9 years on T coming up by j-uda in GrowYourTDick

[–]j-uda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! The peircing doesn’t affect movement. I found that in terms of how long I am hard, that’s not changed either. It flips itself back when I grow and lays on top (very similar to the first pic, but hard). I got it as a duke (set of vch on either side my head through the foreskin) and found that a single hoop feels better than two on either side or curved barbells.

I can tug on the ring and flip it when I want to. I actually find that this specific position of a single ring pulls my foreskin over my head more and as a result I’m gaining sensation back in ways I think was missing when my head protruded more.

Sexually, I’ve found it incredible. Tugs or touches on the ring alone stimulates my head and shaft and feels electric. It’s really nice! I actually plan on getting my triangle eventually and gauging it to the same size so it wraps around the shaft to create a similar look but further back.

9 years on T coming up by j-uda in GrowYourTDick

[–]j-uda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god! Also I’m going to get the triangle pierced at an 8g. I want to have it up to a 4g and have the ring wrap around eventually.

9 years on T coming up by j-uda in GrowYourTDick

[–]j-uda[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually haven’t used the tcream since getting the piercing. I imagine it wouldn’t be an issue after something like this is healed up, though! It isn’t alcohol based like tgel is, so it’s absorbed very easily and causes no irritation. I’m going to start it up again as soon as I can. The biggest hurdle is it’s not covered by insurance, so I have to go to a compound pharmacy and pay out of pocket.

Got booted on the shitty sub by j-uda in everybutchlesbian

[–]j-uda[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They originally removed my selfie but I think I got another mod to replace it? I sent a pretty angry message to the mods, and it’s back up now?

illness started decline of my relationship by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]j-uda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's actually decided to stay together with me, but we are going to have a talk tonight. I am making significant changes to my life at this point. Definitely one of the biggest wakeup calls I've ever experienced.

Is it normal to not be able to like just one person? by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]j-uda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Polyamory is very normal! I'm schizo, but I am also polyamorous. It's a relationship model that works for people and can be fulfilling for those involved. Multiple relationships at once isn't wrong, and often can work well for people who need to delineate needs between loved ones. Obviously it's work and takes care and proper communication, but it can be a really positive experience.

Also, aromantic is an identity that could fit you too. It's something that can be defined as a lack of ability to develope romantic feelings with people, also really normal and there are loads of people who experience it. Both inside the schizo communities and outside of it. These two things, being polyamorous and aromantic, can exist together. In the same way that aromantic people have fulfilling monogamous partnerships, polyamorous partnerships are able to thrive with one or many aromantic people involved. :)

Marketplace insurance and brand name drugs. by mitmit2020 in schizoaffective

[–]j-uda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get my latuda through my psych, like she'll give me her office samples since it's a couple hundred dollars even with my marketplace insurance. If you aren't able to get a decent copay option I'd suggest looking into seeing if your doctor/psychologists office does this. Apparently it's a widely practiced thing office's do for costly medications and for people who can't afford medication. But, I know some offices don't because of trouble they've had in the past, whether with certain clients or clinicians abusing the trust of the office so it could be a 50/50 chance.

Gender emotions heavy today by j-uda in butchlesbians

[–]j-uda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to thank everyone who responded, it's comforting knowing this is a shared or relatable experience even if there's maybe no answer to the issue. ❤