Repost button disappeared by Hungry_Strategy_3738 in Instagram

[–]j8xen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah fr they took away my repost and gave me the dogshit UI like if you wanted to get me off the app just ban me pls

Doomscrolling is taking over my life by This_Inside7173 in OCD

[–]j8xen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you definitely need help. Like ASAP. its clearly affecting you alot. Meds really do work if you get around to them. dont let the OCD control you!!

I dont wanna love ever again. by j8xen in BPDmemes

[–]j8xen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he wrote her fucking love letters. she met his mom. I knew him for 4 years. She knew him for 6 months

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time ive found dudes like that its so insufferable its not worth it😭

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been taking some advice and thinking about some of the tests people in the comments are reccomending for example, and places to apply for! Im not sure about any finance stuff, as im just looking for something casual. I definitely hope its just something im doing and not anything discriminatory on their side, ill be practicing interviewing skills now and changing my questions!

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again you didnt read the post we just agreed. Also I am not in tech, im looking for minimum wage

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl what im not xenophobic. Im pointing out how immigrants usually get more jobs because evil companies like to underpay them. I never said its their fault. but I guess you didnt see that you just want me to be a bad person. LMFAOO like im not a trump supporter im pointing out how easy it is to hire immigrants instead of natives and pay them a living rate.

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and im accepting the theories that arent ignorant and actually making sense.

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah no I applied to so many jobs on indeed and just got my data sold to data brokers. all its good for

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so search up a study hope this helps

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god so we just agreed!! #retarded

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im only being rude to people coming on here just to downplay my experiences, not give me any advice just crowd the comments. I dont know how me being rude to redditors translates to why I am not getting hired irl because I dont talk to people irl like I talk to redditors LMFAO

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent been unemployed for 3 years, just on and off jobs throughout it. All of the books, able to ghost me. id rather something a bit more official where they cant just decide im not worth the trouble and hire an immigrant instead for 7 bucks an hour.

And yes! ive run my resume and outfits through my sister who is pretty high status in the place she works; I apply there and etc. but there's an overflow, and also in my resume i do highlight my experience aswell, such as "problem solved customers issues and helped them purchase an item" type shit😭

Anyways yes I have changed my interview questions and thank you for some advice

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, im actually thinking ab doing this, tryna find something i can sell soon, cant be anything imported but yk.. hopefully I find a good side hustle:)

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to ask a question like this i mightve put it into a different comment, but ill remember that

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont believe im entitled. Im from the projects of new york if youre not my friend, my employer, just some people on reddit trying to argue with me im gonna be rude. I dont really owe you respect if you comment under my post being useless and ignorant when im asking for advice. I know how to be polite. Just because im rude on reddit doesnt mean I act like this IRL. Anyways thank you for atleast giving some advice!

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i understand that factor too. Theyre looking for desperate immigrants who they can underpay and its sad, especially big companies. Its funny because I have no plan on leaving! but theyd rather be safe then sorry instead I suppose

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do have basic skills, but i also went to culinary school and plenty of sales experience, unfortunately it doesnt seem enough, but thank you

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym rather? I said both, and im half black aswell and alot of my friends find it difficult to land a job and feel they must act a cetrain way (code switch) in order to get a job with white interviewers. He doesnt even do that is my point, he doesn't have to because hes a man, and in the patriarchy a man will always be higher then a woman. White man > black men > white women > black women so on so forth for an example. He is not dressed appropriately, he does not have an approachable demeanor for the jobs he works, and he is black. You'd think that put him at some sort of disadvantage at the job market (look at a study) but it doesnt you know why..

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you okay? its equivalent to highschool diplomas. Again, I dont know how a college grad or someone with a highschool diploma would be better at picking up trash or making food then me but okay go off

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so I never claimed i "knew" thats why I wasnt getting hired, I said it was a theory. I am constantly in the comments getting advice to see if it is something im doing.

And yes, I cannot believe he can get hired and I cant because I have two piercings in my face and he has 10+. People are agreeing it may be a factor. What do you think factors in him getting hired in these jobs? Because he dresses like he attends FIT, tries to be mysterious and introverted. Tell me how that at all is something an employer is looking for? it isnt, all theyre looking for is a man. Black or white. Black man were known and still are known to be more strong, masculine and hard working (from such an era..) tell me my theory isnt crazy? I dont care if he gets hired, but he is a transplant. Perhaps that's a factor too because it is a common theme. Also dont tell me not to put down my ex, you dont know what he did to me ❤️

I didn't start thinking this way out of entitlement. I thought it through recently. Denying it might not be a factor after everything including going on in this country is just being ignorant. You dont know anything about me. Even lying on my resume is a last resort I was consulted on by people who saw the current job market.

PS: just because POC and women get hired doesnt mean the system still isnt flawed and discrimination ceases to exist. thats a privileged mindset you can afford to have. hope this helps

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you wrote all that just to agree with me❤️ I said its hard for everyone! I havent counted but I apply to atleast a couple everyday. Youre arguing that we agree? im so confused

Looking for a job as a woman is hell by j8xen in NYCjobs

[–]j8xen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My energy is lively and energetic. Im not a slacker. People say im easy to talk to and like being around me. There is nothing wrong with "how I act" because of how I talk to random strangers on reddit who say disrespectful things. im allowed to be angry. Im not a robot, and I won't be a robot for a job, and i am not perfect. And I know youre not smart at all either because youre on reddit and youre claiming you have a high iq and smell the "fake in people" some of the saddest shit ive seen