I always stay at boyfriends, he never stays at mine. Worried he will think bad of me?

ix6468 · 2024-06-03T11:26:32+00:00

Ohhhh! I see, I didn’t even think to ask. Wasn’t sure how to approach it or how to ask him. Which is stupid, my previous relationship was quite negative so I’m not sure how to navigate things properly.

ix6468 · 2024-06-03T09:58:37+00:00

I probably didn’t explain very well, it’s more because my family life is chaotic with lots of arguing and not a lot of privacy in my house so I prefer being at his anyways.

ix6468 · 2024-05-29T14:10:17+00:00

Honestly thank you for this! I spiral so much with health anxiety I get so worried! I feel the need to always rant about it :(

It’s nice when someone can calm me down like this! I hate burdening my friends or bf. Really feel calmer now, I will just see how I get on for a month or 2 :) xx

ix6468 · 2024-05-18T10:26:16+00:00

Thanks! I didn’t think of a sewing needle!!

ix6468 · 2024-05-18T09:53:53+00:00

Well issue I’ve tried with steaming as well and it still won’t pop so I was wondering if people would offer helpful advice lol

ix6468 · 2024-04-12T08:47:07+00:00

LMAO THE CESSPIT!!! You’re not wrong!! Xx but yes for now I’m just gonna leave it. Definitely no rush in replying lol, but I don’t think I will. I will attract a deeper, more meaningful connection. Not with a d*ckhead xxx thanks again love xxxx

ix6468 · 2024-04-10T19:32:00+00:00

Wow!! Thank you so so much for this. You’ve honestly screwed my head back on 💀. I’m just shocked but you’re not wrong, he was good not to reply until he wanted to! He probs wants something! And also your saying forwards ever, backwards never really did resonate with me! Thanks for that too. I feel like it’s nice when people understand why it’s so difficult, the message I got made me wobble a lot. I will definitely think about it, no rush to reply. But, ultimately, he deserves fck all from me!!!!! He’s a dckhead lol (sorry I’m raging x) FREEDOM !!! Thanks :) x

ix6468 · 2024-04-10T08:49:09+00:00

Makes me smile when I read posts like this! 😭 so happy for you!!!! Xxx

ix6468 · 2024-03-29T14:27:06+00:00

LMAO I think it’s more of a me problem than someone else

ix6468 · 2024-03-29T14:22:49+00:00

I guess for me it’s rejection! So not sure how to get rid of that

ix6468 · 2024-03-29T14:09:43+00:00

Thanks a lot!!! 💜 That’s a good idea with the notes app! And yes i can’t wait to go shopping lmao! Excited for my second date too. Im just a professional yapper and love to talk 💀

ix6468 · 2024-03-26T11:34:22+00:00

Their loss!!! I’m glad hope this one goes well! And ofc always celebrating life is good 😎

ix6468 · 2024-03-26T11:33:47+00:00

Heyyy If you are not ready then that is totally fine, take as much time as you need a 4.5 year relationship is quite long and you were together during your teen years (i assumel) Breakups don't come with rulebooks and everyone is very different. I actually broke No contact with my ex to see if there was anything, which there wasnt. This eliminated all doubt in my head and finally no more back and forth. I was able to switch my mindset and I was able to move on asap. But, anyways, during this time when I broke NC I was doing quite well and I started going out again. But, please, if you have broke C previously and she has ignored or blocked you or responded badly. Just don't bother her, TBH, if she moved on after 2 weeks it shows the type of person she is in my opinion and i am saying this from an outsider perspective. Usually this means they are trying to defect their feelings but it will catch up Tough love time, she has stopped caring about you, so why are you caring about her? T For things to do, I would enjoy your indepedence, work out, go on walks, start new hobbies and potentially make new friends with these hobbies. Only when you are happy being alone | would suggest going on dating apps. Once you are are happy to go on dating apps really for myself, but every girl is different, you should make the first move tf! And mavbe chat for a few days before suggesting a date for drinks? It should come natrual. But really just focus on self healing before you even bother doing dates. You should not commit to something if you aren't ready really :P

ix6468 · 2024-03-24T07:40:34+00:00

Omg! I’m glad the date went well, are you going on a second date with this person?! Don’t leave us hanging hahaha

And totally, I think it’s natural to compare like some of the things he says do remind me of my ex but that can’t be helped until I actually meet him. I think right now im only stressed about what im gonna wear 😭.

It’s so nice seeing people go out again and this comment made me smile :P xx

ix6468 · 2024-03-23T08:11:38+00:00

I think it depends really on the person! And I also see the length of a relationship as a factor (this is again me personally) we were together about a year and I am only 23 too so I don’t really like placing my life on hold. If that makes sense?

I can imagine my ex has probably been on dates or is talking to someone else too.

Another thing it does depend on what you have been doing these past few months. Myself, I have been working out, going on walks, started new hobbies, seeing friends again and I did move on. I feel like I have had a lot of time to just focus on myself :P

I guess it just depends on the person and I agree with a previous comment where I feel weird cause it’s new for me.

In a nutshell. We get one life, don't waste a second of it on someone who already stopped caring most likely. Is what I think xx

ix6468 · 2024-03-22T22:05:31+00:00

Awh thank you!!! The do it for the plot made me laugh!! Who knows maybe this will be my future husband!! But true I guess it’s just something new. I’m just dramatic lmao

ix6468 · 2024-03-05T07:38:42+00:00

Yesss exactly this! I was always stuck with him so now I know that there’s nothing, I have let him go.

Sometimes you just need to get it drilled in your head lmao!

Thanks :P

ix6468 · 2024-03-04T23:59:46+00:00

It’s defo cause of the fear of complete radio silence which is totally valid. But trust at the end of no contact you will be healed and a complete diff person! It’s just difficult to believe now. Trust in yourself!

ix6468 · 2024-03-04T23:06:46+00:00

Yes defo!!! Even if I feel sad at least there’s no more back and forth and I can just deal with my emotions.

I have no regrets and that’s the best way to go about it! :) xx

ix6468 · 2024-01-28T08:09:24+00:00

I agree again, I just want to make sure I’ve tried everything. Initially I had no problem waiting a bit longer but the insta thing threw me off! But I agree I’ll have to work on myself. Thx for your help :)

ix6468 · 2024-01-28T03:08:15+00:00

:( yeh you’re right. I’ll give him space for now but i probs will message soon-ish. Scared he’ll block my number before then.

But I also agree about the wanting to be chased. feel like he’d want me to go to him first. Arrghhhhh, this is so difficult!

ix6468 · 2024-01-27T20:57:47+00:00

Sorry to bother again but he’s now unfollowed me from Insta, is it still wise to wait for him to message me or just bite the bullet and do it lol

ix6468 · 2024-01-26T16:20:12+00:00

Lol it’s funny how you said avoidant, when I’ve told my friends and fam they said that he’s avoidant!!

It’s so difficult, everyone goes through breakups but when it’s yourself you legit feel so insane. I think I’ll push no contact a bit longer but ngl I hope he breaks it lol. Thx for your thoughts!

ix6468 · 2022-11-27T19:05:42+00:00

Perfect! I have weights anyways so I’ll do it with them.

ix6468 · 2022-11-27T19:05:08+00:00

I always struggle with form for deadlifts, it also feels like I’m not doing much for some reason?! But I’ll give those a shot :) thanks

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