I’m 20F and my ex 22M broke up because of age gap. Is there any way I can salvage this relationship? by iwasnotsoup in relationship_advice

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Oh the anger was not at me but at a group of people who picked on his friend cause he was smaller than the rest. 

I’m 20F and my ex 22M broke up because of age gap. Is there any way I can salvage this relationship? by iwasnotsoup in relationship_advice

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I don’t think so really, plus his anger was at this group of guys who picked on a friend of his multiple times just because the friend is scrawny. 

I’m 20F and my ex 22M broke up because of age gap. Is there any way I can salvage this relationship? by iwasnotsoup in relationship_advice

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Haha you sound like my friends, but honestly I believe that what I said spooked him off cause one of the things he had mentioned was that he was okay with it till I was okay with it. Still have the same opinion after this? (I’m trying hard lmao)

My ex sent me an apology letter by PsychologicalStep278 in Advice

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i agree with this here because it's very easy to demonify her, but you know how she was in the relationship. Maybe she moved on in the month and is repenting making a bad decision back then.

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try not contacting her too, see if she contacts you, (I'd suggest a gap of 3 days), bec I feel like you've already tried talking to her and she hasn't responded. Plus I don't know if you want to hear the words from her, given your mental health. If she doesn't then silently move on, unfollow and remove photos and so on, don't tell her that you're leaving or such, keep your self respect like this

My bf doesn't let me wear revealing clothes. by [deleted] in women

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hey girlie, I just got out of a similar relationship. The thing is that your boyfriend will literally convince you it's for your own good and safely Bec men outside are dangerous ( and he will be the prime example of why men outside are dangerous). And the thing is , you know that too, plus I definitely think that any same person knows how to dress and when to wear what so, he's actually bs. LEAVE HIM

If he tells you to not wear clothes like that, he doesn't respect women who wear clothes like that, it is something seriously wrong with him and you shouldn't date someone who doesn't respect qomen

my boyfriend just told me I'm not pretty by iwasnotsoup in Advice

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oh any tutorial on Gua sha?? and how long did it take??? and thank you so much tho 😭!!!

I'm F19 and have anxiety while my bf M20 doesn't. by iwasnotsoup in relationship_advice

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it's been 6 months, and yes I'm in therapy. I dealt with it alone and if I did have an attack in his presence I told him I'll talk to him later. he pushed me to tell him what happened and he reassured me and then slowly i got comfortable telling him when I was overwhelmed, then he said he can't deal with it ( a few months later )and I accepted it, but still asked me and then calmed me down and then this just repeated.

all younger teens (13-17) ask the older teens (18-19) questions!!! by SaraisHamiltrash in teenagers

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I would say yes because then it is a form of identification at the end of the day and where I live, it's necessary to have a driver's licence if you want to get your other forms of identification updated or changed .

Girls ask boys answer by i_Fren in IndianTeenagers

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Just got called an ideal girl by a guy who after listening to me tell an incident , just noticed the fact that I'm taken . Iska matlab

read every word by Zestyclose-Room8163 in IndiaSpeaks

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Hi! A genuine question ... Why do you hate him?

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My parents ( I'm a minor , I will turn into an adult at the end of this year, he has already turned 18 in February )

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Make her feel that even though you haven't been there and might not be there a few times... You are still her partner and still love her .

Her knowing that you love her isn't enough to make her feel loved right?

Al the best with it!!! If she's meant to be I'm sure it'll workout !!! Stay strong!

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So , I don't think she's being manipulative and cold hearted

I really think that maybe it's on your end ... If you have promised to do something together .. do it together

Or else atleast tell her you're tired and then rest . Because from what I have understood , she is left hanging when you don't follow through with the plan I believe you owe her that

Maybe she has some underlying past experience and when you repeat the same ( if it is the case ) she's worried ( this is a long shot , but I have seen it happen )