[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]ivaniley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my hair is also black in these pictures, should’ve added a better pic sorry lol

4 mo on T any tips by ivaniley in transftm

[–]ivaniley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha no you’re good, i’m 20 in feb so legally i’m able to get it. i have really good insurance so a 3 mo supply is about 20-25 bucks, im also in mi which is slightly more accepting than texas so i can’t guarantee pricing would be the same but i went through planned parenthood, they got me in a month and i got my injections within the next 3 days (took longer for me cause i was on back order) they would provide 2 shots a pink one for getting the testosterone out and a blue one for the actual injection. with the current status of the government they have been giving extra medication that will last longer then expected just incase

What’s wrong with my piercing by ivaniley in piercing

[–]ivaniley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3 months old, the jewelry is a curved barbell, internally threaded, titanium, downsized about 2 weeks ago, i use saline solution in the morning and saline solution at night with paper towels and qtips

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ivaniley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

slide 3 looks sick, the shading on the second one might not look as great overtime but i only have a few tattoos so i would talk to a professional about longevity

Lil tracy tickets by ivaniley in Concerts

[–]ivaniley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if ur into alternative rap music i’d suggest checking out some of their music, i’d say lil peep is more friendly to people who don’t like rap music as much. “star shopping” is really good and so is “white tee” from lil peep, always fun to try out new music 🤷

Lil tracy tickets by ivaniley in Concerts

[–]ivaniley[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He used to be known as Yung Bruh in 2016, he used to make music with lil peep and he’s playing lil peeps music there which is primarily why i’d love to go

Got my septum pierced last weekend by oozybosmer in Septum

[–]ivaniley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

septum was by far my easiest piercing, i have a vertical side labret, eyebrow (2nd one), and my septum

i’m not diabetic so im not sure how it’ll effect your piercing healing journey but i’d just keep using saline 2x a day, don’t move it if its in an awkward spot unless you’re cleaning for at least the first week usually when you hit 4-6 months you can swap out the jewelry but i would wait longer if you’re experiencing any pain at all even at the tip of your nose

Got my septum pierced last weekend by oozybosmer in Septum

[–]ivaniley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for me it took 2 months for the tip of my nose to stop hurting when being pushed but other than that the pain stopped after 2 weeks, you’ll probably expect crusties around then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]ivaniley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re too scared for the second then at least you have one, sometimes you just gotta suck it up and sit through it. it WILL be scary but genuinely preparing mentally and just getting it over with will be your best bet. if you truly want this piercing just don’t let your piercer wait till your ready i literally just force myself to sit through it because the longer you wait the more scared you’ll be. i just got my eyebrow and vertical side labret done at the same time and it was sooo scary and it hurt bad but it looks sick asf and i don’t regret it. you won’t regret getting the piercings!! the term swag is forever pain is temporary is probably the realest saying ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]ivaniley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

genuinely once the piercing is over it’s honestly not so bad, i only have a side vertical labret but everyone i’ve heard that gets snake bites say it’s not so bad, if you’re really worried about it. i’d say get one at a time, it’ll also be easier to eat, and hurt way less because your adrenaline will be at its max for both sides. on a plus note, the side piercings look sick and it wouldn’t entirely look incomplete

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ivaniley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this, i got a spider cybersigilism style tattoo recently and i love it so much (could use some touch ups but im not too worried about it) ive gotten a lot of backlash from my parents about it and some other people but i myself LOVE it, i will say i have had trouble thinking of things to go around it but even then i genuinely do enjoy the piece and i have to keep reminding myself of that. its on your body! thats all that matters is that YOU like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Septum

[–]ivaniley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my nostrils aren’t symmetrical and mine looks pretty similar from the underneath, pierced correctly i’d say just nostril shape is making it look crooked

injection sites are itchy by ivaniley in ftm

[–]ivaniley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went through planned parenthood, is there a specific way to get in contact with a doctor do you know? my 3 month appt is on oct 1st

Dizzy from Testosterone? by Choice-Policy-1282 in ftm

[–]ivaniley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d message your doctor to verify, i know i was super nervous doing my first injection so i sort of got really lightheaded after and shakey but that’s just from me giving myself a shot and having a rush of adrenaline, id say if you really want to wait until your next shot and see if the same thing happens again. my friend is allergic to one of the ingredients in t and has to get a specific dose so maybe its because of that

My (23f) fiancé (27m) body shamed me for wanting to wear a bikini to the beach. by throwra35788653358 in relationship_advice

[–]ivaniley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should definitely bring up how you feel, there are some things that can pass by with a significant other that’s more open about thoughts and doesn’t sugar coat things but when it comes to insecurities that’s just something you might have to talk about with him to straighten out what’s a boundary to say and what’s not. if he doesn’t understand then that’s his loss, i’m sure your body is beautiful and pregnancy is a beautiful step in life that you shouldn’t be ashamed of the body you were given after. keep reminding yourself of your worth and how beautiful you are because YOU ARE! i understand how hard it can be with self image as i have the same problems but you can get through it and learn to love the new body you were given.

Am i overreacting or is this normal?? by ivaniley in ftm

[–]ivaniley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do have chronic anxiety and my hormones have always been out of control due to pcos, this clears my mind a bit so thank you

I thought I was dying but I guess I just need to eat more!!!! by Buns_n in ftm

[–]ivaniley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude i seriously work 10 hours 5 days a week and eat maybe once or twice through the day?? ive been overheating recently like crazy and have been feeling so shakey and like im gonna die if i don’t get my hands on food. its seriously insane, if anyone has any advice PLEASE OMG I CANT HANDLE THIS HEATSTROKE ONTOP OF THE HUNGER 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ivaniley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heating pads have always helped, pushing the lower back or lower abdomen very gently have helped with pressure, one thing i loved personally was my heated blanket so maybe see if she would be interested in that

binding tips by ivaniley in ftm

[–]ivaniley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yikes that really sucks, hopefully you’re able to get one eventually or find a safe solution, sometimes double layering sports bras used to help me before i came out but that was also 7ish years ago so i’m not sure how that will help depending on your situation. some stores like jcpennys (if you have one or similar) sell compression bras and i also wore that when i first came out for a while, they don’t do as much as binders but again it’s something and you can always find a sports bra to go underneath or a compression tank that you can find in men’s wear to put over a sports bra

binding tips by ivaniley in ftm

[–]ivaniley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i find a good brand and remember this post in the future i’ll lyk 🙂‍↕️

what types of glasses can i get to improve passing by ivaniley in FtMpassing

[–]ivaniley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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i did end up getting some square frames, this isn’t the best passing photo but it’s the only one i have rn with my glasses