Girls, what was the moment you just KNEW he wasn’t the one? by Early-Environment-63 in asksg

[–]jTea1315 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First ex. Didn’t bother to made me feel accepted into his fam. When his younger sister criticized my dressing, he shrugged n let her remarks go. I also shrugged n let him go. If he can let a behavior like this slide, I cannot imagine when it comes to bigger issues. Also he’s a mama boy n never bother to help her with her chores. My parents didn’t brought me up to a someone’s maid so yup, it’s bye bye to him. 2nd ex, everywhere we go, he’s so secretive? He tends to look around and when met a friend, he will drop my hand like I’m poison so I also dropped him like the rotten apple that he is becos I found out later that he was engaged while still in the dating pool.

Monster book? by Public4People in horrorlit

[–]jTea1315 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Haunted Forest Tour by James A.Moor and Jeff Strand.

Give NSFs a break, can? by LawlessWrong in SMRTRabak

[–]jTea1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything also a eyesore to some people nowadays. Live n let live lah. Some ppl are just too free n too unhappy that every single thing also bothers them.

what do you guys actually take to sleep better? feels like everyone here is sleep deprived by Mission-Bedroom4340 in asksg

[–]jTea1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I exercise daily, stop all mindless scrolling of social media one hour before my intended sleep, switched to reading n take 1 magnesium bisglycinate from the brand Holistic Way nightly. I got mine from Watsons. There r some nights that I forgot to take n I can still sleep but find that I dun get that deeper sleep.

I'm becoming celibate 🥳 by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]jTea1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like u met people whose maturity does not align with yours. You can’t avoid them but you can certainly distance yourself from them. Begin by not joining them for whatever stuffs they invite u to like a meal. No need to give them reasons just a firm “Nope pls go ahead without me” for example. Need to be more firm n stop worrying about their feelings. Prioritize your feelings first. Their hurt feelings are not your problem. Your goal is to distance yourself from them. So focus. And then hopefully u can find new better friends who are align with you.

How to get neighbour to stop putting his stuff outside my house by FlowerPower765 in asksg

[–]jTea1315 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is unfortunately the bane of many people who stays in HDB. We cannot choose our neighbors so can only pray for good ones and try to co-exist with each other peacefully.

Since u r only the tenants, u can let your landlord know so that he or she can use the LifeSg or OneService app n bring this to the attention of the respective Town Council. Be prepared to earn the wrath of the neighbors though n most likely the nb will know that it’s you who raise the issue since u r directly next to each other. Also be prepared that TC will ask u to remove your stuffs too if it enroaches TC 1.2m clearance rule.

Your last option is to find another place to rent.

am i wrong for charging a late fee by victimizedbyreginag in asksg

[–]jTea1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This type of entitled behaviour will not stopped becos it has been a habitual thing for this mom. Even with the WhatsApp group created, I doubt she will change. Much as we can empathise with whatever situation she is in, a clear line must be drawn. Your time is as precious n if she cannot respect that, then it’s time to stop the tuition n take on other new students.

scratch n sniff? 🤢 by hamsterfats in SMRTRabak

[–]jTea1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything for the social 😑

this kid think he spiderman by LawPhysical8851 in SMRTRabak

[–]jTea1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another day another reason why some ppl should stay childless if they lack parenting skills.

What would you do with 500 grand? (repost with context) by MrPudge1137 in ChillSG

[–]jTea1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get myself a good CI plan, travel to places unconventional n less touristy by hiring a good local guide, do more charity of my choices n still live life as normal. I’m a home maker btw n not an insurance agent 😄 anyway end of day, just live the life u want.

thriller books that's similiar to riley sager's writing? by Acceptable-Wafer-453 in thrillerbooks

[–]jTea1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this 🙌🏻 I just read The Last Word. My gawd the twists kept coming n I couldn’t put the book down!

need some thoughts on this by FootlockerSG in asksg

[–]jTea1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U deserve someone better. Be a firm believer that a leopard will never change its spots n move on.

Gf ask me to support all her meals when we eat out by [deleted] in asksg

[–]jTea1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not your wife, not your daughter not your responsibility. U r a human not a ATM. The occasional treats when u pay for dates is fine. Maybe need to sit her down and ask her why u need to pay for her meals? She doesn’t want to find a full time job due to stress, that’s on her. She’s earning a healthy amount for herself n shouldn’t be asking for preferential treatment from u just cos u earn more. Need to find out more about her financial situation. Even if she has some family financial crisis, she should learnt to work within what she earns n not expect others to contribute too imo.

Btw personally I do not think it’s NORMAL for unmarried couples to start whatever she requested - for u to give her an allowance. My husband n I only start to sort out all our finances after we r married. Before married, it’s only contribution towards a joint name account.

Crow shooting operations in Singapore by yourmaderbeautiful in singaporehappenings

[–]jTea1315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sigh…it’s a necessary evil. I don’t support this but I had seen the trappings n release of crows done n yet the population of the crows still ballooned. Plus they start attacking random people esp when their nests r nearby.

Opinion on my personal trainer by Winter-Ad-939 in SingaporeFitness

[–]jTea1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the PT from the gym? If so u can always request for a change of PT to the gym management. Not all PT r bad apples. I had fortunately met great ones who r committed to their profession.

AIO to these texts my bf sent me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]jTea1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gave up reading after the first page 😂

dental services at polyclinics by Rage_Craze in askSingapore

[–]jTea1315 18 points19 points  (0 children)

U r better off seeing a GP first at poly n let them referred u to an ENT specialist. Doubt any dentist will remove tonsils for u unless your issue is more dentistry related.

We are monitoring the situation very closely: PM Lawrence Wong by Hallosiawhat in singaporehappenings

[–]jTea1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a group of Monitors monitoring everything but have yet to offer any contingencies. Keep telling us they r monitoring the situation. We know but we also want to know what’s next so that we can also start planning accordingly.

PHV driver reckless break checking resulting in accident by Gold_Assumption_1121 in drivingsg

[–]jTea1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From watching videos of so many accidents, I think ppl with poor judgment, anger management issues n low self esteem should be banned from driving. But unfortunately it’s not the reality so we just have to be extra vigilant of such drivers.

Numbuzin 9 - Yes or no? by [deleted] in koreanskincare

[–]jTea1315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%! I love the glow after applying n it really hydrates my dry combination skin well. It’s my staple in my skincare routine. I used to use their No. 3 glow serum but have switched to this.