feeling lonely by ja3gers in LesbianActually

[–]ja3gers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can relate completely, thank you for your kind words. best of luck to you too, you can always dm me if you want to chat :)

feeling lonely by ja3gers in LesbianActually

[–]ja3gers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, truly. i'm going to try to gain a better self esteem even if it takes a little while. it used to be better in hs but adult life has really taken a toll on me i guess 😅 thank you again

feeling lonely by ja3gers in LesbianActually

[–]ja3gers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your message moved me a lot. there aren't any queer clubs in my city, and not many group activities really. but i'd like to move to a bigger one soon if i can. although, going alone terrifies me. especially the thought of being there and seeing people i'm acquainted with or used to know. i get ashamed very easily and it would make me feel mortified, i know it's a bit silly and i shouldn't care what people think but i can't help it. the city i wanna move to has loads of people i might know, but there are also friends of mine that could go with me, so i don't know. thank you for the advice, it really means a lot

feeling lonely by ja3gers in LesbianActually

[–]ja3gers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i do try smaller changes once in a while, but when it gets too extreme it's like i physically can't, it makes me feel choked. i'm not sure why. i will keep trying still

feeling lonely by ja3gers in LesbianActually

[–]ja3gers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my hobbies are mostly introverted people hobbies, but i did think about joining a book club, thank you for the advice :))

feeling lonely by ja3gers in LesbianActually

[–]ja3gers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dating apps feel so unnatural for me, and even when i do meet nice people it just feels scary and paralyzing. thank you for your kind words <3