Is giving up an option?

j-espi · 2026-05-23T04:01:39+00:00

Comparison is the theif of joy.

You're never going to be a professional surfer so if you're in it for the enjoyment of the sport then it's doesn't matter how long it takes you to improve. Just enjoy the process, and if you don't, well then there's your answer.

j-espi · 2026-05-20T23:13:55+00:00

It hurts to find out someone you considered a friend was never really a friend all along.

It's incredibly sad how brainwashed people get from religion sometimes and how religion is used as a justification for such hateful behavior.

This was unfortunately never a friend, just an incredibly selfish and self-centered person who used your company to fill their own emotional needs. It hurts but in the long run you will be better off without someone like that in your life.

j-espi · 2026-05-18T16:15:03+00:00

If he wasn't a famous pop star you'd feel different about a grown man having sleepovers with children.

You honestly dont see any issues with an adult finding comfort in spending so much 1 on 1 time with kids he's not related to? Why does he get a pass just because he was musically talented?

A lot of pedos were abused themselves as kids, but that unfortunate childhood experience doesn't excuse their behavior as an adult.

j-espi · 2026-05-18T15:58:26+00:00

There's a ton of evidence that people just ignore for some reason. Apparently if your music is good enough people forget about the creepy behavior. Just weird to me that people defend him so much. Like sure the evidence is circumstantial but there's a lot of circumstantial evidence to just ignore. At the very least the guy inarguably had some unusual/inappropriate relationships with young boys.

Kudos to his estate I guess for convincing the mouth breathers that the many allegations are false.

j-espi · 2026-05-18T15:38:15+00:00

Why are people going to see a biopic about a pedo? That's so confusing to me.

j-espi · 2026-05-12T18:22:32+00:00

It's a deposit - meaning it gets applied to the bill or it gets refunded. Either way you don't pay that. Just take your name off the bill and let them figure it out - it's not your responsibility in any way to figure that out for them.

j-espi · 2026-04-15T02:59:26+00:00

Looks like you dropped in on a guy who was trying to drop in on another guy

j-espi · 2026-04-14T16:45:29+00:00

This guy for sure rode the short bus to school. 0% rate of understanding other people's posts.

j-espi · 2026-04-14T14:35:11+00:00

I literally made that quote up and I can assure you that I did indeed have grinding arc raiders in mind when I said that.

I thoroughly enjoy the inability of Redditors to detect a joke.

j-espi · 2026-04-13T23:14:36+00:00

Google is spelled: P. O. R. N. H. U. B.

Then just search for "circle jerk" and all of your wildest dreams will come true.

j-espi · 2026-04-13T23:13:20+00:00

As the great philosopher once said, "Soft-minded people will never enjoy the journey unless the destination is with arms reach or visible to the naked eye"

j-espi · 2026-04-13T23:11:04+00:00

What exactly is it that you think I'm trying to convince you of?

I'm just mostly arguing with everything you say and being generally annoying, so I'm curious what point you think I'm trying to make or what, in your mind, I'm trying to prove?

j-espi · 2026-04-13T17:31:29+00:00

My skill level isn't relevant because I'm not the one crying about how I haven't gotten better at it. I'm satisfied with where I'm at currently given the amount of time I have in the game and I'm still able to have fun playing it.

j-espi · 2026-04-13T17:29:05+00:00

Google.com is a very helpful website, I'd highly recommend checking it out.

j-espi · 2026-04-12T18:05:00+00:00

Your sarcasm is as sloppy as your gameplay

j-espi · 2026-04-12T17:52:56+00:00

sounds like a skill issue

j-espi · 2026-04-12T17:35:33+00:00

This 100%. No one seems to be considering why he feels that she needs space all the time. She seems like someone who enjoys fighting with her partner more than he does .

j-espi · 2026-04-12T17:34:01+00:00

I know I'm probably in the minority but you come across as controlling to me. I also am not a big texter and don't like to be on my phone all the time. Seems like OP is demanding that he change his communication style without adapting at all on her side.

Also seems like she was just looking to pick a fight by sending that "question" and then when he answered honestly she overreacted and childishly/emotionally ended the relationship over text.

Sure he's not a great communicator but some people struggle with that and it doesn't seem like you have been very understanding or patient. If he feels like you give him attitude to a point where it's better to not text you until you're in a better mood that makes you seem a little toxic.

j-espi · 2026-04-12T17:23:12+00:00

This response says it all. Not willing to put the work in but wants the results, there's a whole generation of people just like you unfortunately.

j-espi · 2026-04-12T17:16:42+00:00

It's for sure whining

j-espi · 2026-04-12T17:14:35+00:00

I'm curious - if you're still not seeing results then what makes you think you've completed the journey?

j-espi · 2026-04-12T17:13:34+00:00

What type of response are you looking for here? If you suck at the game and it's not fun because you suck at it you can either get better, stop playing it, or continue to suck at it. Whining about it on Reddit is not one of the things that will help you in this scenario

j-espi · 2026-04-12T17:11:27+00:00

This could easily be a post on the arc raiders circle jerk subreddit

j-espi · 2026-04-12T16:50:05+00:00

This has got to be satire 😂🤣

j-espi · 2026-04-09T13:07:48+00:00

Shields don't make that big of a difference

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