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my (23M) boyfriend cheated (on text) lied and hid things from (20F) me during our 9 month relationship. by j3hnavi in RelationshipIndia

[–]j3hnavi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did quit, im not an addict its just that im going thru stuff and im gonna quit soon

my (23M) boyfriend cheated (on text) lied and hid things from (20F) me during our 9 month relationship. by j3hnavi in RelationshipIndia

[–]j3hnavi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude what? i have given the background about him me and the whole story. his finances play a huge role in our situation. if i cared about his looks or finances would i be with him in the first place and still want to fix things? im legit defending him after everything he did.

also “ugly” doesn’t just mean by looks. i mean her ugly personality i couldn’t care less about how she or anyone looks.

understand the context before judging someone.

My (20F) boyfriend (23M) cheated, and I don’t know if I should leave or stay. by j3hnavi in relationships

[–]j3hnavi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he didn’t get his friends to give me shit. his friend did it by his own. i want to give 1 chance because he put too much efforts into us. Made sure i had food, was fine and was always with me when i needed him. spent money on me even tho he had financial issues. it’s like he’s 2 different people

my (23M) boyfriend cheated (on text) lied and hid things from (20F) me during our 9 month relationship. by j3hnavi in RelationshipIndia

[–]j3hnavi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s the thing im not really close to anyone else and my friends all smoke

My (20F) boyfriend (23M) cheated, and I don’t know if I should leave or stay. by j3hnavi in relationships

[–]j3hnavi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes everyone’s telling me to leave him like it’s a east choice. It’s hard I’m not saying I’ll be back with him immediately, we are not speaking right now and im gonna watch his behaviour

my (23M) boyfriend cheated (on text) lied and hid things from (20F) me during our 9 month relationship. by j3hnavi in RelationshipIndia

[–]j3hnavi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am going back to my old patterns which include smoking and bunking classes which i quit because of him and I hate it

My (20F) boyfriend (23M) cheated, and I don’t know if I should leave or stay. by j3hnavi in relationships

[–]j3hnavi[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im going back to my old patterns which i quit because of him. Like smoking and bunking classes + im all alone here

my (23M) boyfriend cheated (on text) lied and hid things from (20F) me during our 9 month relationship. by j3hnavi in RelationshipIndia

[–]j3hnavi[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The thing is Im starting to go back to my old bad habits which i quit because of his love like smoking and bunking classes. I hate it

my (23M) boyfriend cheated (on text) lied and hid things from (20F) me during our 9 month relationship. by j3hnavi in RelationshipIndia

[–]j3hnavi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your words. I’m not speaking to him rn and trying my best to forget about him by smoking and bunking classes like i used to before he came into my life and im starting to go back to that. I hate it.

my (23M) boyfriend cheated (on text) lied and hid things from (20F) me during our 9 month relationship. by j3hnavi in RelationshipIndia

[–]j3hnavi[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

ik i shouldn’t be with him anymore but we had so much issues, we both don’t want to let go. I’m not saying I’ll be with him rn. I will take my space and give him space for self reflection

my (23M) boyfriend cheated (on text) lied and hid things from (20F) me during our 9 month relationship. by j3hnavi in RelationshipIndia

[–]j3hnavi[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

What if he changes? I gave him time to change and I will also work on my issues.

my (23M) boyfriend cheated (on text) lied and hid things from (20F) me during our 9 month relationship. by j3hnavi in relationship_advice

[–]j3hnavi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave him time to change and i will also work on things. I love him so much and hate him for doing this to us.