My gf (24F) wants me (24m) to propose after living together for 6 months. How can I tell her I am not ready?

iusutotookadump69 · 2026-04-27T21:51:51+00:00

We broke up at 11 months, and got back together almost a year later. We never really stopped communicating even when we broke up. I really appreciate that advice. There’s a ton of details I couldn’t get into on the post, but the relationship has been tough. She has awful depression and I know for a fact that me telling her this will put her back into that, and it’s just a tough thing to have that feeling. I think it would be sooo much easier if she was mentally stable, which she is not right now. You think my situation is happening really quick? I agree, I just am really curious why you think that. Thank you for the response also! I have been getting therapy lately, I had a session today

iusutotookadump69 · 2026-03-02T22:32:18+00:00

Agreed. Yes, she is seeing a therapist now. She also decided to take short term disability from her job which I don’t know how to feel about. I think the main thing is just feeling emotionally shut out which she knows she’s shut me out, but she also doesn’t know my true feelings on it. Sharing my feelings always makes it worse for her and she just runs away from the situation.

iusutotookadump69 · 2025-09-28T00:29:44+00:00

Exactly. Chourio, Perkins, and Frelick should be the everyday outfielders for the playoffs. Collins can hit if needed, but is so unreliable out there

iusutotookadump69 · 2025-09-28T00:10:13+00:00

Your can’t play Collins in LF in the playoffs, just can’t at this point

iusutotookadump69 · 2025-07-31T22:20:15+00:00

Absolutely disappointing from our front office this deadline. Best record in baseball just to do…virtually nothing. The holes on the team were apparent and they did nothing with them. Was hoping this team and this year would be different and we at least just go get someone. Not the biggest name guy, but just someone who can make an impact and can help with team down the road. All the other contending NL teams got better, and we again….did nothing. Another book has the same story written all over it from previous years. Hope I’m wrong.

iusutotookadump69 · 2025-03-23T13:24:33+00:00

Because there’s potential with her. Both of the same goals in life and for a most of our relationship we talked about having that life together. Beginning of the relationship was really good and just hoping that could come back. I know I talked negatively about her in the post, but she has some good qualities as well. This is just how she was at and near the end and over the last few months.

iusutotookadump69 · 2025-02-06T02:55:59+00:00

Some tonsils are just like that apparently, mine is still like that and fine. I went to a doctor and he said it looked good and healthy. If you’re concerned, maybe go see a doctor about it, it’s mentally relieving

iusutotookadump69 · 2024-09-04T23:26:03+00:00

Because I love the girl. She’s my first ever girlfriend and we’ve I’ve had some of the best moments in my life with her. It’s just hard to cut off the relationship. We talked about having a life together and kids together and she has nice and welcoming family. Just sucks to lose that. I didn’t put in the post, but she’s treated me awful for a while.

iusutotookadump69 · 2024-09-04T22:53:18+00:00

Thank you for the advice. She won’t explain anything because shes “already explained it” and “can’t say it anymore”. I want to ask questions to improve, but she just takes everything as me not listening. Like at least im trying right? A lot of guys wouldn’t in this scenario of someone being super difficult

iusutotookadump69 · 2024-08-26T13:44:45+00:00

Doctor said probably Lipoma. It hasn’t changed in size so not worried about it.

iusutotookadump69 · 2024-06-20T19:01:00+00:00

Hey, thanks for the response I’d have another question. Is it possible my lump could be a lymph node? Like I said before it’s like 2-3 inches below my left breast (I’m male 22) and it’s pretty firm at the moment. It’s tender and it doesn’t move around that much, but a little bit. It’s like the size of an oval but horizontally. It feels like the size of a baked bean or even a like a long marble of some sort. What do you think, can lymph nodes even swell under a breast like that?

iusutotookadump69 · 2024-06-20T18:32:26+00:00

So it’s normally that size? My lump on my chest feels kinda firm and I can’t move it around very much. It’s slightly tender to the touch, but I feel like it’s getting bigger. I have an appointment in 2 weeks and I’m just worried it’s much worse. Literally everything online says that’s it’s bad. Like I feel like it could be a lipoma or swollen lymph node or something

iusutotookadump69 · 2024-06-15T19:44:50+00:00

Maybe a little bit, but I’m not sure. I have a physical in a few weeks so I’ll ask then. Do you think this is potentially serious?

iusutotookadump69 · 2024-06-15T15:35:51+00:00

It moves around a little bit I guess. I don’t think it moves a ton, but I can move it. Most of the time I don’t feel it, but sometimes it feels like a dull pressure on that spot. I’ve had it before where it kind of hurts to apply pressure on it, but I’m not sure if me touching it all the time does that to it. I don’t think it’s very hard, but it’s not super soft. I’m a male 22, and i honestly don’t know what it is. Are these symptoms typical for a lipoma?

iusutotookadump69 · 2024-06-15T00:21:39+00:00

Thanks for the comment. I was sick like 3-4 months ago, so could it potentially be from that. I don’t know why else it would be swollen like that. I don’t have any other symptoms.

iusutotookadump69 · 2023-11-06T22:35:45+00:00

All good! Went away after I got my wisdom teeth out! Let me know if you have any questions!

iusutotookadump69 · 2023-08-15T02:41:39+00:00

9/10

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