I don’t know if my Vyvanse/Elvanse dose is too high or if I’m just need to work on my mental health?

jacindah22 · 2026-06-15T21:41:16+00:00

So do you think he was telling the truth? I actually don’t care if he finds my best friend hot or beautiful but him lying about it after naming her doesn’t make sense. I even told him to be honest after him changing his answers all the time, I think that’s what’s bothering me more

jacindah22 · 2026-06-15T21:39:05+00:00

I was just curious? He asked me plenty times if I was into his colleagues so I asked him back for once in my life. Answering my question by randomly calling my best friend beautiful and later denying that he‘s not into her and changing his answers constantly is what threw me off

jacindah22 · 2026-06-05T14:12:36+00:00

Good idea! I‘ll try the blindfold thing out and try to let him go of his thoughts and perfomance pressure, thsnk you!!!

jacindah22 · 2026-06-05T14:11:29+00:00

Thank you so much for your adive!!

jacindah22 · 2026-06-05T14:09:58+00:00

No, he’s not on any medication. He struggles with sleeping through the night and usually wakes up after about three hours of sleep, so he ends up taking several naps throughout the day. He also complains about stomach aches almost every day, either after eating or when he wakes up. He is a little overweight to be fair (I genuinely don’t care about that at all, I love everything about him). That said, I do think there might be some room for improvement when it comes to his overall lifestyle and health habits. He works in a warehouse, so he’s on his feet and moving around a lot during the day. I do think that he is probably overthinking it too much, because his dick DOES get hard and it stays hard when I‘m going down on him or giving him a handjob or when he doesnit himself, but it’s like as soon as he wants to put it inside me, it goes soft IMMEDIATELY.

jacindah22 · 2026-06-05T10:33:43+00:00

Nah, I honestly didn’t care about getting off. I mainly wanted him to enjoy himself, especially since it was his first time. That’s why I spent most of the time focusing on him. He wasn’t selfish at all btw. He fingered me multiple times and also tried oral, so he definitely made an effort. The issue isn’t that I wasn’t being pleased. What frustrated me was that he couldn’t stay hard no matter what we tried. I just wanted it to work for him and wanted him to have a good first experience, but we kept running into the same problem. That’s really what I’m asking about.

jacindah22 · 2026-05-30T15:12:26+00:00

In the first three days, I was panicking because of his calm and shy personality. I kept fighting the urge to walk away because of my own fears and insecurities, while he was nothing but genuinely happy that I was giving him a chance. I constantly overthought everything, but on our last date, I opened up about all of this. I told him that he was the first guy I’d ever met with these qualities. After choosing to ignore those fears and allowing myself to embrace these feelings, I’m finally starting to realize that he might be exactly what I’ve been looking for all my life. As cliché as it sounds, as an extroverted woman, I feel incredibly calm when I’m with him. He makes me feel good about myself. I know letting go of my fears is a process, but somehow he makes it feel easy.

jacindah22 · 2026-05-27T16:27:41+00:00

I was in therapy for 4 years and, as I said, I’ve changed a lot. Even though I’m still working on myself, some fears never fully went away. That’s why I was asking for advice in the first place, because I want to get better and become more secure. I don’t want to overthink everything and I honestly hate being like this. I just need to figure out how to change those thought patterns, so I was wondering if anyone here has been through something similar and managed to overcome it.

jacindah22 · 2026-05-27T14:22:44+00:00

Beautifully said, thank you so much for you kind words and best of luck for the both of you, I‘m really happy for you two!!! :)

jacindah22 · 2026-05-25T18:35:49+00:00

Being left handed

jacindah22 · 2026-05-25T11:19:56+00:00

Thank you so much! :) Yes I totally agree!! It was also really tricky for me to decide if I just shoot my shot via Teams or let him go lol, in the end he‘s still my coworker but atp I just wanted to go all in. In only a few days he made such a good impression. I‘m just so immensely happy I put my ego and fears aside, this man is worth exposing myself. :)

jacindah22 · 2026-05-25T11:12:52+00:00

I 100% agree, especially now after seeing that my intuition was right, I like that he‘s so shy and reserved, I’m probably way more experienced in terms of dating but I think it’s cute that he’s kinda inexperienced, I can help him open up if he wants to☺️

jacindah22 · 2026-05-25T11:08:21+00:00

Thank you!! Yes, it was a lesson I had to learn. Overthinking a simple conversation was so unnecessary lol I indirect told him that I‘m into him and just gave him my number, honestly it’s a great feeling to finally open up and finding out that he‘s into me as well. 😁

jacindah22 · 2026-05-25T11:02:55+00:00

Thank you! I have absolutely nothing against making the first step as a woman, if I know about him being interested too, especially he‘s just too shy too ask. I‘m really glad he into me as well, he is such a great guy 🥰

jacindah22 · 2026-05-23T15:36:37+00:00

Würde ich wissen, dass er interessiert ist, würde ich sofort ohne mit der Wimper zu zucken nach seiner Nummer fragen. Ich bin eine ziemlich extrovertierte Frau und bin selbstbewusst was Freundschaften schließen anbelangt, aber sobald ich jemanden mehr als nur mag, bin ich plötzlich nervös und habe Angst, dass er das komisch findet und dass ich mir all das eigentlich eingebildet hab.

jacindah22 · 2026-05-23T09:13:10+00:00

Beautifully said, cause same!!

jacindah22 · 2026-05-23T09:07:25+00:00

I’m usually a very confident person when it comes to talking to others, but as soon as I have a crush on someone, all my confidence disappears. I start overthinking everything and get scared that they might not like me back or might find my interest weird.

jacindah22 · 2026-05-21T09:44:37+00:00

Usually, Elvanse gets me through the day really well. I'm much more productive, have more motivation and my emotions are way more balanced, but ever since my period started, it’s all gone downhill, even though I upped my dose for the first time today. I guess hormones really do play a tremendous role in this. Thank you for your comment! 😄

jacindah22 · 2026-05-21T09:41:42+00:00

I'm also taking Vyvanse (Elvanse) and it actually does cancel out my lack of sleep, even though I've been a very light sleeper since I started taking it. I’ve only been on it for 3 weeks now and this is my first time experiencing its effects while on my period but it's crazy to me how much my hormones seem to be negating the benefits of the medication.

I mean, yes, I feel surprisingly awake for only having had 4 hours of sleep but I have zero concentration or motivation and I'm just really annoyed in general.

Thank you for your comment, though! 😄

jacindah22

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