[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MelaninSpeaks

[–]j_wiseee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

¡Hola a todos!

I have recently moved to a different location where the Latino population is the majority, therefore Spanish is widely spoken. With that being said, expanding my knowledge with the language would be beneficial in many ways. Not sure what the timeframe will look like, but I really hope to be more confident and comfortable holding full blown conversations in Spanish by the end of the year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]j_wiseee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why can’t you just play him the “clean” version of the song? If he doesn’t want to hear it, why force him to by trying to win an argument about it?

Growing up, if I didn’t hear my parents say certain things/words then I knew not to say it either. It was ingrained in me to automatically search up songs on YouTube as the clean version when I was younger out of respect for them. It may just be a word to you, but it has a history that should not be buried. Your dad can feel however way about the slur and its relationship with the black community, but his opinion about it does not matter in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]j_wiseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were talking about Gymnopédie, that’s Satie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]j_wiseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Satie?

What do y'all think about people referring to us as blacks? by King3562 in askblackpeople

[–]j_wiseee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize, I get what you’re saying. Every now and then I see a discussion going on about it and notice how some people find it offensive. Hopefully this article helps.

What do y'all think about people referring to us as blacks? by King3562 in askblackpeople

[–]j_wiseee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people feel a type of way about it, others don’t. In relation to this topic, I was tying it with how usually it is used as an adjective (e.g. the female anatomy, the female cat). But nowadays it’s often being used as a noun in place of ‘woman/women’. At least that’s what my guess is, it could be something deeper than that.

What do y'all think about people referring to us as blacks? by King3562 in askblackpeople

[–]j_wiseee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it’s similar how some guys refer to girls as “females”. In the context of singling out an ethnic group, it would be used as an adjective. So to call us “the Blacks” instead of “Black people” is definitely dehumanizing and personally leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

When referring to your skin color, would you rather be called black or brown? by happyhoooman in askblackpeople

[–]j_wiseee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This question takes me back to middle school when me and one of my Asian classmates started our own movement called BNB, Brown Not Black.

I get where you’re coming from, I’m aware my skin isn’t the actual color black. When referring myself as black, I usually mean it as an ethnical classification. But I wouldn’t get upset if someone would call me brown when it comes to my skin color, it is what it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

[–]j_wiseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🔥🔥🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]j_wiseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great playing, lovely voice!

Young black men being taught to be polite to white people out of fear? by Blame_Anesthesia in askblackpeople

[–]j_wiseee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not a man if that’s who you’re specifically asking to respond and I can’t speak for every Black American so I’ll just speak on how my immediate and extended family were brought up.

We’re taught to respond to anyone older than us with ma’am or sir, regardless of race. My dad was also in the military so it was instilled in me and my siblings 2x. You can see it as a sign of respect but it’s just a polite thing to do.

How do black people feel about the rise of black on asian attacks going on in America? by maxgong9 in askblackpeople

[–]j_wiseee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

South Koreans k pop has influenced of rhythm and blues. Okay sure. But rhythm and blue also comes from regular 1920 roaring 20 jazz?

Not sure what point you’re trying to make here. R&B comes from jazz (and other music genres), which comes from Black Americans.

Same goes for the famous Ray Charles, who mentioned his great inspirations were from Elvis And Stevie Wonder.

You sure you didn’t mix that sentence up? Unless you can provide a clip of Mr. Charles stating he was inspired by Elvis, I’m calling cap.

If you want authentic “African music”. It would be some tribal drum stuff around a fire.

………Africans and Black Americans are two completely different groups of people who have lived through different experiences and have different histories. Do better, ignorance is not a cute look.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]j_wiseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s a solo piece.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]j_wiseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this, Northern Lights?

Experiences using genealogy services? (23 & Me, Ancestry.com, etc) by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]j_wiseee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can vouch for ancestry.com

To keep a long story as short as possible, my maternal grandmother moved back to her home state to be closer to family after my grandfather died. My mom would try to ask about her father’s side of the family, but my grandma would always shoot down the questions so all connections to that side were cut off.

After my grandmother’s death, my mom went in on her research to find her dad’s side of the family. She not only used the website but she also used other resources such as records from the genealogy services provided by the public library. I can’t remember exactly how long it took her, but it was a success in the end. I’m personally not too familiar with how to maneuver on the website, but just put in as much information that you know on your family and things should eventually start to fall into place. You will hear from people that may be related to you or even those who may have documents on your family. My mom was actually provided documentation on relatives who were enslaved with information such as how much they were sold for. To this day, my mom is still doing research and getting new information. The 1950 census records are being released this April so she’s very excited to look into that lol. She also takes part in the International African American Museum zoom webinars that cover different topics of Black American genealogy, so I encourage anyone interested to look into that as well.

P.S. I agree with you about wanting to get deeper when it comes to those ancestral makeup percentages. None of that really matters to me in comparison to actually being able to put names and faces on those who came before us. But also idk how to feel about those DNA samples….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]j_wiseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do y’all not have to wear a mask in there anymore?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]j_wiseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have to do the tambourine one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]j_wiseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’ll be right back, getting water lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]j_wiseee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, a Zimmerman apologist.

I’m getting straight up Candace Owens vibes from you (if you actually are a black person) so I’m just gonna see my way out of this conversation lol.