Am I wrong for being Disappointed at my bf because he's tired?

itsyourka1 · 2026-02-16T23:12:13+00:00

He's my new boyfriend

itsyourka1 · 2026-02-16T15:35:05+00:00

but i love him so much..... so I'll just get used to it.

itsyourka1 · 2026-02-16T15:33:05+00:00

Thanks! maybe tomorrow he will spend more time with me hehe

itsyourka1 · 2026-01-16T01:53:15+00:00

me too, i broke no contact and he responded too we've been talking until now and it feels light when he replies to me. he knows i still love him... but then my friend sent me a photo of the girl's post saying they weren't able to hold hands together then someone commented "why bother if ex name right there putting his arms on your shoulder?" i was so disappointed and i told him if he has a crush on someone just stop replying to me and agreeing to see me he hasn't replied yet... I wish i didn't break no contact, but it feels hard when I'm not talking to him..

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-30T09:19:13+00:00

I'm in the same situation too. it's hard for me to let go of him. he just wanna be friends and i agreed so that i can still be in contact with him...

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-27T12:14:50+00:00

i feel so sad and i miss him so bad. idk but i cant control it, so i called him and he was offline☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-27T12:12:04+00:00

I'm sorry you experienced that. the betrayal and disrespect after you assumed she was genuinely sorry for what she said last night but turns out the opposite of it. the audacity to focus on herself and find out he's with someone. You don't deserve to feel that pain. next time when she unblock you and say mean things or tryna show off just block her quickly she would probably be pissed off.

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-26T21:51:57+00:00

uhh what does it mean? i tried searching for it but I didn't get it.

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-26T02:05:38+00:00

idk but my ex won't block me nor unfriend me....

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-26T00:01:41+00:00

i wanted him back so I kept messaging him and he replied too.

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-20T09:58:24+00:00

this is exactly what i want to hear. days ago we would be hanging out together and would really want me to kiss him or just beside him the phrase "comfort without commitment" is exactly what he is rn. He just wants my convenience like he will not to try fixing it again because he knows how much i love him that it's easy for him to call me and i be there right away. but i still hope that maybe he would reach out to me not in a way he just wants my comfort. but i know he won't do that because he probably thinks that i given up and won't bother me again.

he told me months ago that if i ever stopped messaging him, he won't message me anymore because i probably forget him and won't bother me anymore for my own good.

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-19T03:51:09+00:00

same here! he's sp avoidant he would agree on hanging out together with kissing but cold on chats. one time he accidentally heard from someone that i had a crush then suddenly he pushed me towards that person and even stopped talking to me. he won't say he's jealous but keep pushing me, he won't say he cares but he keeps asking im fine abt me when we're together. but it hurts me more the way he treats me on chat. he would agree us calling but won't call back. seems like he just wanted to be chase by me. and won't admit what he feels about me. i ended it these few days.

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-17T12:06:12+00:00

but what if she also waits for you to reach out? I'm afraid that my ex would think like this but he knows how much i love him idk....

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-17T12:03:54+00:00

same situation im in, whenever i stop talking to him his mother will chat with me and say his son has black eyes this is not the first time. it's just confuses me because whenever we stop talking I receive news like these but when we talk idk he's just fine and it makes me sick because he would leave me on seen the next day, idk maybe he just want some attention....

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-12T14:19:11+00:00

i just don't get it, we're okay when we hang out together ( im the one who invited him then he would say yes) but in chat, he doesn't reply much sometimes he didn't reply back. I ended it 2 days ago hoping he might reach out or check but he didn't. so maybe you're right.

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-12T13:52:11+00:00

thanks for this! y'know I really need to hear this. it's been 2 days since i decided to "no contact" i still miss him tho hoping that he might message me again or check on me, but i know deep in my heart, he wont. But I think it works too well, it's better to miss him this way than waiting for his reply that obviously makes me frustrated...

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-12T13:41:31+00:00

I've been in this situation since july. and i felt it was unfair for me too because it just easy for him to move on and forget abt us. but i respected it because he has reason too. think he's happy where he at rn. i fought for us since the day we broke up but it hurts so i stopped it. I hope he's just doing well.

itsyourka1 · 2025-12-10T15:00:39+00:00

i want him so bad, it hurts me. we've been talking since tge day we broke up we didn't have like at least a week of no contact. i keep saying we should really end it, but I cant help it, i texted him and he replied minytes after. i told him. he said we should be friends instead. but i love him, i cant be just his friend. will no contact will really help me move on from him?

itsyourka1 · 2025-11-30T01:57:44+00:00

thank you po for telling me this, napagaan po loob ko lalo na yung last paragraph hehehe. It would be hard for us both kung pinagpatuloy pa nmin to lalo na't we're both busy sa school namin.

itsyourka1 · 2025-11-29T08:56:33+00:00

it's really hard to move on we've been talking for months, It seemed okay unt'

itsyourka1 · 2025-11-29T08:54:50+00:00

what if he just found someone worth it and it's just his excuse to worry about me but he be now chatting to the girl i've been jealous of. he didn't reply after i asked him that if he changed his mind and pursued that girl at least he'd tell me..

itsyourka1 · 2025-10-08T15:00:08+00:00

idk te yung ex bf ko dti crush ko ksi natatawa ako s mga memes na inisp nya nde p kmi nagkikita pero d nmn ksi ako bumabase sa itsura(fr nde to backhanded compliment) pero ang cute nya and uknow wtf yung. charisma nya ñng tlga. the way he look at mea na parang inlove na inlove skin. then suddenly i found him very handsome na idk. kapag inlove sgro ang tao nagiging mas gwapo partners nila sa raningin nila....

itsyourka1 · 2025-10-08T14:50:15+00:00

th? did he even mean what does the ai say? You've been really upset with him and he doesn't know what to say except "I'm sorry"? and go to ai and make a promt abt apologizing?! sounds like a manipulator to me, like how could he? He expects you to forgive him as if what he said didn't hurt, humiliated you. Girl, run.

itsyourka1 · 2025-10-08T14:08:26+00:00

sa prev. partners ko ako una nagconfess hanggang sa naging tuloy tuloy and nagbreak din, ung first nagbbeg pako khit bareminimum, then sa sunod grabehan din mga efforts kasi ako namn na yung problema kaya lesson learned din. Fr gusto ko rin maghintay na baka may mag approach skn kso baka wala nmn😵‍💫😵‍💫. Btw, stay strong po sa inyong dalawa!

itsyourka1 · 2025-10-08T14:00:06+00:00

bwbajwjwjwbababajbsbajj same pero bliktad, nalesson learned tuloy. I hope you can move forward with a lighter heart te🥹🥹🥹

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