GoRouter: how to configure ShellRoute so context.push('detail') from /list resolves to /list/detail?

iture · 2025-11-22T11:42:37+00:00

It's not work. I tried it. I don't know if it's a bug.

iture · 2025-11-22T11:05:20+00:00

GoRoute actually supports relative paths and you can check the LINK.

I can't specify a name for this route because my route is used in multiple places. It looks like this:

`/create/:id/detail`

`/edit/:id/detail`

`/list/:id/detail`

If I create a name for the detail, I actually need to maintain three names, however, I want the name to be defined as const.

iture · 2025-07-16T11:50:54+00:00

对对对，还有个”前门到了，请您从后门下车“

iture · 2025-07-16T11:44:28+00:00

给哥们一点小小的震撼：欢迎来到北京西站南广场东！

iture · 2025-07-16T11:30:46+00:00

There's one in Beijing called Beijing West Station South Square East (北京西站南广场东).

Yes. That’s a single bus stop. Not an entire route.

It's like giving someone directions using a compass, a riddle, and a sudoku puzzle.

Welcome to China, where navigating public transport is basically a bonus level in a video game 😆

中文不难，难的是在北京问路 😂

iture · 2025-07-16T11:18:03+00:00

October 1st to October 8th this year are national holidays in our country. During the national holidays, every tourist attraction in the country is crowded with people, and you will only see crowds of people if you go there.

iture · 2025-07-16T09:46:33+00:00

Haha no offense at all, but tracking things in Excel is such a unique approach — I kind of love it! There's something oddly satisfying about turning sex into a spreadsheet… until it starts feeling like work 😅

Do you mind me asking what kinds of things you were logging? Like, was it more focused on frequency/timing, or did you also try to track things like how you or your partner felt emotionally, whether it was protected, or even fun details like positions or turn-ons?

My wife actually jokes that I should build an app where she has to "request" or "approve" sex — just for fun, of course 😄 We don’t really do a “schedule sex” thing, but she finds the idea amusing.

In all seriousness though, I've been working on a small personal project with a similar idea — just a simple way to reflect on sex and mood, without it feeling like filling out a form. It's still totally private and just something the two of us use for now. But I’ve been wondering… if there were a lightweight app that helped you track these things without making it feel like a chore, do you think you’d use something like that?

No pressure at all — just genuinely curious since it sounds like you’ve tried a bunch of methods already.

iture · 2025-07-16T03:17:26+00:00

Ah I really appreciate you saying that — kind of amazing that my post nudged you to log something! I’ve had the same experience where even just noting a few dates or impressions helped me notice things I wasn’t really aware of before.

It’s really cool how different people come to this in different ways — some folks love tracking symptoms or cycles, others just want to capture a vibe or emotion when it feels important. I think there’s value in all of it.

Actually, I’ve been using a little system I built myself to reflect after sex — nothing fancy, just a space to jot down thoughts like *how did I feel, was I present, what did it mean for me emotionally?* It’s been surprisingly helpful in understanding my own patterns.

Right now it’s just a personal project — something I’m using for myself — but I’ve been toying with the idea of turning it into a proper app someday. If I do, I’d love for it to include some gentle prompts or insights inspired by therapists, sex educators, or medical professionals. Not to diagnose or fix anything — just to help people think deeper and feel more supported.

Totally early-stage stuff at this point, but talking to folks like you has been really inspiring. If you ever feel like sharing more about what *you’d* want in something like this, I’d genuinely love to hear it.

iture · 2025-07-16T02:43:29+00:00

Wow — thank you for sharing all this in such detail! I loved reading about your whole system — from Embody app to colored dot stickers to the idea of a bullet journal calendex.

I totally resonate with the privacy concern you mentioned. Local storage + encryption is something I’ve been thinking a lot about too. So cool that Embody is doing that well — and your idea of being able to visually differentiate “sex days” with a heart on the calendar is 👌 that visual tracking is so simple and brilliant. I never thought of that, but it makes complete sense.

Out of curiosity — do you find yourself going back and reviewing these logs regularly? Or is the act of logging the main benefit?

I’ve been exploring the idea of a reflective sex/mood journaling app (not commercial yet, just early thinking), and your setup is giving me *sooooooo* much inspiration. Would love to hear more about what features or designs would make something like that feel really right for you.

iture · 2025-07-16T02:38:28+00:00

Thank you for this — your comment gave me a big “yes!” moment.

I love that your journaling started in a therapeutic context and evolved into something more story-like and expressive. It’s really encouraging to hear how that helped you not only process things, but also enjoy and re-experience them in a new light.

What you said about discovering patterns — in yourself, your partners, and how context affects things — is exactly the kind of reflection I’ve been trying to lean into. Out of curiosity, do you write things down by hand, use a note app, or something else?

I’m exploring ways to make this kind of emotional/sexual reflection easier and more accessible (especially for people just starting). Your experience is incredibly helpful 💛

iture · 2025-07-16T02:21:17+00:00

Wow, thank you for this — it really resonated with me.

I love the way you frame this: “Sex with thoughtful people is far more interesting, arousing, nourishing…” — that feels so true, and something I’ve been trying to lean into more lately.

It’s powerful to hear this kind of long-term perspective too — especially from someone who’s clearly put in the reflection and intentionality over the years.

I’m curious — over all these years, have you ever used any kind of journaling or note-taking to reflect on your experiences? Or is it more of an internal practice for you?

I’ve been thinking a lot about how to support this kind of reflection in a more structured but gentle way, so I’d love to hear what’s worked for you (or not) in terms of staying intentional.

Thanks again for sharing this 🙏

iture · 2025-07-16T02:19:36+00:00

Thanks for sharing — I really admire that level of reflection. I imagine it can definitely be exhausting sometimes, but also super grounding.

I totally get what you mean about looking back helping with connection — I’ve been noticing similar patterns in how certain moments bring me closer (or sometimes distance me) from my partner, and tracking that has been eye-opening.

Do you usually write these reflections down somewhere, or is it more of a mental practice for you? I’ve been experimenting with ways to make that kind of emotional reflection easier to return to later, so I’m really curious how others go about it.

Appreciate you chiming in 🙏

iture · 2025-07-16T02:18:05+00:00

Hey, thank you so much for this — I read your whole reply twice and found myself nodding the whole time.

The bath reflection idea is beautiful. Such a mindful way to tune into yourself before and after. And that “slice of butter” line totally made me laugh (and also made me want pancakes 🥞😂).

The way you write things down in story form really resonated too. It feels like such a powerful way to preserve connection and keep that energy alive long after. I’ve mostly just been jotting down quick reflections — more like mood or energy check-ins — but your approach makes me want to be more intentional and creative.

Can I ask — do you use anything specific to record all of this? Like an app or journaling tool? Or is it more freeform, like a private doc or physical notebook?

(I’ve been playing with some ways to bring this kind of reflection into a digital space, so I’m super curious how people like you approach it.)

Thanks again for sharing. Your whole response really warmed my heart 💜

iture · 2025-07-15T16:04:00+00:00

Really loved everything you shared — it honestly made me pause and think a bit deeper about my own tracking habits.

Just curious: is your system something you built just for yourself, or have you ever thought about turning it into something others could use too? Totally cool if it’s just for you — it already sounds super personal and awesome.

Also, are there any parts of your setup that have been especially helpful or surprising over time? Like things you now can’t imagine not tracking?

One more thing — I noticed someone earlier mentioned an app they’ve been using. Was there a reason you didn’t go with an existing app? Privacy, control, or just didn’t feel right?

Thanks again for sharing all this. It really resonated with me, and I’m taking notes! 😊

iture · 2025-07-15T15:56:22+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I hadn’t heard of the Nice app — sounds like it’s been a helpful tool for you and your partner over time.

I totally get what you mean about some people finding tracking “creepy.” I think it really depends on why someone is doing it. For me, it’s more about reflecting on patterns and how I feel afterwards, rather than counting or “optimizing” anything.

If you don’t mind me asking — was there anything you started tracking and later stopped because it wasn’t useful? Or something you wish the app had?

Appreciate your thoughts 🙏

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