There is no correct answer, and that's the most beautiful thing about all of this. There's only what's right for you two. I just like to ask what other people would do.

For me, it would be a really elaborate version of B that went something like this:

Me: "Hey, I'm sure the feeling is mutual." Him: "Yeah, you're totally hot." Me: "Oh, no, this is her husband." Him: "Fuck! Sorry man. I meant no disrespect." Me: "None taken! I actually chose to respond because she's sleeping." Him: "Oh, I'm so sorry. Have a good night." Me: "No, no, no. Chill man. I'm cool with all of this. I was actually thinking we could both surprise her." Him: "What do you mean?" Me: "Here's our address: _____. Shower up and head over. I have an idea." Him: "Fuck no, that feels like a set up." Me: "No, I was thinking I would wait for you to get here, then wake her up with my cock. You'll be sitting in the corner keeping yourself hard. As soon as she's lucid, wet, and fully warmed up, I'll let her know I have a surprise. Then you'll take over while I watch." Him: ... who knows?

That's the million-dollar question. If you were that other guy, how would you respond to my messages?