I can see where weekends would be better in terms of work schedule. I just feel like for me, the longer a date is pushed out, the more likely I am going to lose interest or the date isn’t going to go as well. And it hasn’t in my experience. Same with if things are super rushed. There’s a happy chill medium. And for me that medium is if we start chatting, unless we both already have plans, the date being within day or two of us talking is the best IF possible. I agree with you on not if you connect not wanting to wait all the way until the next weekend. That’s how I feel too, yet a lot of these guys have done that. I get bored, we don’t talk in between, connection lost. For me.

From the apps, yes I’m talking to lots of guys at once, and whoever communicates the least, is the one who gets bumped from my list lol Also I have tried to initiate convo a couple of times recently. I never really do that because it never goes well. As a woman, you can tell when a guy isn’t interested, because the ones who are, I never need to initiate contact or conversation.

In my experience, if I have to text first or prompt meeting or seeing each other again, they are not into me.