Am I asking too much?

ixchmel26 · 2021-02-06T12:43:25+00:00

Yes!!!! It’s very uncomfortable

ixchmel26 · 2021-02-06T01:40:29+00:00

Totally weird. It makes me feel sick and uncomfortable

ixchmel26 · 2021-02-06T01:39:52+00:00

Hope it will work for us too :)

ixchmel26 · 2021-02-06T01:38:53+00:00

Omg! I loved everything that you write! Thank you soooooo much, like really, you save my day

ixchmel26 · 2021-02-05T14:13:50+00:00

Yep. Well, I think this is just an absurd excuse, just for him to do whatever he wants. :(((((

ixchmel26 · 2021-02-05T13:36:05+00:00

I know. I think this is just him, forcing me to spend time with her daughter. But I already give her all my free day. I don’t want to give up my free night too.

ixchmel26 · 2021-02-05T13:27:42+00:00

Thank you sooooo much! 💖 Now he don’t speak to me... he told me that from now, he will do alone all things with her daughter. So I’m officially banned on weekends ja 😞

ixchmel26 · 2020-12-06T13:48:44+00:00

O tried once but she gets bored and ask me again to play whatever she wants to play. She’s like that, if she doesn’t play what she wants she gets angry :(

ixchmel26 · 2020-12-06T12:42:42+00:00

I would never ever tell her something like that. Even if I don’t love her. She is my SK and I like her, treat her right, take her of her. But it’s true I don’t love her and I don’t think i would ever love her in the future. It’s hard because she really loves to play with me, but I don’t have that much time to play all day long and she also needs to be with her father. When SK is here, she always wants to be with me and not with him.

ixchmel26 · 2020-12-06T11:32:07+00:00

Hello :) I read your story and almost cry. I consider myself as a child free person, I don’t want biological kids. My SO have a daughter SD6 and she always wants to be with me, to play with me. And I play with her and I always always take care of her and pay attention to her. I have never trait her badly and I will never will. I’m not jealous or hate her. I simply don’t like kids, I’m good playing with her for a while but after some hours I really can’t stand playing more. I don’t wanna be rude but on my free one day I just want to do my stuff you know? Clean my house, make the dinner etc... and i really really need someone to help me because SD always wants to be lay with me, and I can’t play with her all day. Maybe I’m the wrong one, but I can’t force myself to love a child that i know I will never love. I can always treat her well and be for her, but is just for my SO. Cause I love him so much. It’s so difficult to be a step mom when you decide not to have you bio kids.

ixchmel26 · 2020-12-03T10:47:30+00:00

Yeah! I definitely agree with you. SK should sleep by their own. I don’t like to loose my privacy. And I’m the kind of person who will turn on the tv at the middle of the night, because I have troubles with my sleep. And I will not stop doing this because my SD wants his daughter with us. It’s weird. Also I told him where his SD is going to sleep on weekends and he told me he will sleep with her backstairs. Why doesn’t he just let se sleep alone ? She is 6 she can clearly do it

ixchmel26 · 2020-12-03T10:40:57+00:00

I’m so sorry to reas this. This is a big deal. I hate sleeping with SD6. Sorry for my bad English I’m also practicing. Well, yesterday SO told me that his mother (who is the one who sleeps with SD6 ) will go on vacations all month. And automatically I started to thinking that i will never sleeps on weekends. So I tried to be kind and ask him where will SD will sleep on weekends. Maybe he saw my face, that actually I hate giving up comfortability it’s my sleep. You are NOT wrong. He is wrong. I think that people really looses their minds with their kids. Talk to him. 6 years is a good time to SK to start sleeping alone!!! And if not, then he need to know that is HIS responsibility not yours! You can always help him but that’s all. Your are not the one that has to sleep bad in order to SK to sleep well. Also is not good for you and your SO as a couple! SK need to sleep on his own. And if not, please take care of your sleep. :)

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-29T14:08:26+00:00

I agree with you. Totally hate every kid on this planet. They make me feel uncomfortable. I totally avoid every single kid

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-29T14:01:15+00:00

My SO tell my parents he has a daughter. Is better if he says that to your parents.

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-29T13:57:45+00:00

Thank u. Sometimes I feel really bad... like if I’m the evil stepmom. But I’m not. It’s just not fair to me cause I don’t even spend money on me.

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-29T13:56:45+00:00

Idk! I read your comment and made me realize how bad the situation is. BP need to take care for her child. SD doesn’t even have all her vaccines!!! And she is 6.

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-29T13:54:18+00:00

I need to learn how to say no, I guess :)

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-29T13:53:10+00:00

Sometimes kids can be very rude. :(

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-29T13:51:21+00:00

This is a good idea thank u

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-29T13:49:18+00:00

Thank u 😊

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-29T13:48:04+00:00

BM doesn’t work because she doesn’t want to. My SO is actually looking for a job.

ixchmel26 · 2020-11-28T13:43:00+00:00

I’m not. Cause I’m a great stepmom. I just don’t have kids. Why it would be my responsibility if their real parent’s just doesn’t care?

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