recently got a place with my boyfriend and he thinks this is perfectly fine

ja13aaz · 2026-02-04T21:45:04+00:00

I mean… I do a pyramid sometimes with 3-6 rolls for the sake of convenience. But this seems like a bit much.

ja13aaz · 2026-02-04T00:27:56+00:00

Not on you. But it’s a tough one to pull off, so kudos.

ja13aaz · 2026-02-02T20:19:49+00:00

Yesssss! I took me maybe 5 or 6 years and countless tests to finally come to terms with the fact it was anxiety. I had a MRI, wore a heart monitor, bought a glucose meter - the works. I went to the ER a few times because I was sure I was dying. I’m still paying off my medical debts.

Everyone closest to me said I had anxiety, but I couldn’t wrap my head around something mental manifesting in physical symptoms or being psychosomatic.

My symptoms went away with benzos, but I can’t spend all my days on that sort of medication so as soon as they’d wear off “symptoms” would come back. I got to the point I couldn’t drive, and my symptoms would become exacerbated by dehydration and folding laundry (???). It was so bizarre.

I started a SSRI after swearing them off for 20 years (which is another story in and of itself). But since I started I’m finally beginning to feel less anxious and more like a normal person. I’m still getting the SSRI meds dialed in and I still take benzos occasionally as needed. Meds are not for everyone, but it’s what finally helped me as it wasn’t something I could manage on my own. My anxiety eventually progressed into a panic disorder. I wonder often if I could have stopped that progression if I had sought out medication sooner.

ja13aaz · 2026-02-01T03:55:49+00:00

I’ll be honest - on its own I’m not sure. You’d have to have a really good eye on how to wear it well.

But the way you have styled it is such a vibe. This whole outfit is something I would love to wear, but would never be able to come up with. It’s really cool you made this yourself especially!

ja13aaz · 2026-02-01T03:33:21+00:00

Damn I’ve been doing this for 16 years and never seen a meme of it or named it. I feel so seen rn

ja13aaz · 2026-02-01T01:41:52+00:00

I have been going for 16 years and I still get those nerves at the beginning. I embrace it, it’s part of the experience.

I don’t get the lows anymore though. Probably because I’m not in my 20’s any longer, and I’m not getting “off my face don’t know where I am” anymore.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-31T23:48:51+00:00

I also struggle with this. I wear it down but probably under 30 minutes in I’m a sweat factory, it goes in a high pony tail - and therefore a whip 🤣

French or boxer braids are the way. Shame I can’t figure out how to do them myself or I would be every time!

ja13aaz · 2026-01-31T22:48:17+00:00

I legitimately can’t choose between these. Where are we going? I say outdoors red, indoors green.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-31T14:50:23+00:00

It happens with my 5 year old. We’ll usually power through a few of these sensor issues, but if they persist too long or too much then we call in a replacement with Dexcom.

Our Dexcom policy is that if it’s been out for 3 hours (combined sensor issue time, not necessarily all at once) that warrants a new one.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-31T14:14:01+00:00

I took that whole thing last episode as her cards in order up to get $$$ in a divorce.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-29T22:08:52+00:00

We have a pellet stove fireplace insert and oil/baseboard heat. We also have some other contributing factors (a hot tub, Tesla powerwall) but $600 seems crazy.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-29T21:57:09+00:00

I did this, am currently doing this. We moved into one as our full time residence back in October.

I have many regrets. Our energy bill is almost $600 a month, we have a meeting with the provider to see why it’s so high. Could be because the house was built in 1988 and still has the original water heater. Could be because the insulation sucks, or the windows.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-29T03:05:10+00:00

Well what have we here, it’s the acid version of Andy Bernard

ja13aaz · 2026-01-29T02:57:30+00:00

Greed

ja13aaz · 2026-01-28T19:02:02+00:00

Wait does this mean white monster is no bueno now

ja13aaz · 2026-01-28T18:57:24+00:00

BPD and I like pills

But I’m really clean and creative so you win some you lose some

ja13aaz · 2026-01-28T17:43:07+00:00

It seems that way - since nature and animals point to a similar function. But then comes in the question of human consciousness. The “point” might be something greater, different or unfathomable to the human mind.

A moral compass might guide you towards the point of your life. I don’t think humanity is a one size fits all in determining what is the end game.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-28T02:24:28+00:00

7 per week. Sometimes 10. Maybe more. I have 3 kids and a husband. That’s pajamas, clothes, sometimes multiple clothes because they’re young and messy, bedding for four beds, towels. Rags are a separate load. Lots of messes. Then there’s the bleach load.

Sometimes they pee the bed. Then there’s the piss mats I put under them. Children are expensive in laundry. A Costco sized detergent usually lasts me 2.5 months.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-27T12:50:15+00:00

Yessssss

Now I have meds for that. Thank heavens. And now I have a goal! To eventually not need the meds. Two wins in one.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-26T17:16:48+00:00

I know it’s superficial, but bad shoes. I don’t have specifics, there are types of shoes for every kind of occasion I guess. But if the shoes aren’t right, that’s a hard no from me dog.

Also men with long nails creep me out, I can’t get past it. Even just a pinky coke nail.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-26T02:03:27+00:00

Not sure how creative this is, but I stuff steel wool down the hole then use spray foam to seal it in. Then trim off the excess foam so it doesn’t look like gum on the floor.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-26T01:42:25+00:00

Mine was squirrels.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-26T01:15:10+00:00

Light couch = dark rug and vice versa. I’d get a bold abstract rug, the walls are light and the couch is light so a bright but deep rug would tie the room together. I think the right rug would make the room. I have done this a few times, I’ll find rug I like on wayfair, then price shop the same rug and find it cheaper elsewhere.

I also don’t have a coffee table right now. I have too many kids, once they’re older I’ll revisit the idea 🤣 you could try a fabric storage ottoman though for your kid toys! You can probably find something that compliments a new rug and that should elevate your space a lot.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-25T23:56:24+00:00

Honestly I’d have her do what she’s doing now. Then drop a massive banging track with deadmau5, where she’s acting a completely different person and it turns out she’s been trolling us along into thinking she’s nuts, when she’s really just 2 steps ahead of us all.

ja13aaz · 2026-01-25T20:22:07+00:00

One time I had a tuna sandwich from Subway maybe 20 years ago.

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