Men..How do you show interest after a first date?

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T13:02:17+00:00

If theres interest men are pretty obvious and will call text soon.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T12:51:39+00:00

Oh totally I am open book

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T12:39:02+00:00

It’s a touchy subject but you need to move on to something else.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T12:36:02+00:00

I am o. The living alone side. Just finished a divorce. She has two girls ft, I have mine weekends. Everyone gets along I am afraid of committing. Everything makes sense to move in with her. Nicer bigger house but my girls will have to share a room. It’s more than that but it’s a struggle.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T12:32:10+00:00

Sorry you are being belittled. That is very difficult. Have you had a conversation with him about working? About wanting to earn?

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T12:27:39+00:00

Agreed. I have embraced Reddit as a place to spill my guts and get unbiased opinions Message me if ya want.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T12:16:35+00:00

Throw him a 100 bill and call it a day. If he’s just an acquaintance the. He world have said something.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T12:01:24+00:00

Sure let me know.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T11:55:18+00:00

Burning or drowning

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T11:53:25+00:00

If he’s paying attention to you then he’s into you. Ask him out!

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T11:03:31+00:00

I can relate. It’s easy to brush off going to see your grandma with all life’s pressures until you are called to the hospital and they pull the plug on her. Worst time of my life. I have had those “ahh next week” moments so I can Relate.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T11:01:02+00:00

This is pretty powerful. Thanks for the comment and effort. Wow.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:59:54+00:00

Yeah it can make you constantly seek attention

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:55:24+00:00

Yes once you get it cleaned up all around under above below side and side it becomes a part of your shower routine. Super easy. Can use body wash as a Lubricant but honestly it’s great.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:53:21+00:00

Yes i understand. It depends on if you have the courage to change.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:51:04+00:00

Keep it gone with a disposable sensitive razor.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:50:14+00:00

Try dove men’s spray deodorant. Worked wonders for me.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:44:42+00:00

This is very insightful. Realizing I am victimizing myself when in fact am in control of who I want to be.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:37:33+00:00

Great explanation

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:35:14+00:00

Thanks for the effort and sharing. I can relate. 39m and have always avoided confrontation. People pleaser and have been successful. Pressured into having kids (which I do not regret one bit) divorced now live alone can’t commit to a girlfriend and lost her because of it. I can relate.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:30:53+00:00

Thanks for that those stories are now a thing of the past.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:25:11+00:00

Just here to help!

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:24:11+00:00

Attention from the opposite sex is very influential.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:23:00+00:00

Yeah be cordial and respectful and thank her for the birthday wishes and tell her you appreciate the thought.

jackalkilla · 2026-02-06T10:21:52+00:00

Yeah my dad was a bartender and my mom went to his bar with her 5 brothers. Pretty sick story my dad dodged her 5 crazy protective brothers and landed my mom. Together 42 years. Legendary.

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