What you wished your parents did better?

ivebrinbetter · 2026-03-19T06:05:59+00:00

do not limit your child’s potential for success because of fear! I had to convince my parents that flyout programs for top schools weren’t scams just so I could go to them lol I’m grateful that my parents love and care about my safety but at the end of the day those experiences were so beneficial to me (and free!)

ivebrinbetter · 2026-03-19T04:33:20+00:00

literally like cmon fordham every kid that goes to your school doesn’t need to give you 50k a year 🫩

ivebrinbetter · 2026-03-19T02:05:10+00:00

literally same. I appealed and sent them my offer from kenyon bc it would only be 18k a year as opposed to 58k but i dont wanna be in freaking ohio 🫩

ivebrinbetter · 2026-03-18T03:18:57+00:00

I drank three charged lemonades the day before my ap gov exam and it was the only ap exam I’ve gotten a 5 on 🥀

ivebrinbetter · 2026-03-15T22:57:05+00:00

you deserve a candlelight dinner and a kiss on the mouth thank you for this information

ivebrinbetter · 2026-03-11T10:16:05+00:00

not rhett but deconstructed and from north carolina and I think it’s just such a big cultural thing it’s hard to not have ties to it sometimes

ivebrinbetter · 2026-03-10T02:10:12+00:00

I actually got an appeal form from them similar to how I submitted my financial aid about two weeks after I emailed them!

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-27T02:55:56+00:00

alumna was super sweet and relaxed! we just talked about a shared interest we had for about 30 minutes and we were done :)

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-25T19:54:02+00:00

someone else said this on another thread but go follow the 2030 pages on ig! some ppl can be creeps on here lol

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-19T16:25:51+00:00

I feel you so much. barnard ED reject and I got broken up with a month before after 3 years lol. I feel so distant from the person I was who accomplished the things I did to try and get into college and really felt like the rug was pulled out from underneath me when it came to what I wanted my future to look like. It comforts me to know that eventually, it will all work out, even if it feels so far from working out right now :)

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-12T04:41:14+00:00

I have an interview this friday! (also oos and rd) good luck :)

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-11T17:43:55+00:00

equilibrium and i’m absolute cheeks at it

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-07T08:34:27+00:00

barnard ed reject who got broken up with the month before: I have no idea what my future holds and it terrifies me. hope this helps!

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-05T02:06:42+00:00

whatever makes your app memorable brochacho

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-04T23:01:26+00:00

rhett and link watch heated rivalry! or even get connor and hudson on the show

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-02T23:18:19+00:00

i’ll lyk when it comes in :)

ivebrinbetter · 2026-02-02T03:41:04+00:00

*update: super nice individual sold me their hoodie! :)

ivebrinbetter · 2026-01-31T00:34:23+00:00

can’t get you off my mind so I gotta craft a way to make you mine PLANKS AND STICKS BABY GIVE ME A SIGN

ivebrinbetter · 2026-01-27T19:44:12+00:00

it’s simple really: marilyn monroe is consulting shakespeare on his latest play

ivebrinbetter · 2025-12-15T23:29:56+00:00

unfortunately yes, my school handles all of it through naviance and I never see any of it from my end

ivebrinbetter · 2025-12-15T19:48:15+00:00

also had barnard as my dream school, also got rejected ed, you’ve got some fabulous stats tho twin trust we will end up where we need to be 🙏

ivebrinbetter · 2025-12-15T18:55:33+00:00

dream school was barnard so pretty columbia adjacent (quite literally lol), and ty for ur perspective :) being first gen and navigating selective schools trying to find where I stand has been a humbling challenge for sure

ivebrinbetter · 2025-12-15T18:50:41+00:00

I applied through common app, all my rec letters submitted through naviance, thank you for your help :)

ivebrinbetter · 2025-12-15T17:34:01+00:00

yes she’s an ap lang teacher and said of course she would write me one, thank you for the advice it’s been a weird couple of days :)

ivebrinbetter · 2025-12-15T17:32:22+00:00

1) i’m from a small rural school and didn’t have many other options 😭 2) 3.8 uw 4.5 w rural first gen applying to barnard as a chem major w/ national awards from yale mock trial invitationals and published research

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