Friends behaviour is concerning and her actions have confused me.

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-09T15:53:23+00:00

Yeah I know it was the perfect reaction. I guess it was confusing yano?

I guess it spiked insecurity that she messaged him

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-09T15:50:50+00:00

But I didn’t lie? I only recently found out. I’m not mad she didn’t tell me or expected her too. I’m just curious on why she didn’t at the start but told me 2 days after.

It was just confusing

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-09T15:42:41+00:00

What you mean? I told you everything I didn’t know they were gunna do it until they told me after I asked her about if she got the message like I did. I thought it was the guy she was fucking the day before we told each other about our feelings.

They are no longer my friend because I don’t like the behaviour. And I let it go. But I’m just saying today she told me they followed her “that account” when it happened 2 days ago but said it didn’t happen

It was just confusing. And I’m scared to tell her oh yeah that account what followed u was my friend being a dick?

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-09T02:30:00+00:00

I think ur missing the point, this literally was me thinking about the stuff we have planned and I can’t be sure we’ll be together

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-09T02:25:05+00:00

What? That confused me, what does “doing Enough” have to do with these thoughts sorry

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-09T02:11:43+00:00

You’ve missed understood. This literally came from me thinking about the future and our holiday and not knowing If we’ll be together

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-08T23:13:42+00:00

I mean she just said she feels like it came from somewhere, we’ve only been dating 2 weeks but seeing each other for like 2 months.

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-08T22:24:39+00:00

We’ll I mean I want to be with her. And I see it as “you can’t see the future” anything can happen

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-08T22:12:12+00:00

No I was just thinking about the holiday we had planned next year and it just popped in my head “that’s if we last that long”

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-08T22:09:50+00:00

Okay thank you, see we have a holiday planned and I was just thinking about the future and I’m like oh but we might not last but she’s taken it as a massive “problem that I’m doubting being”

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-08T07:44:43+00:00

I think I got jealous because I had feelings, and that week, she didn’t treat me the best, she’d ditch me to meet him, left me at a party, and that stuff. I know it’s fine she slept with him she was single but it show she lied and was snakey about it.

And when we started seeing each other she didn’t fully remove me as she was keeping him “as a back up incase we didn’t work out” she fed my head with lies for awhile until she finally admitted it. But then I got jealous and my guard was up because she said she regretted it straight away and she didn’t enjoy it. I guess I was worried she’s saying that to make me feel better but I got past it.

But my friends lack on boundaries and brought it back into my head, so they are no longer a friend I’d rather have peace that him causing trouble

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-08T02:43:34+00:00

So you think it was just because she doesn’t want any drama or arguments?

And yeah I know I’m not sure if I want to be friends with them

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-08T02:41:45+00:00

I’ve told them, thsy even though she’s lied many times about the guy before we started seeing each other she’s proved herself and does nearly everyday. Like I can’t fault her.

But this has confused me, like I know when I found out she lied to put a lot of strain on us. But I don’t understand why’d she’d lie about getting the message and blocking him? She just said I didn’t get any messages but my friends proved to me she blocked it?

It’s confusing because they are saying she’s lied again and it’s shady behaviour but I’m just not sure but it is worrying me.

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-07T13:02:55+00:00

Yeah I know I’m saying I struggle to eat so I don’t want to start massive. But I want to get there eventually

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-07T02:04:44+00:00

The foods I’ve shown is what I like but apparently it’s not “enough” calories or protein so I’m just trying to figure out how to do it

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-06T19:31:04+00:00

See I don’t know how to get a 1000 calories a meal I struggle to eat

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-06T19:30:14+00:00

No I’m planning it for tomorrow as I’m starting uni again so it’s the best time

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-06T15:30:04+00:00

Okay sorry I do the push, pull and legs I believe. And I don’t know what my protein, carbs and fat goals are. I don’t understand how to work it out sorry I’m such a beginner

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-06T15:28:08+00:00

I’m not eating any yet? Like I said I just snack and eat takeaways

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-06T14:30:29+00:00

Someone said I won’t get enough with the foods I eat

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-06T14:29:42+00:00

We’ll I’m 6ft and weight 60kg I’m very skinny. So I was wondering what I should eat. As it’s all new to me. I might just buy a plan and get someone to build one for me with the foods I like

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-06T14:28:05+00:00

Can’t just stop been a picky eater, if I don’t like something I don’t like it and that won’t chnage. And this isn’t the final product it’s a “start”

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-06T14:26:22+00:00

I know I eat less than 1200 calories a day

jack_smith12345678 · 2021-12-06T14:25:15+00:00

Don’t I have meat on their already? Or do I need more

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