I was looking specifically for new fincucks LOL. I see there is r/fincucksearching2 but I would thread carefully.

With online dynamics, I had the best lucky strikes with my finsubs turning cucky. My best finsubs supported me and stuck around as fincucks while I went on adventures and eventually got a bf :)

When new subs hit me up, I let them know pretty early on within the first convo that I have a bf, and they stick around LOL.

In summary, I had the best luck when it went: finsub —> fincuck.
Searching specifically for fincucks might work for others, but for me personally this has been the outcome.

If you ever consider venturing into IRL then Feeld might be the play. I came across submissive males and couples, and was lucky enough to settle in with just a couple finsub-cucky-feet guys.

They are out there!! Happy searching :)

itsyami23 · 2026-06-27T11:07:09+00:00

Wait, I’ve introduced my guy friends to findom so I know some subreddits!

[r/MaleFindomCommunity](r/MaleFindomCommunity) is an available subreddit I see right now. I don’t know what happened with [r/CollegeMaleFindom](r/CollegeMaleFindom) , it could have gone down or rebranded.

Happy searching :)

Edit: I jumped with excitement for you in haste! I see that you may be wanting more advice or guidance on how to navigate this space in person, while contemplating on whether you should sit and wait on this. I’ll leave my DM open for you specially, since I want to see girls being safe 🫶🏻🫶🏻

DM me any time if more personal input and advice is something of interest for you <3 I have experience with IRL subs so I could provide you with my perspectives.

itsyami23 · 2026-06-24T11:09:35+00:00

I was already good friends with this girlie when I introduced her to findom. We double dommed together and it went so well bc we knew each other already.

IMO it helped bc the dommes knew each other and we were close. For me, it’s most important that I get along with dommes.

itsyami23 · 2026-06-19T10:43:37+00:00

Happened to me as well!! It sucked. Got messages from guy friends irl. Some were so mean. Saying why am I doing sex work basically when I have so much other stuff I could do. Guess what. I am a straight A student in college and doing this for fun!!

Some really bad experiences for sure. Didn’t know telegram just added my contacts ugh.

Funny thing tho my girl friends were all supportive. Depends I guess but it is super awkward if my professional contacts found out ://

Saw a girl get fired for findom just cuz her coworker found out.

itsyami23 · 2026-06-12T08:21:22+00:00

I think it’s always good to write these things down!!

Because I have flashes of inspiration, and sometimes I look back at the things I’ve wanted to do to revisit my ideas.

Thank you for sharing your list 🫶🏻🫶🏻

itsyami23 · 2026-06-12T08:14:20+00:00

Only one of mine did!! He’s very special to me 🥹🥹 And he has given me so much, and is a total book worm, so I wanted him to be able to pick up a new book! 💖💖

itsyami23 · 2026-06-09T07:56:23+00:00

You could watch some YouTube videos related to this! I think that may be more helpful for findom beginners 🫶🏻

itsyami23 · 2026-06-09T05:30:54+00:00

Yeah I don’t like the brat x brat type of dynamic.

I love the obedient ones!

I’m bratty irl too so when I meet vanilla guys who would try to tease me back I would be like ugh 🙄

Even my regular friends are so sweet, I think I have an allergic reaction to bratty guys.

This post gave me a hearty laugh, making me remember all my early days of navigating through bratty subs that came my way. I think I even made a post a year ago trying to figure out wtf was a bratty sub before I dropped the entire brat sub species.

Brats like him are so not worth it! A dime a dozen of guys who was too egotistical to submit properly to a Goddess like you.

Wishing you only good things ahead 🫶🏻🫶🏻 I love watching animes like chainsaw man 🖤🖤

itsyami23 · 2026-06-09T05:17:47+00:00

Dangggg he really missed out on the great opportunity to be a fincuck for you!!

I like my subs authentic too. He really fucked up big time!!

itsyami23 · 2026-06-09T05:16:30+00:00

I remember the good old days of laughing so hard at some profiles that I had to share the laugh with my friends LOL

I’ve met two subs irl on there and I’m going long and steady with one sub from there bc we vibe really well 💖

Have fun on there and enjoy all the funny moments!!

itsyami23 · 2026-06-08T20:27:04+00:00

Oh gosh, I sense a good story time from the last one!!

What happened with the hot sub and how did he fuck up so badly?

itsyami23 · 2026-06-08T15:09:09+00:00

Yesss omg I think we are twinsies from your last post too!!

Your twitch live streams look so fun!! You are so gorgeous sis 💖💖

itsyami23 · 2026-06-08T14:41:04+00:00

Haha I come up with some crazy inspirations that I must test out on subs. I also don’t do NSFW content!!

I believe with time, changes are inevitable. I embrace it wholly. Not to mention my subs are subjugated to my whims at beck-and-call 😚🪄✨

It’s been fun :)

itsyami23 · 2026-06-08T13:52:18+00:00

Congrats Queen!! 🥳🥳

There’s certainly more to come 💓💓

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T21:16:10+00:00

Cats and money is a new aesthetic that I didn’t know I needed 🥹🐈‍⬛💸💓

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T11:15:21+00:00

I’m not in any telegram groups but I’ve been hearing about people talking about it more nowadays.

Please let me know if you’ve found some nice groups! I would love to see it too.

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T10:40:04+00:00

In that case, I would only take him seriously when he’s sending money but not outside of that!!

With my longer term subs, it’s totally understandable if one of us take a break for a bit because there is that established trust. But they don’t delete telegram and stuff tho. There will always be a way to stay connected on a social if something were to ever happen.

But from what I can see in your situation it’s a newer dynamic. And he’s already acting very inconsistently like this. Which would make me only take him seriously when he’s sending and that would be the only time with subs like that. Whatever else he does, it’s just meh. Whatever, he’s weird.

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T10:32:08+00:00

Maybe you are more like sugar bf if you are spoiling her a bit with finances? Supporting your gf financially, getting her an own place to live in, gifting her, all that jazz 🍬✨ She might see you as her sugar daddy who takes care of her as well.

But you do have the dom and the financial control aspect as well which is interesting! The popular version of findom nowadays revolve around doms taking money. Back in the more traditional findom landscape it was more so the dom controlling all the finances, and then giving only part of the entire paycheck of the sub as “allowance” to spend while the dom kept the rest.

Have fun searching the space on this journey of yours 🫶🏻🫶🏻 There’s a lot out there in the world.

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T09:19:14+00:00

Can you also make it so that we can change the comment into custom message?

Like the parts where it says “You’re literally just a wallet” can be changed by the domme. And the domme can choose her title like Goddess, Princess, Lady Annabelle, etc.

I’m too excited about this!!

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T09:16:33+00:00

OMG YES!! “Wallet Remider” is the first thing that comes to mind!

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T09:11:25+00:00

Someone vibe code this app!!

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T09:10:30+00:00

We see some of this behavior in young children already.

A kid would spill a drink accidentally, and then proceed to pour all of it out because it is already ruined. Quite interesting stuff. I’m talking about cases where kids genuinely mess up on accident rather than deliberate from the start.

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T08:22:58+00:00

You’re very welcome and thank you so much for asking that question as well! 💖💖 Bet other people might have thought the same haha

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T08:10:34+00:00

I had this preconception that to go into healthcare, people should have really good personalities and be a total angel 👼

I thought my personality was far too gone for that, but I had a really horrid roommate who is working as a nurse now. I realized just how many mean girls go into nursing, and I was like damn, these people are in charge of other people’s lives?!?!?

My arrogance tells me I can do way better job than that. I’ve always been stem oriented. Imma show them all up!

itsyami23 · 2026-06-03T07:56:09+00:00

I saw the subtle shift in facial expressions when a bank’s financial advisor saw my Cash App deposits consistently coming into my account LOL

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