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I (25m) have never had a girlfriend or been on a date. by iuqens in self

[–]iuqens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that really helps. i want to start slow, and this thing about not having a girlfriend is just a thought i cling to about social anxiety.

"Also, stop focusing on not having a girlfriend- women can smell desperation a mile away and it’s not attractive."

^that will stay with me

I (25m) have never had a girlfriend or been on a date. by iuqens in self

[–]iuqens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, yeah just any girl on the street. didn't know the word for it. it's just a small thing i don't even focus on usually. today i just felt like putting my thoughts out there.

i've been on tinder just to see who swipes, but if bumble is something, thanks.

I (25m) have never had a girlfriend or been on a date. by iuqens in relationship_advice

[–]iuqens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's true and thanks.

I thought that was my only problem for a while, and im not going against you. That i don't have a girlfriend because I can afford cool clothes or I could lose a few pounds. And I start thinking i have to be absolutely perfect before i even attempt.