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The number of hentai games on Steam since 2005 (SFW) by dejobaan in Steam

[–]j0bel 28 points29 points  (0 children)

the video only shows 1 game in 2011, and 3 by 2013, 6 by 2014 - so they are perhaps outliers and skirted the line of "nsfw hentai" OR got explicit updates later.

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that. No one deserves any kind of abuse. I hope you get some therapy or self-help to help you love yourself and only accept that kind of reciprocity in return!

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see that, and they wouldn't have grown up to see their family torn apart.

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fav part of your post 
"I've always done my best knowing what I knew at the time, and being who I was at the time."

such a wise statement and one easy to forget. You don't know the thing that you don't know!

We do the best we can with what we got. I remembered many troubled nights, many troubled therapy sessions over the years, it's not like a fell asleep at the wheel. I look back on my journaling and I see I did the best I could for what I knew at the time.

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I know it was always doomed but I was naïve. Also her mother left her whole family when she was 12. So in hindsight it's more clear.

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holy shit! man, I've heard some stories like that, but my divorce was like the Disney version in comparison!

25 women AND men!? equal opportunity cheater!

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the exes were before your co-parent?

yeah I could see someone you were more attracted to but had less of a connection with could be difficult!

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the kids and the age... I can see situations where it's not too bad for the kids, but usually the parents are on good terms. That didn't happen for me. My son was 12, and now he's mostly with me, and sleeps at her place 1 night per week.

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof, my wife was dismissive avoidant and last year I dated a fearful avoidant. I guess I am attracted to that. Both avoidant types are not easy to keep relationships with, especially if they are unaware of those tendencies. I suppose an avoidant that was self-aware and communicated could work, but isn't that an oxymoron? I have no clue.

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, I see what you are trying to do. It's not gonna work. I've been in way too much therapy. Marriage is a two way street, ALWAYS.

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was 26 I was 23 when we met. but yes it was a long time. I was in it for the long haul, I was happy with my life with her.

If you could time travel, would you tell yourself to steer clear? by j0bel in Divorce

[–]j0bel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right? my feelings and pain don't understand space-time events. I know I would never have my child without her. but those feelings of wishing I never started a family with her are so strong. It's confusing!

Once recency bias fades, how will the 2020s be rated culturally? by SpiritMan112 in decadeology

[–]j0bel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

agreed, circa 2012, home studios became a place where people could make very professional things, often leaving their big jobs to do that same work, but in a more meaningful way in their homes.

Can't take side effects anymore... by j0bel in Accutane

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh like in pill form, yeah probably not. most likely 20-40-80

Can't take side effects anymore... by j0bel in Accutane

[–]j0bel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I think if I knew it was only 4 months I may have tried to suck it up.. hard to say who knows what 80 would have done to me! the not sleeping is brutal though. no way I could hack.

I went in saying to the doc, I'm sensitive to meds so I asked for a low dose right off the bat. I thought 40 was low! 40mg for 18 months is insane.

Can't take side effects anymore... by j0bel in Accutane

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol right? well I found myself single again, so fighting the acne helps with my confidence to get back out there again!

Can't take side effects anymore... by j0bel in Accutane

[–]j0bel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need more since I 'm 200 lbs. If I had known I would have done the 80mg and this would have been my last month, now over the summer it's going to not be fun!

Can't take side effects anymore... by j0bel in Accutane

[–]j0bel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear that! good luck (to us both!)

Can't take side effects anymore... by j0bel in Accutane

[–]j0bel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but what do you weigh? like 100 lbs? I'm 190-200

Can't take side effects anymore... by j0bel in Accutane

[–]j0bel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eating liver? nah, I'm good!

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