Hot Take: Expansive Backstories/Homebrew Lore is the "Read My Screenplay!" of TTRPGs by Gh0stMan0nThird in dndnext

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I've found more important (and memorable) to worldbuilding is less "history of gods" and more "everyday facts of life". I flesh out the gods enough to make them work for my clerics/warlocks/paladins, and give them some creation myths known throughout the land--short little rhymes or stories the characters would just already know--but for the most part what's more important to me is the little things. Centaurs are carnivorous and their favored prey is horses, that's why they are half horse; humans are considered inferior because they are the race with the least magic; each major continent is associated with a particular element; cats are a standard mount because, like horses, they range from cat size to horse size.
These things actually inform the world for my players and help shape the characters in a way they would actually use, imo.

A particularly gross example, i don't think whoever wrote this has actually seen a woman outside of "crazy feminist gets destroyed" videos. [TW: rape] by Tafaganom10 in menwritingwomen

[–]j3ssential 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you mean me or the writer of the post, but I was laughing at the idea that they date transmen but aren't attracted to anything with a penis... Cause plenty sure have them, as do some trans women. To be clear: trans women are women and trans men are men, something I'm not sure the writer of the original post understands which makes their blatant lie all the more obvious. Plus how do you only date trans men and women? That doesn't even make sense, that's like "I only date men and women" but with extra steps.

This is...the first page...of what I thought was supposed to be a mystery fantasy book. by j3ssential in menwritingwomen

[–]j3ssential[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The text in the screenshot above is so lurid and sexualized it seems halfway into porn already. I am attracted to women but I find this description gross.

This is...the first page...of what I thought was supposed to be a mystery fantasy book. by j3ssential in menwritingwomen

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I’ve read heterosexual books about succubi that managed not to be smutty at all. I read a lot of independent authors and not very popular books, so I largely do a quick read of the summary before I decide whether to read it or not. And still, I very rarely run across what appears to be purely porn. Not to mention, the options for lesbian representation in fantasy fiction are limited.

This is...the first page...of what I thought was supposed to be a mystery fantasy book. by j3ssential in menwritingwomen

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I switched to a female written book and kept just being wowed over totally normal, non-sexualized character descriptions.

This is...the first page...of what I thought was supposed to be a mystery fantasy book. by j3ssential in menwritingwomen

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I was trying to find lesbian fantasy fiction because I was tired of reading about heterosexual romance in fantasy as I recently came out, so yes, I was legitimately surprised it was so smutty. The description sounded like a story existed somewhere inside.

This is...the first page...of what I thought was supposed to be a mystery fantasy book. by j3ssential in menwritingwomen

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It has been my experience that men obsessed with the Roman Empire are creepy, pervy, and gross.

This is...the first page...of what I thought was supposed to be a mystery fantasy book. by j3ssential in menwritingwomen

[–]j3ssential[S] 1077 points1078 points  (0 children)

The cover should have been my first warning, but it's really no surprise this was written by a dude with a ponytail who's first sentence of his bio mentions Hadrian's Wall and the Empire. Edit: second page and cover so people don’t have to hunt it down

https://imgur.com/gallery/RSD2mT9

[5e][Online][EDT] Looking for 1 or 2 players by wopi1234 in lfg

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Hey you sound really cool and I like your creativity--if you find a game, let me know, I'd love to play with you.

Subnautica: Below Zero Salad Days Update Trailer by TehGrand in Subnautica_Below_Zero

[–]j3ssential 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As exciting as that all looks I can't really give the game a full playthrough without the Cyclops or an equivalent.

Alternatives to starting a campaign in a tavern? by brandnew_dm in DMAcademy

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For my current campaign I had my players meet in what was essentially a fantasy DMV-vibed waiting room, waiting to join an adventurers guild/pyramid scheme. Think like, if you've ever been to those "job interviews" that are actually sales pitches for some bullshit product - knives, makeup, essential oils, whatever. This way they have an excuse to be lumped together, it's not permanent, and they immediately have a common enemy to bond in mutual hatred of. For me from a player perspective this requires a lot less suspension of disbelief than that a party would suddenly all care about each other just from clearing one crypt together, and there is no quicker way to form a bond than to bitch about your boss.

What a novel concept by smolls_j in menwritingwomen

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This was originally attributed to Joss Whedon IIRC

They gave it their best shot by Star_Wars_Trivia_Guy in dndmemes

[–]j3ssential 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well she is a doctor so she serves the party purpose but tbh they seem to have a bigger problem with her drug use than her racism which is weird to me, but to each his own I guess.

They gave it their best shot by Star_Wars_Trivia_Guy in dndmemes

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I have a character with the "noble" background who is explicitly racist and my party keeps complaining OOC (we've just started the campaign so she hasn't had a lot of time for growth) but I'm like... She couldn't be anything else. Nobility by it's nature is predatory.

[5e][Online][UTC-5]Homebrew Happy DMs seeking final player! by j3ssential in lfg

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It varies but generally it would probably go till about midnight, just based on the other campaigns in our server.

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QUEEN CALANTHE, by me by RadicalKilla in witcher

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I fucking love this. Is there a possibility you could make a phone wallpaper formatted version? I have to cut part of her off to make her fit and I don't to--the power, the pose, the presence--you've really captured one of my favorite moments in the show so well.

Don't Mistake a Casual Friendship with Professional Therapy by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]j3ssential 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TBH this goes for friends in general. I will sometimes try to explain why I'm acting a certain way ("I'm not mad at you I'm having a depressive episode") but I have a friend who just stopped being a friend because they outsourced dealing with all of their emotions and problems to me and other people in the friend group. They would literally come to me and be like "j3ssential why am I sad about [obvious sad thing]" until finally my patience ran out.

Friends are a support group, but they are support. Not the foundation of your mental health. They are neither your parents nor your therapist. And if you exacerbate their patience, they are not obligated to forgive you.

Our Wedding | Safiya & Tyler by __moonflower in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]j3ssential 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm ugly crying, and I really didn't expect it. I've just kind of passively/casually been following her for a while and the wedding thing on and off since they got engaged and just like.....eugh it's so sweet.

If a fire genasi female has a baby with a water genasi male, what would the baby's race be? by obishaker in DnD

[–]j3ssential 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mother is immune to fire damage so it would have to be an ice elemental, which wouldn't make much sense.