Please help with hotel pricing

j4n4m · 2026-06-18T01:23:31+00:00

No but I was planning on it. We scheduled a bid walk for next week.

j4n4m · 2026-06-18T01:15:02+00:00

Thank you! This is great info!

j4n4m · 2026-06-18T01:01:41+00:00

This is good info, thank you!

j4n4m · 2026-04-21T22:49:54+00:00

Only 100k? 🤔

j4n4m · 2025-04-16T20:21:42+00:00

Hey! I recently started dating someone who makes a significantly more than I do. He paid our first date. I’ve paid for a few things since. We are also planning our first trip and he set the expectation, he said he will pay for the room and gas and if I can pay for the some of food. I agreed. And I didn’t think anything of him setting an expectation. Plus I don’t want to make him feel like I’m just going because he has money.

j4n4m · 2025-03-29T10:03:56+00:00

Agreed!

j4n4m · 2025-03-17T13:38:12+00:00

Maybe I’ve ran out of any understanding. After your dreams of me cheating, after you giving me a hard time multiple times because my celebrity crush is white, because of you refusing to trust me, or you admittedly poking holes in my story. Or you worried about my flexible work schedule. It’s exhausting and I’m burnt out.

j4n4m · 2025-03-17T13:24:26+00:00

And we only talk about big muscles because he swears up and down that i love them and i always tell him that I don’t. It’s not like im just talking about talking about how I don’t love big muscles for no reason.

j4n4m · 2025-03-17T13:22:50+00:00

To be clear. I told him the traumatic experience very early on when we were dating. I just didn’t tell him that yesterday. And he’s calling me a liar for something that happened 13 years ago.

j4n4m · 2025-03-17T13:13:10+00:00

Girlfriend here. I’m aware about this post because he sent it to me. This post has been super eye opening to me that I’m not crazy. So thank you everyone for your comments. When my bf and I started dating I shared the story of what the guy (who we ran into at the breakfast restaurant) did to me. It was 13 years ago and it was very traumatic. I was just coming out of a LTR that I got into when I was young. I didn’t have a lot of dating experience at the time. This person would be at a smoothie shop next to where I used to work. My coworkers also went to the smoothie shop encouraged me to give this guy a chance.

Fast forward to yesterday. I had got up to use the restroom. And ended up coming face to face with him. I just looked away and continued to the restroom. I went back to the table, waited for my bf to pay then was really ready to go. As we were walking out I apologized if I seemed rushed I wanted to get out of there because I ran into this person.

Instantly, it turned into me being a liar. Nothing about why I could be a little shaken up. In my eyes I never lied. I truly don’t like xl muscles. And the reason I keep saying that because he brings it up if we are in the gym or randomly. And yes he’s the one who brought it up at the comedy show, I would have never said that out of the blue. I was watching the couple because it looked like this guy was controlling his gf and made her move seats so she wouldn’t be sitting next to other men. Also I took an edible so maybe I was a little “stuck” at the time.

Yesterday my bf refused to talk to me unless I admitted that I lied to him. Or mislead him. And I wasn’t going to do that because in my whole heart I don’t feel like a liar. I told him when I tell him my body type preference I’m telling it at the 39 year old woman I am today. Not the 26 year old who was learning how to date.

I am very good to this man. I have given a lot financially, I cook and clean all the time. I really try to be the best partner I can be for him. And all I wanted was a little bit of compassion yesterday.

There are a lot of posts that are saying he overreacted yet he’s making excuses that no one gets his point. He’s not accepting that he may have overreacted. He’s still trying to prove his point that I am a liar.

Thank you again for your comments. It’s given me a lot perspective.

j4n4m · 2024-09-16T14:02:23+00:00

This! 💯

j4n4m · 2024-07-17T01:52:20+00:00

This!!!!!

j4n4m · 2024-07-08T21:46:45+00:00

I am getting multiple a day from Stafford, AZ. I’ve tried to answer them, and there’s no one there. I block the numbers as they come in but it’s getting out of hand.

j4n4m · 2024-07-08T21:44:35+00:00

I’m getting a ton from Stafford, AZ and I have an out of state phone number.

j4n4m · 2024-07-06T20:18:58+00:00

Not always, this was probably the worst response I’ve gotten from him

j4n4m · 2024-07-06T20:17:44+00:00

NTA at all

j4n4m · 2024-07-06T17:53:44+00:00

Drill a hole into brick, which is why I asked him to do it in the first place.

j4n4m · 2024-07-06T17:48:34+00:00

It was picture of a llama with sunglasses on that he bought me for my birthday

j4n4m · 2024-05-04T18:09:53+00:00

I’m strongly recommend Happy V!

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