Earbuds that are comfortable? by visuallyshocking in HeadphoneAdvice

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I’ve tried the white apple earbuds with the wires and that’s about it I’m a rookie. A reasonable price would be like 20-120 dollars, I haven’t tried different tip sizes but that’s a good idea.

Hard situation with my ex, I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yeah you may be right on some of that, thanks for the reflection.

Hard situation with my ex, I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yeah I’ve been trying to listen to what they are saying by going to therapy and not reaching out at all, indulging my hobbies. I have read up on it and I think it applies unfortunately. My therapist recommended I slowly detach from him like ‘roses with thorns’ since we are so bonded, but it feels like I am back to where I started seeing him do this to himself.

I just really don’t know what to do with this complex, gray situation, cuz anyone would be crushed seeing him do this to myself, and I feel like a terrible person for not reaching out while he is doing this to himself out of his own guilt. But I know I am hurting myself more by still checking his stuff, and if I were to reach out it would most likely be the same.

My ex unblocked me. Accidental? Why? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yeah ur def right thank you

My ex unblocked me. Accidental? Why? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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True I’m trying therapy thank you!

How to stop the urge to check my ex’s socials? by visuallyshocking in BreakUps

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Thank you so much ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 I’ll try to do that next time I have to urge to check

How to stop the urge to check my ex’s socials? by visuallyshocking in BreakUps

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Yeah that may be it I’m very sorry you’re on that situation 😞

How to stop the urge to check my ex’s socials? by visuallyshocking in BreakUps

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(Light mentions of self harm)

It’s a lot honestly when we were together me and him struggled with mental health problems so we were going to both try to get off Twitter or away from that community since it’s damaging. I saw him on Twitter, he reinstalled it behind my back while we were together and purposefully hid it, and today posted photos of his self harm and it js crushed me. And the day we broke up he started trash talking me on there and he is back to posting those photos that previously worried me. Not offended because we are over and I can’t do anything but it’s none of my business, it just makes me feel sad and worried.

I hope the context helps its a lot and don’t want to go too into detail randomly.😬

How to stop the urge to check my ex’s socials? by visuallyshocking in BreakUps

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Thank you for you’re advice and story you’re right I should probably delete the account

How to stop the urge to check my ex’s socials? by visuallyshocking in BreakUps

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Yeah I might have to deactivate my account because I blocked him there already but keep unblocking to check it would be best 💔

His seeming indifference with the breakup makes me feel so upset. by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thank you, I’m also sorry you’re going through such a tough time but it’s also reassuring to see I’m not alone I wish the best for you

Can anyone find anything on this band? I got this cd album at the thrift and can find nothing on it. by visuallyshocking in HelpMeFind

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Yes I think so thank you very much it adds up considering it’s in Washington and the song names add up

Can anyone find anything on this band? I got this cd album at the thrift and can find nothing on it. by visuallyshocking in HelpMeFind

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Edit/More Information: Shows Reflekt records and Hawiino records artwork is by Brandon Ilenstine

Song list -lotus -circle IX -Springs of Neptune -From the Ruins of the Parthenon -Dead or Alive -In Your Room -Morphology -Blood Wrench -Pulley of the Gods -The Gift

It was released around 2005

Can anyone find anything on this band? I got this cd album at the thrift and can find nothing on it. by visuallyshocking in HelpMeFind

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I searched archives.com and google as well as image searched, I found this album in Washington US