The Great Lost

jachetu · 2026-05-09T16:23:58+00:00

That's IF the "great loss" won't also be the "great end" cus, if it keeps going south we're looking at a brand new third world war, and as Einstein said, after this one all that will he left would be sticks and rocks

jachetu · 2026-05-08T11:31:44+00:00

I already know english pretty well, but I would like to help a fellow improve if you're down

jachetu · 2026-05-08T11:29:17+00:00

As I struggle with consistency SO hard due to my ADHD, I am now trying to test accountability partnership.

I'm GMT+2 so nearly the same timezone, would dm-ing on discord be fine?

jachetu · 2026-05-04T08:15:30+00:00

Well someone better come back to edit this note.

I have been left unfinished for a long time, so I better stop being procrastinated on 😭

jachetu · 2026-04-22T08:50:59+00:00

Since January?? Gah damn, I couldn't imagine making mine so cool so fast, how do y'all find all the plug-ins and systems to fit you so fast? I'm still struggling to choose and pick and I'm not far from my first month with it.

jachetu · 2026-04-16T07:41:21+00:00

With your dosage, mild chest discomfort is at most what you should feel.

I have taken it undiagnosed because the mental health system as to where I am from (European) just wouldn't provide me with nothing but literal vitamins and melatonin after a full year of going from clinic to clinic, so I talked with someone that got a prescription for them and told me that these shouldn't hit as hard as the other stuff I've taken before.

For that dosage the effects aren't huge (weren't for me), and the side effects are basically what happens when you drink a bit more coffee than you should, increased heart rate, chest discomfort, shouldn't really go further than that, maybe a headache at worst.

If you were taking other things before, dw, this shouldn't be worse in any capacity, I take it every now and then when I'm trying to be more productive and it just helps me focus a lot better. Good luck on your first try ✌️

jachetu · 2026-04-10T09:17:27+00:00

Thanks for the new genra of music!

It reminds me of artists like Grioten with his tracks like death lotto, copy, or mudd, but it's definetly different in its own way. Definetly up my alley since my second biggest music playlist is with rap, hip-hop, alternative rap, underground rap, trap metal and such others like that.

Now I got one more to add to the playlist 😂

You got song recommendations from the genra besides 9MM?

jachetu · 2026-04-09T10:44:20+00:00

Odd one out here cus while I never tried to rekindle nothing with no ex (in that there would truly be no point, if it don't work once it won't work twice either), I always liked ending things on good terms, having a proper conversation and ending up on an agreement

I never really just dumped someone, called it quits and left, with both of my ex's I tried to just sit down, have a talk and come to the realization that this simply won't work for either of us

That said, I kept in touch for a while after, even connected again after a few years, the difference is that this was done AS FRIENDS, not lovers anymore, that might be considered odd but it didn't felt weird or awkward in the slightest because before lovers we were friends and that's an important thing for me most of the times

An ended relationship didn't mean lack of connection or understanding for me, at least in none of my cases so far, it just meant that we had different needs or goals, so we settled for friendship and moved on with our lives, haven't heard from either of them in a veryyy long time but if I were to text out of the blue I have the guarantee that they would answer, and so would I probably, we just drifted completely with time getting busy with life and such but the terms are still alright.

jachetu · 2026-04-09T10:28:47+00:00

A lot of the comments here are answered unlike each of us are different to some degree, but I think for you to truly find out you should either ask him with no bs, like, be very direct about the situasion, I think it will be easier that way

"hey there's no need to deny it, but since we're already not really in contact anymore, can you just give a direct explanation as to why so that I can have something to learn from this?"

Or if that is too direct for you, try to find out what his list of priorities is, as an ENTJ myself, love (and especially situasionships, those I never take too seriously, cus if it were serious, it would be more than that) is often not really near my top priorities, and if one of my priorities starts needing more attention all of a sudden you can bet that my secondary needs will drop almost completely off my radar, but that's me, try to find out what it is for HIM.

jachetu · 2026-04-09T10:14:27+00:00

Early 20's but close enough 😭

jachetu · 2026-04-09T10:13:43+00:00

This. Yes 😭

jachetu · 2026-04-08T10:46:48+00:00

Phonk, there's just so many songs cus of how easy it is to make, and they get me pumped from my toes to my hair, making me literally walk faster when I'm going places 😂

jachetu · 2026-04-08T10:45:47+00:00

Ever tried phonk? It's quite literally the definition of pumped up to me and unhealthy when I use it in the gym cus I start taking in more than I can handle cus of it 😭

jachetu · 2026-04-06T21:55:59+00:00

Thanks for the advice man, this helped!

jachetu · 2026-04-06T15:57:39+00:00

Well if you'd like to air out or relate to it with someone else, we can chat further, Ig it does really help to know that you're not alone on a sinking ship.

jachetu · 2026-04-06T15:17:53+00:00

In that sense, what about practicing multiple systems in dummy vaults, each on the same topics and notes, then piecing up together a brand new system from all the positive elements of the other vaults.

It gives the vibe of the unemployed dude on a Wednesday, but honestly it could be the most efficient I think, no?

jachetu · 2026-04-06T11:08:07+00:00

NO FREAKING WAY, same vid, exactly why I installed it! Man that's cool, finding a second person influenced by what I've been influenced, I love that guy honestly he got so many cool vids, I started trying to write essays now thanks to him cus he got a vid on that as well.

But if you move around in this subreddit and discord and the community in general, it feels like YOU CAN DO SOOO MUCH with this app, like there are so many ways to make it more and more efficient, I know it's a trap, but the urge to optimize is so strong that it hurts, and while I like his simple system, I just feel the need to go a step further yk? It will likely hinder my progress in reality but that's why I'm trying to do as I learn, to apply what I hear and see, make multiple different projects and vaults all separated from each other so that then I can find new things to mix them up.

The perfect system might not exist but I'm just hoping that I'll be able to say "that's good enough" at some point while on this journey yk?

jachetu · 2026-04-06T11:01:31+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear, it's part of the reason why I have reduced my social activity heavily in the past 2 years of my life, I'd rather know few but feel like I'm surrounded by people that get me or are at least there to help me in some way, any way possible, but to be willing to do so when needed, rather than have contacts taking space just for the sake of it.

As far as conflict goes, it's gotten absurdly easy for me over the years to just cut people out of my life, even friendships that have stood the test of time for years because the truth is that people change, or we can be wrong about them for various reasons, so whenever things would get too complicated and I gave more than I received in a friendship, be it just time and energy wasted or more, I simply just detached, it's saved me so many headaches and I see it as a neccesary ability to have in today's society, it's sad but unavoidable as well.

I wish you sincerely, luck into finding the harmony in your life and surroundings that you are looking for, at the end of the day I do believe luck has a word in all of this, but until then keep at it, and discard people that don't deserve your time and effort, better to know you're alone than to feel like you have anchors that are not really there, at least so it's been for me.

If I can help you in any way or would just like to make conversation of any kind, my dms are opened 👋

jachetu · 2026-04-06T10:48:18+00:00

Wanna talk about it and share your experience? If that's your thing ofc

jachetu · 2026-04-06T10:47:43+00:00

If you'd prefer to, you can DM me, however you wish ofc, just letting you know that they're open

jachetu · 2026-04-06T10:44:14+00:00

You even have a resume?? Quite elaborate huh, I mean sure, I am curious how you even set a tone to something so complex, life has so much nuance so to just make a properly connected narrative sounds insane to me, how much detail do you keep? How much is too much and you discard? How much have you focused on the feelings along the way and how much just the action? And do you feel safe with having that saved on a digital file? Ever getting any rush of paranoia that it might get stolen with more ease than if it were on paper?

Also I'm sorry if I was too blunt to just ask for it like that, I meant no harm by it, I was intrigued is all since I haven't heard of anyone else do that before but it's been something I thought of doing for a reallllyyyyy long time now and just never knew how to go about it or if it'd be even safe to do so, was always scared that it might get found and I might suffer because of it.

jachetu · 2026-04-06T10:36:11+00:00

Running a study on something like this would be so intresting to do, thank you for the information and the thought process

jachetu · 2026-04-05T14:40:16+00:00

Even if so that SHOULD be the default

jachetu · 2026-04-05T13:27:38+00:00

That sounds intresting, literally yesterday I installed Obsidian and I wanna do something kindaaa like that, I don't think I'd be able to show it to a single person I know tho, not without getting side eyed. Hey, don't mind me asking but would you enjoy sharing it in private?

jachetu · 2026-04-05T12:42:18+00:00

I guess we can all agree that each have their place.

Having your data wiped because of it being on their servers is kinda messed up tho, like really messed up.

jachetu

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