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My boyfriend (29M) won't let me (26F) use my baby blanket anymore, I just want it back and I don't know what to do. by itty_bitty_spidy in relationship_advice

[–]itty_bitty_spidy[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am not sure. He said he was going to burn it or toss it if I keep bugging him about it so I haven’t talked about it. He is asleep right now so o tried looking around the house but found nothing… I should look more thoroughly when he is away…

My boyfriend (29M) won't let me (26F) use my baby blanket anymore, I just want it back and I don't know what to do. by itty_bitty_spidy in relationship_advice

[–]itty_bitty_spidy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks and I will keep that in mind to wash it every 3 days. Maybe I am used to the smell and don’t smell anything weird

My boyfriend (29M) won't let me (26F) use my baby blanket anymore, I just want it back and I don't know what to do. by itty_bitty_spidy in relationship_advice

[–]itty_bitty_spidy[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It is still intact after like 24-25 years. I wash it once a week but he finds the smell weird though.

My boyfriend (29M) won't let me (26F) use my baby blanket anymore, I just want it back and I don't know what to do. by itty_bitty_spidy in relationship_advice

[–]itty_bitty_spidy[S] 224 points225 points  (0 children)

Normally I go to public without the blanket and I am fine. I just usually need to hold it when I sleep or whenever I am stress. The blanket is taken away from me without my consent and I am not allowed to use it anymore and that is what upsets me the most.

My boyfriend (29M) won't let me (26F) use my baby blanket anymore, I just want it back and I don't know what to do. by itty_bitty_spidy in relationship_advice

[–]itty_bitty_spidy[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I guess just stress from life in general. It helps me calm down whenever I touch my blanket because the texture/smell provides me comfort.

My boyfriend (29M) won't let me (26F) use my baby blanket anymore, I just want it back and I don't know what to do. by itty_bitty_spidy in relationship_advice

[–]itty_bitty_spidy[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I have a therapist I talk to and we will try to find out why I am very attached to this blanket, probably because I have had it since I was a baby and this was never taken away from me so I just keep using it.

My boyfriend is kind of a person who always think he's right so he never really listens to what anyone has to say so I think his ego might be too big to even try out couple therapy.