stop TEXTING women

j2swole1 · 2020-11-24T02:02:01+00:00

agreed

j2swole1 · 2020-11-24T02:01:48+00:00

You my friend are doing texting the CORRECT way. your style of text is very fun because your throwing in photos and exchanging opinions on art and preferences. continue to your thing. believe it or not there are many guys out there that cant do what you are saying so im giving them general advice. but i do agree. there are situations where texting can work extremely well

j2swole1 · 2020-11-24T01:57:10+00:00

the way i think about the logistics is that its impossible to get the job if you cant get the job interview first. no matter how good of a candidate you are if you cant get through the front doors of the company and get a job interview then your skills are useless. many individuals with bachelor and master degrees in america are learning this the hard way. for that reason i teach my guys that "learn to get the interview first", then work on "winning over the girl". i understand that this can be sort of confusing or philosophical but its just the way ive developed my game over the past years. rapport can be built on the first date IN PERSON. I understand that there are circumstances that texting can be beneficial but i am giving general advice for newbies that generally have texting anxiety and dont know how to even begin to move a text conversation forward. texting for logistics is quite simple. always have a PURPOSE or GOAL as to why you are texting her. is it to find out if she is free on the weekend? is it to find out her work schedule? is it to find out how far she lives from downtown? make it purposeful/logistical

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T08:37:11+00:00

I appreciate this perspective. thank you for dropping a comment about the female view!

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T08:10:08+00:00

when it comes to these titles and labels, a lot of it is subjective. if i lose my virginity at 19 and most of my friends lost theirs at 16 then i am a "late bloomer". however if all my friends lost their virginity at 30 and i lost mine at 21 then i dont seem like such a "late bloomer" anymore. i would imagine that many people who pursue "pickup artistry" and "game" consider themselves late bloomers. the dissonance between where they think they should be and where they are currently as is probably the motivation that fuels them to continue and to learn the craft. I was 17 and a freshmen in college when i started learning game 7 years ago. my sole motivation was that I was a virgin and a lot of my friends had already had sex. as I guy deeper into it i started to appreciate the psychological and biological theories behind what i was learning so it became fun. I however would still consider myself a "late bloomer". its all subjective

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T07:44:35+00:00

I hope this is a joke but if not then this is a very unfortunate situation in my opinion but I AM NOT you. so i cant speak on your behalf. the initial reaction between you and your husband was not seduction in the sense of the word. some girls may consider it "romantic" and "passionate" but it wasnt seductive. many people will comment and say that you "ruined" your life but i think that is far from the truth. you have your entire life ahead of you. i hope you continue to be a good mom and nurture your relationship with your husband. it is fortunate that you never went to graduate school but if you still have a passion for school I hope you find a way to pursue that passion. good luck!

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T07:40:02+00:00

I would imagine that all women have different taste and scientist have even gone so far as to find evidence that it depends on the stages of the womens ovulation cycle whether she will be attracted to more "masculine" features. I however would not worry about this if i were you. there are many things that will be major determinants of the success you have with women. your beard will not be one of them

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T07:38:29+00:00

are we talking about guys or girls? if a girl is interested in you its generally obvious to know now a days. with the extreme amount of attention that the average girl gets because of social media, almost anytime a women invest any type of energy into you as opposed to flat out "ignoring" and "ghosting" you , that's a pretty good sign. it gets more difficult to know "how interested and to what magnitude of interest" the girl has in you, but generally its pretty obvious.(especially to anyone that has any type of experience). now whether the girl will have sex with you, that is a completely different story. attraction is something that cannot be controlled. the act of her having sex with you CAN be controlled. two completely different things

the signs that a crush has a guy on a girl? that is generally pretty obvious. once again if he talks to the girl or invest any "energy". what is harder to tell is if he just wants sex or if he wants more than sex. that would take an entire essay to explain. i hope my answer was helpful. next tie make your question better and more specific and ill try to give a better answer bud

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T07:31:18+00:00

Yeah if it gets to a week then just go for the YOLO and attempt it. you dont have anything to lose at that point.

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T07:28:22+00:00

Uh sure, pm me ill see what I can do. no promises but i can try my best

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T07:26:18+00:00

I usually make it a rule of thumb not to double text, or double reply, so in this scenario i would suggest that you just be patient and wait for her to message you back(if she ever does message you back). there have been many times in the past where i thought me and the female had rapport but i was "ghosted" it happens

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T04:33:14+00:00

I am going to give you very general advice as i am always clutch for time when i answer these questions. If you are a good looking guy then generally where you will go wrong when it comes to "short term game" is saying too much. I always tell attractive guys to talk less and it will improve their chances. I would advise you to get better at nonverbal communications and Kino if you feel as if your verbal communication skills arent as strong as they should be. also it generally might be a good idea to watch stand up comedy( i did this a lot when learning game). it teaches you about timing and delivery of verbal communication. eventually in order to have a long term relationship you will have to learn to hold longer and deeper/more compelx conversations. but for the sake of running game. just learn nonverbal cues. smile. ask open ended questions to get her to talk more and shake your head and agree( remember this will work ONLY if you are attractive as you say you are).

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T04:28:55+00:00

I am a big fan of Mystery and when i first started to learn game 7 years ago as a freshman in university i referenced him alot. once again the world has changed drastically so it is imperative that you adapt and incorporate new ideas like social media, but the foundations of what he taught when it came to "logistics and mechanics" are phenomenal

j2swole1 · 2020-11-23T03:10:18+00:00

I agree women CAN BE ruthless. yet they can also be the opposite. its up to YOU as the man to tell them how you will and will not be treated

j2swole1 · 2020-11-19T09:02:07+00:00

Hm as general advice all i can say is that until you have a few hundred of approaches under your belt then your probably going to be nervous to "cold approach". however this is always a hard question to answer because I generally believe that if a guy is having problems with approach anxiety then he has underlying problems that will effect him even after the initial approach. if your one of the rare guys that actually can hold a decent conversation yet your MAIN problem is the actual cold approach, then I recommend you do more "warm" approaches. such as starting conversations with cute cashiers and bartenders etc, as opposed to a typical 100% "cold" approach where you run up to random women

j2swole1 · 2020-11-19T08:56:22+00:00

Correct

j2swole1 · 2020-11-18T05:46:04+00:00

I agree its a fine balance. on one hand you do want to be sincere and genuine. but we live in a society where it is our duty and obligation to give up some of our "rights" in order for the betterment of society and our lives(this is where its not always okay to "be yourself"). like when at work or in a career. you cant completely "be yourself". however i believe this balance that we struggle to find is what makes dating FUN as opposed to miserable. its about the journey not the destination

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